Tsoka ilo, si amuna onse omwe ali ndi mphamvu zakukhulupirika kwa mkazi m'modzi. Kusankha Wachisoni, bambo amayamba kungonena mwachizolowezi, amangoyang'anira nthawi zonse, mkaziyo amayamba kuona kuti wosankhidwa akumamupangitsa kuti amveke kunyumba. Komabe, akatswiri amisala anazindikira momwe mnzake sanayesere kukhala wodekha, pali ziganizo zina zomwe zimamangiza mkazi kuti m'moyo wake, mwina palinso ena, kapenanso azimayi ochepa.
"Osakhudza zinthu zanga, inenso"
Ngati mumatha kuthana ndi kusamba ndi kusanja zinthu mwa anzanu nokha, kusintha kwa maudindo kukuyenera kukuchenjezani. Monga lamulo, bambo amene akudziwa kuti mkaziyo azisamalira nthawi zonse za banja, sadzathetsa pang'ono kuti alowe nawo. Kuopa kuwonetsedwa, kumatha kuphatikiza munthu chidwi chofuna kuchapa, kukonza zinthu, ndi okhawo. Pali chifukwa chokhalira tcheru. Komabe, zindikirani kuti kukayikira kuyenera kubadwa kokha ngati umunthu wotere sunawone nthawi yonse yogwirizana.
"Ndikhalanso lero, musandidikirire"
Ndiponso, timayang'ana pafupipafupi m'makhalidwe a munthu. Ngati kuyambira pachibwenzi "ngwazi ya buku lanu" idachedwa kuntchito, ndipo abwenzi ake adachedwa kudandaula za ntchito za Bungweli, zonse zili bwino. Njira "Kuthana" Pakatseguka Pamene munthu ayamba kutsamira kuchokera ku nthawi yolumikizana, amabwera mosamala ngati mlengalenga ali mu awiri, kulumikizana ndi katswiri wazamaphunziro ndi anu mnzake.
Mwamuna amayamba kukupatsirani mosayembekezereka
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"Kodi umandisintha mwachisawawa?"
Amuna omwe ali ndi "skeletoni" monga mawonekedwe a ochita chidwi, kapena ngakhale imodzi, imayamba kukayikira aliyense mwa onse - mayi wawo. Akuyamba kuwoneka kuti popeza adaganiza zopita kumanzere "zomwe zimalepheretsa mnzake? Simungathenso kuloleza malingaliro amenewo, koma mwamunayo saima. Nthawi zambiri, mwanjira iyi bambo akuyesera kuyambitsa kudziimba mlandu mwa mkazi ngakhale asanayambe kukayikira china chake. Musalole kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama.
"Sindiyenera Kufotokozera Chilichonse"
Ngati muli ndi chidaliro m'CDOPANO CHAKE kapenanso anapeza makalata ndi mkazi wina, osati kuti wokondedwa akuthamangira kwa inu opepesa. Mwamuna akhoza kupita "pakuwukira", nalankhula ufulu wake kukhala chete. Mutha kuyamba kuneneza kukayikira, kukayikira kosafunikira komanso kusokonezeka kwa m'maganizo, ngati mwachitaponda nyama kulikonse. Komabe, munthu yemwe alibe chilichonse chobisalira akuyenera kufotokoza kuti uyu ndi mkazi yemwe munthu amachititsa kuti akhale makalata komanso momwe amagwirizanirana. Kuchita kwa Mphepo kwa mafunso anu pafupifupi kumatsimikizira kusakhulupirika.
"Ndi Zonse"
Ndi mkhalidwe wapamtima, mwazindikira kuti kukhulupirika kwakeko kunalibe, ndipo mwina bambo sangazindikire kulakwa kwake. Oweruza a "Chipani Chachitatu" Adzapitako, amati, "Sindinachite cholakwika chilichonse, tinandinyenga." Pali chiopsezo chodzanong'oneza bondo ndi kukhulupilira kuti chisoni cha Astress, koma sichofunikira kuwonetsa chidwi - munthu womvetsetsa bwino lomwe ndi lomwe amadzitengera yekha ndikuchita Gonjerani kusokoneza zotsimikizira kuti izi sizichitikanso.
"Ndizo zonse"
Mtundu wina wa zochitika ndi kukutsutsani. "Nthawi zonse mumakhala otanganidwa", "muli ndi mutu" kenako pamndandanda. MUNTHU amakhulupirira ndi mtima wonse kuti kukakamiza kwake kumamulola kutuluka mu "owuma m'madzi", chifukwa m'malingaliro ake, inu nokha ndinu olakwa. Komanso ndizosavuta kuti ndikhumudwe ndikukhumudwa kwambiri, makamaka ngati pali zovuta muubwenzi wanu. Ndipo komabe mkhalidwe wanu ndi kutsutsana kukana sikungakhale "kuwala" kwa woweta.
"Ndimakukondani"
Koma kubwerera ku mavutowo kutakalipo koyambirira kukalankhula za munthu wachigololo. Mwamuna akhoza kuyamba mwadzidzidzi kuti ndiwe woti inu nokha, timakukondani nokha, azimayi ena alibe tanthauzo - amalimbikitsa kuti ndi apamwamba kuposa akazi ena. Ganizirani za chifukwa chake mwadzidzidzi anali kudziwa za kukwaniritsidwa kwa chiyani komanso kwanthawi zonse kwa nthawi yonse yaubwenzi wanu? Kodi pali chifukwa chofananira? Sonyezani kukhala maso.