Mary Schreir adadziphatikiza yekha ndi gawo la mwana wake wamkazi, mkazi wake, amayi ake ndi china chilichonse kuchokera ku mtundu wa Kennes Kennedy / Shriver. Koma atatayika kwambiri - kufa kwa makolo ake ndi amalume a kumwalira, kutha kwa ukwati ndi Arnold Schwarzenegger - "kukonzanso" ndikutsegula chaputala chatsopano cha moyo. Kuyankhulana Kuyankhulana ndi Mary Schryver ndi Winfrey Obra.
Ndisanapite kukagona, pali mabuku angapo omwe ndimawaganizira kuti atonthole komanso omasuka. Posakhalitsa ndidaonera buku latsopano pamndandanda womwe uli m'manja mwa Maria Shrirver. Uyu ndiye mkulu wauzimu amapita kukamvetsetsa bwino za udindo wake padziko lapansi. Inde, monga Mariya adanenera, iye, monga tonsefe, kumenya nkhondo kuti tisabwerere ndi kulimba mtima ndi kutseguka. Ndine abwenzi ndi Maria kuyambira 1978, titagwira ntchito pa kanema wa baltimore, motero misonkhanoyi inali ngati bocheloreter kuposa kuyankhulana pamene tikuyerekeza zokambirana paukalamba, chisoni, ndale ndi tanthauzo lake la chisangalalo.
OPRA: Maria, pamene ndimakonzekera kuyankhulana nanu, ndikuwerenganso tsamba lililonse la buku lanu. Amaganiziridwa bwino kwambiri. Ndimakonda momwe zimawululira kuchokera kumutu kuti zitheke: "Ndinaganiza zokhala", "ndikuwona zokongola", "Gwirani ntchito mphamvu ya Mzimu", "Mphamvu Yolimba". Mukuganiza kwambiri!
Maria Shrever
Chithunzi: Zipangizo zamagetsi
Maria Shriver: Ndikamayenda, kulankhulana ndi anthu, ndikumvetsetsa kuti zonse zikuwoneka kuti zikuganiza za kusintha kwa kusintha kapena kuli kale - momwe amaganizira za mavuto padziko lonse lapansi monga ine. Amandiuza kuti mwangomaliza sukulu yasekondale komanso kuda nkhawa ndi zomwe zidzachitike. Kapenanso adangomaliza kumene ku koleji koma samadziwa ntchito yawo. Amayi amandiuza kuti asiya ntchito kuti alere ana, ndipo sangamvetsetse omwe adakhala. Ngati pambuyo pake akufuna kubwerera kuntchito, sakudziwa kuti angathe. Monga ine, ena posachedwa makolo awo sanataye kapena kupatukana ndi akazi. Kapena ali ndi nkhawa ndi zomwe zikuchitika mdziko muno. Uku ndikutsimikiza kwakukulu, ndipo anthu amadabwa momwe angamvetsetse.
OU: Anthu akufuna njira. Akuyang'ana ndodo yake ndi ndodo, monga m'Baibulo.
Mals: Zabwino zonse za chipwirikiti zonsezi, izi ndi zomwe amachita pa zokambirana bwino kwambiri. Anthu amafuna kulumikizana - amafuna kumva chisangalalo.
OU: Munandiuza kuti ndili ndi ntchito yolimbikitsa bukulo, ndipo ndinadabwa ndi anthu angati. Mukuganiza kuti sindine malo amenewo! Zimandidabwitsa.
Mals: Ndidazolowera khamulo, koma osati kwa iwo omwe adandidzera. Ndimakhala wokhoza kukhala wosaoneka.
OU: Mukutanthauza chiyani ndi "Zosaoneka"?
Mals: M'mbuyomu sindinayankhule m'malo mwa ine ndekha. Ndinalankhula m'malo mwa ena - ndinayitanitsa anthu kuti avote, kuchitira matenda a Alzheimer's, kuthandiza olumala. Koma sindinanene kuti ndimandivutitsa komanso zomwe ndimalira. M'buku lakale ndinagawana zambiri pazomwe zidandichitikira. Ndikosavuta kuwonetsa chiopsezo chanu, koma zilinso labwino.
OU: Mukuganiza bwanji choncho?
Mals: Ambiri mwa ultrasound zomwe ndimamva kusokonezeka, chifukwa ndakhala "wachitsanzo chabwino", wopanda dzina komanso zizindikiritso. Anthu adandifunsa kuti: "Ndiwe ndani wotchedwa Kennedy?" Nthawi zonse ndimakhala ndi chidwi ndi zomwe zinali patsogolo panga kuposa anzanga. Ndinali wotsimikiza mtima kukhala Maria.
OU: Amayi anu nawonso adalimbana nazo. Azichimwene ake adatenga chidwi cha anthu onse, ngakhale adachita chiyani zinthu zazikulu zomwe adachita. Adamwalira mu 2009. Kodi mwana wawo wamkazi anali wotani?
Mals: Zimezo zinali bwino kwambiri. Ndipo, nthawi yomweyo, zinali zovuta chifukwa amaganiza kuti aliyense atha kusintha dziko lapansi ndipo sanali ndi chidwi ndi inu ngati simunafune. Anavala ngati bambo, ndipo tsitsi lake nthawi zonse limakhala ndi mapensulo. Adasuta ndudu, adavala mbiri ndikupita ku ofesi tsiku lililonse. Amakonda mphamvu komanso anthu olemekezeka omwe amagwira ntchito osapumira. Zinandipangitsa kuti ndizisunga bar.
OU: Munalankhula ndi amayi anu tsiku lililonse. Gale unali womwewo ndi amayi ake. Ndikudabwa kuti mumakambirana chiyani?
Mals: Ine ndi sitepe sinakhale wopanda chiyembekezo. Kuyankhula ndi iye kunandibisa ngati kanthu kena. Ndidamva anthu akunena kuti mumakhala mkazi wokwiya kwambiri pomwe amayi anu amwalira. Popeza ndinali wocheperako, ndinali ndi nkhawa kuti sindingakhale ndi moyo popanda amayi anga, koma ndikanatha. Ndimanyadira kuti ndine moyo, komanso kuti ndine wofatsa komanso wakunja, nayenso, wonyada.
OU: Ndikukumbukira kuti mu 2004, nkhani zitakhala kuti ndikadachita zamutu, ndinali kutchuthi pamabuku, ndipo mudali kutchuthi ku California. Ndinali nditagona m'bwatomo, modzidzimutsa anali mkazi mu kapu yosamba. Amagwira bolodi la boti langa ndikuti: "Uzichita kanthu kwa anthu awa! Zinalibe nthawi yopuma. Inu ndi Maria mutha kukhazikitsa ndalama. " Anali amayi anu.
Mals: Ndidamuuza kuti sindingakhulupirire! Anandiimbiranso kuti: "Iwe ndi Omp, uyenera kupitilizabe!" Wachikulire, sitinatenge tchuthi chenicheni. Tikadakhala kuti tiyendetsa kwina ndi banja lonse, chinali mtundu wina wa ntchito. Zinali zosangalatsa komanso zosangalatsa.
OU: Mumalemba za zotayika zomwe ndidakumana nazo pambuyo pa kuvomerana: M'mwezi m'modzi mu 2009, Amayi ndi Amalume Teddy adamwalira, ndiye Ada Abambo - Mu 2011, ndipo chaka chino padali pompopompo mwamunayo.
Mals: Inde, zonsezi zidandipangitsa kudzipereka. Ndikulongosola nthawi iyi ngati "kuwongolera mu Phiri".
OU: Mudakumana ndi chiyani?
Mals: Ndili ndi ana anayi. Ndikufuna kuti awone wina amene angapulumuke aliyense, chifukwa izi ndi zomwe amayenera kuchita pa moyo.
OU: Kodi ndikofunikira kukambirana za zowawa zanu?
Mals: Sitikudziwa kuda nkhawa ndi dziko lamapiri. Kutha kumvera ena ndi kugawana zowawa zanu kumatithandiza kumva kuti ndife omveka. Ndikufuna kulabadire kwambiri izi, motero ndinakonza bungwe langa lopanda malonda.
OU: Ndinaona kuti mwakhala mnzake wokhudza mtima kwambiri pazaka zingapo zapitazi. Mumandizindikira pafupipafupi, monga momwe ndimakhalira.
Mals: Ndinkadalira mayi anga, motero nditamwalira nditamwalira ndimayenera kulankhulananso ndi abwenzi ndikunena ngati: "Kodi ndingabwere kudzadya nkhomaliro?"
OU: Kodi kumatanthauza chiyani kukhala osangalala kwa inu?
Ms : Ndimawatcha "yuh!" Mphindi. Ndimamva kuwawa mkati, pompano ali ndi ena - kuwonekera omwe amakhala chete. Tikamakula, ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa zinthu zazikulu: Ana anga abwera chakudya, wina amandipempha kwinakwake, bambo amandiuza kuti ndinamuthandiza. Izi si Disneyland. Apa ndipamene mnzanu akuimbira foni kuti anene moni, ndipo ndikumvetsetsa momwe timakhalira wina ndi mnzake.
OU: Maria, ndili ndi iwe. Yuch!