Ambiri a ife timagwira ntchito mgululi, koma, mwatsoka, osati m'mikhalidwe iliyonse yolankhula komanso kukhala paubwenzi. Miseche Yokhazikika, nkhope zamanjenjezo zimatha kuvulaza kwambiri psyche. Ndipo palibe amene amasulidwa motsutsana ndi kukanikiza ndi kuwononga gulu. Koma choti muchite, ngati sunachitidwe chizunzo cha malingaliro? Tinayesa kudziwa.
Ophunzira
Monga lamulo, ofeseka amayesa kukubweretserani kutsutsana mwa njira iliyonse, ndipo ndizotheka kuchichita kokha kokha ndi pafupipafupi. Zonse zimayamba ndi zochepa: Choyamba wozunza amaphwanya malo anu, kuyesera kuti abwerere "pamlingo umodzi", mwachitsanzo, ndikunena za inu pa " . Mukangoona mphindi zofananazo, yesani kusamutsa kulumikizana konse mu mawonekedwe olembedwa, pamene mukulephera kwathunthu kulumikizana - mumagwirabe ntchito kampani ina ndipo, mwina mu dipatimenti imodzi. Kuphatikiza apo, pakadali pano kamvekedwe kake kake, mudzakhala ndi umboni wowonetsera makalata anu.
Khalani m'manja mwanu
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Osamayenda nokha
Nthawi zambiri, udzu umalimbikitsidwa ndipo umapeza ndalama zochepa ngati wovulalayo alibe chete ndipo sachita chilichonse. Zikuonekeratu kuti nthawi zonse zimakhala zosavuta kuvomereza kuti mwakumana ndi vuto m'gululi, ngakhale zinthu zili choncho. Ngati mukumvetsetsa kuti sikulinso kupirira maubwenzi oterewa kapena pambale ndi mnzake wofeseredwa amalepheretsa ntchito yawo moyenera, osati thumba lolemba kalozera. Pakachitika kuti abwana sagwira ntchito, afotokozereni nkhaniyi ndi buku lakumwamba.
Osapereka zopereka
Monga tidanenera, ndikofunikira kuti odzitchinjiriza kuti akwaniritse malingaliro kuchokera kwa inu (Inde, zoipa), chifukwa chake idzadikira mphindi mukadzipeza nokha. Muyenera kukhala ndi izi nthawi zonse ndipo khalani okonzeka kuti polankhulana ndi munthuyu, muyenera kukhala limodzi ndi kukhala m'manja mwanu, ngakhale mukufuna kugwirira ku khosi. Musapereke nkhanza zokondweretsa zoterezi.
Simuli chifukwa cha kuchulukana
Akatswiri amisala nthawi zambiri amapereka kuti anthu ena amasuntha mkhalidwe wonse wa moyo, womwe ndichifukwa chake munthu wotere amakumana ndi nkhawa zosiyanasiyana. Komabe, ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa zomwe simungakhale munthu, makamaka ngati simumayesetsa kukwera pa rogger, sizingakhale chowiringula pamakhalidwe oterewa kwa inu. Kumbukirani momwe anzanu amagwirira ntchito kale, ngati kulibe mavuto kumbali yanu, iyi ndi umboni wina kuti china chake chalakwika ndi gulu lanu lapano.
Gwiritsani ntchito popanda kuzengereza
Mukadzipeza nokha ku "mulingo woyamba wa Heit, simungamvere chidwi chakuti mnzakeyo sananene molakwika komanso chilichonse mu mzimu wotere. Zikuwoneka kuti ndibwino kungopita, musapangitse zovuta. M'malo mwake, mumangozindikira wochimwayo. Ngati mungamenyere mosachedwa, mulingo wofunitsitsa kukuthamangitsani, ndipo mwina wozunza adzasintha ndi inu, chifukwa mutha kudziimba.