Poyamba kuchuluka kwa anthu amakhulupirira kuti kukhalapo kwa mnzake kumatsitsimula kusungulumwa. Komabe, pamene munthu amene angafuneyo akuwonekera m'moyo, zimakhala zosavuta, chilichonse sichophweka komanso chosavuta sichimangochokapo, komanso limayamba. Tinaganiza zopezera chifukwa chake izi zimachitika ndipo ndizotheka kuchita zina zake.
Khalani osamala kwambiri
Kuyambiranso "Kukula" Kudzimva Kwathu Mwambiri, Psyche yanu yonse idzalephera, palibe amene amadziwa zomwe zingachitike - izi zitha kukhala ngati kusokonezeka kwamanjenje ndi kusamalira mwakuthupi. Pafupifupi vuto lililonse mu chibwenzicho chitha kuthetsedwa, kufesa patebulo. Sizovuta kwambiri kuti kudzipatula pa awiriwo kumangokumana ndi imodzi mwazomwezo, mwina theka lanu lachiwiri limamvanso kusasangalala. Fotokozani zakukhosi kwawo, pamodzi simudzakhala kosavuta kupeza mayankho.
Ubale wanu ndi zomwe mukukumana nazo.
Kuvuta kwambiri kwa ubale kumaperekedwa ndi anthu, makamaka malo ochezera a pa Intaneti. Mu riboni tikuwona abwenzi, omwe amadziwa bwino ndi utoto yemwe amauza momwe mgwirizano wawo ndi wokongola ndi mnzake. Zonsezi, tisazindikire, zimakhudza malingaliro athu a ubale wawo. Zitha kuyamba kuwoneka kuti theka lachiwiri ndi lolakwika ndipo silimalipira nthawi yayitali ngati "munthu wabwino kwambiri a Tepin, yemwe akumuuza pa positi iliyonse." Lekani kusintha zithunzi za anthu ena kwa inu nokha, simukudziwa momwe mawu a bwenzi lanu kapena nyenyezi yotsatirali mumayamikirira, kumbukirani malingaliro anu abwino omwe mudakumana nawo, komanso chifukwa cha zovuta zomwe mumakumana nazo, Awathetse pamene timalankhula ndi kulankhulana ndi mwamuna wanu.
Osasunga malingaliro osasangalatsa
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Mulibe zokonda.
Inde, pezani mnzanu wabwino komanso nthawi yomweyo - munthu wofanana ndi munthu wofanana, osati wophweka. Zimakhala zovuta makamaka kwa maanja komwe bambo ndi mkazi amagwira ntchito m'malo osiyanasiyana ndipo zokonda zawo sizingawoloke. Poterepa, tikugwiritsa ntchito zomwe zili, kuyesera kuti tipeze mfundo zokhudzana ndi zosangalatsa zomwe muli nazo kale. Tiyerekeze kuti bambo wanu ndi wamisala pazachilengedwe, ndipo ndinu okonda olimbitsa thupi. Onse awiriwa amakhala okayikira theka lachiwiri, mikangano imabuka komanso kudzipatula komwe tiyenera kuchita nawo. Yesani kutsegula watsopano ndikulowa m'chikondi cha wokondedwa wanu pang'ono, ndikumupatsa zomwezo. Tiyerekeze, kamodzi pamwezi munthawi yotentha mutha kupita ku chilengedwe limodzi, ndipo bambo akhoza kuyendera masewera olimbitsa thupi kangapo pamwezi, amasankha umodzi umodzi. Komabe, ndikofunikira kuti tichite chidwi modzipereka, mukungodutsa, mukungopsinjika kwambiri.
Timalandira
Kumayambiriro kwa ubalewu, pomwe timachititsidwa khungu ndi kumverera kopepuka, zikuwoneka kuti mnzake sangakhale ndi zolakwa. Chilichonse chimasintha pomwe dleddle limagwera ndipo mumayamba kudziwa zomwe mwasankha pafupi kwambiri. Pankhaniyi, mphindi zosasangalatsa zitha kuwululidwa, zomwe simunanene. Ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti bambo wanu ndi munthu yemweyo amene ali ndi zabwino komanso mphindi zakuti sakumvetsetsa bwino ndi mawu osamveka kuti akupangitseni kuti sangathe kukhala ndi banja lamphamvu kwambiri. Kufunika kwa munthu nthawi zonse kumazungulira ndi kukhumudwitsidwa kwambiri, kumadzimana kwa inu, kukuwoneka kuti simukumvetsa, koma simunakonzekere kuti ali ndi zovuta zake. Yesani kuvomereza munthu monga momwe ziliri, kuyesera kuti athe kukumbukira zomwezo ndikusintha chizolowezi chongolimbana.