Owerenga kwathunthu mzanga ndi luso labwino kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, ambiri a iwo adayamba kuyitanitsa maloto asanagone mitu inayake. M'modzi mwa owerenga asanagone adaganiza zodziwa zomwe zimamulepheretsa kumanga ubale wabwino ndi mwamuna? Kodi ndi phunzilo liti lomwe sanasamale? Chifukwa chiyani m'derali lomwe amadzuka? Ndipo ndidawona malotowa:
"Ndili patchuthi, kozungulira anzanga ambiri. Chochitika choyamba: patsogolo pa ine ku Lake Lake ndi Madzi, ndili ndi anzanga awiri ndimadutsa m'mphepete mwa phanga lam'madzi ndikumatayika. Patangotha mphindi imodzi, nyanjayi yadzaza ndi madzi, ndipo ndikumvetsetsa kuti kuti tipeze zinthu, ndikufunika kulowa pansi ndi Sax kudutsa madzi, kuthira zinthu. Kenako, tatuluka m'nyanjayi, ndikufuna kupita kukawotcha. Ndikuwona mchenga womwe aliyense amabwera, ndipo abwera mosamala. Mumchenga muli njoka zambiri, zitha kuwoneka, ndipo ndimayesetsa kupita mosamala, kuti ndisabwere. Ndikumva mantha, ndikumvetsetsa kuti ndizowopsa, koma sindisamala. Chifukwa chake ndafika kale pamalo pomwe thaulo langa lili. Pafupi ndi bwenzi limatulutsa, ndipo ndikuzindikira kuti amagona pa njoka, amalumpha, koma nthawi yochitirana. Ndikumvetsa kuti ndiyenera kuchoka kumeneko. Mnzake ndi woyenera. Ndife otsika omwe tasankha kusiya ndi kudabwitsidwa kuti mchenga wonse m'nkhosa. Pa sekondi yotsatira, ndili mumchenga mumchenga. Ndizofewa, kudzera mu izi mutha kupita mosamala, ngakhale zolimba kuposa zopanda mchenga. Ndipo mozungulira ndi njoka. Ndimadutsa mchenga, nayandikira njoka. Amandiluma. Pakadali pano ndimadzuka. "
Zachidziwikire, malo ofunikira tulo ndi njoka, yomwe imayikidwa ndi anthu, kuphatikiza abwenzi a ngwazi.
Chizindikiro chosangalatsa ndi njoka. Ngati malotowa adatanthauzira Freud, uthenga wa chizindikirochi ungakhaledi. Njoka ndi chizindikiro cha phalgic chomwe chimapangitsa kuopa malotowo pamaso pa mwamunayo.
Komabe, pali ngodya ina, yomwe, monga zikuwonekera kwa ine, ndizoyenera kutanthauzira maloto. Kumapeto kwa kum'mawa, njokayi ndi chizindikiro cha nzeru. Kuphatikiza apo, pamakhadi a Tarot, mutha kukumana ndi zojambulazo: Njokayo imadzilamira mchira. Chizindikiro ichi chimatanthawuza kuti nzeru ndi kukhwima zimangochitika kudzera mu phunziroli.
Ndikuganiza kuti kumasulira kumeneku kuli koyenera kwa ena mwa owerenga athu. Kukhwima ndi kukhala wokonzekera kuyanjana ndi gawo la mapangidwe a mkazi aliyense. Ndi kupweteka mwanjira iliyonse. Komabe, nthawi zambiri, phunziroli limachotsedwa.
Mwachitsanzo, mayi amakumana ndi amuna okwatira kuyambira kamodzi. Osati mwachindunjipo, koma pazifukwa zina zokha zindikirani. Kulekanitsidwa ndi mnzanga wotsatirayo, amamupatsa cholembera kuti munthu achite izi m'moyo wake. M'malo mofufuza: Chifukwa chiyani akupitanso pachibwenzi ndi wokwatiwa? Ngakhale sakuwonetsa chidwi chawo ndikupindula kukumana ndi abwenzi omwe ali osapezeka, palibe mwayi wopeza mwayi ndikupanga ubale wosiyana.
Chimodzimodzi ndi azimayi omwe amapanga ubale ndi amuna olakwika, kapena alphones, kapena osakhazikika kwa banja, ndi zina. "Kuphunzirapo kanthu - sikudziteteza ku zowawa zatsopano. Ndikufufuza chidwi chanu pakupanga ubale wosafunidwa kamodzi.
Chimodzimodzi ndi maloto athu. Ali pamalo pomwe njoka ndizopusa. Koma amapewa kuluma, kupewa maphunziro ake, "mitsuko" mumchenga.
Kuyembekezera ndi zilembo zanu ndi zitsanzo za maloto! Tumizani nkhani zanu potumiza: [email protected]. Maloto a Decfar ndi osangalatsa kwambiri!
Maria DonaCkova, zamatsenga, othandizira am'banja komanso akutsogolera paubwenzi wapakati pa Marika Khazin