Akatswiri amisala nthawi zambiri amakumana ndi zodandaula za makolo za mwana wawo wamwamuna kapena wamkazi akadali ndi udindo: ndikupitilizabe kukhala ndi makolo ake, ngakhale ndi nthawi yopanga banja lanu, alibe chidwi ndi chilichonse. Chifukwa chiyani zikuchitika, ndipo ndi ndani amene akuimba mlandu? Tiyeni tiyese kuzindikira.
Tiyeni tikumbukire momwe zinaliri kale (zogwirizana, ngati inu muli mu 40 tsopano): Makolo adapita kuntchito, ana adakhala nthawi yayitali kapena kuchezera anzawo. Mwambiri, makolo ali ndi moyo umodzi, mwa ana - enawo. Mu nthawi za Soviet, panali kupulumuka patsogolo, kufunafuna wogwira ntchito wamba amene wakhala nthawi yake yonse yopanga ndalama ndikupeza zisankho zophunzitsira zina. Monga mukumvetsetsa, akuluakuluwo analibe nthawi yongofunika kulabadira ku bungwe la m'maganizo komanso mavuto a ana. Ndizosadabwitsa kuti ana amenewo tsopano ndi achikulire opambana, nthawi ndi nthawi amapezeka katswiri wazamisala, akulimbana ndi mantha osungulumwa komanso kusamvana, zomwe zimakhazikika mwa iwo.
Lolani mwana kuti asankhe phunziro la moyo
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Ambiri sakanakhululukira makolo omwe, malinga ndi ana, sanawalipire kwambiri momwe angafunire. Chifukwa chake, amalera ana awo pansi pa mawu akuti "ubwana wawo udzakhala wosiyana." Ili ndi ngozi yake pano, nditayesetsa kupatsa ana anu zomwe iwonso angakumane, titha 'kuwoloka ndodoyo "- ndipo mwana sakusangalala.
Palibe amene akunena kuti ndikofunikira kusunga Chado pa Rigor, komanso kuwonekera koopsa, koyambirira, chifukwa munthu wa ana amakhala ndi zovuta zambiri zokhudzana ndi dziko lapansi.
Malinga ndi akatswiri azamankhwala, ndikofunikira kuti musakhale mayi wabwino, koma wabwino. Zikutanthauza chiyani? Fotokozerani.
Wachinyamata azidikirira nthawi zonse thandizo lanu
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Munthu akafika zaka, chilengedwe chimapereka mwayi wake kwa makolo, komabe, makolo amakono amapanga "zinthu zowonjezera" zomwe wachinyamata samangowona mfundo. Zachiyani? Amayi nthawi zonse amakhala akukonzekera, makatani, mikwingwirima, itaya ndalama. Ngati apita kupitilira malire a nyumbayo, padzakhalanso moyo woopsa, womwe sudziwika, komwe kudzakhala kokha.
Njira yokhayo yothetsera vuto lotereyi lidzalengedwa ndi zochitika zomwe mwana wanu wamkulu akufuna kudzipangitsa yekha. Ndipo sitikulankhula za njira zachiwawa, ingoyenera kukhala kholo lopanda pake: nthawi zina sakuphika, pemphani kuti apange mwana wanu, musalole ndalamayo ngati angathe kupeza ndalama ngati angathe kupeza ndalama. Pang'onopang'ono zimachoka paudindo wakufa, ndipo iyenso akufuna kuti alekanitseko.
Vuto lina limakhala lokongoletsera kwambiri, lomwe limayamba ndi ubwana wake: Pofunafuna kuyerekezera bwino ndi kupambana mu ntchito zosiyanasiyana, makolo sadzagulidwa mowolowa manja kwa ana awo. Zotsatira zake, mwana yemwe ali kale ndi sukulu ya pulaimale amadziwa kuti kholo (ndi mtsogolo komanso mkwatibwi) nthawi zonse azipereka, kotero kulakalaka kulikonse kumamveka chilichonse. Ndiye kuti, kuyesa kuphatikiza mwana kuyenera kukwaniritsa, makolo akuipiraipira okha.
Mwanayo ayenera kuphunzira kukhala ndi udindo, mwachitsanzo, kupeza ntchito pawokha
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Zoyenera kuchita? Choyamba, musathamangire kuti muthane ndi ma verties onse. Apatseni mwanayo kusankha zomwe zingakusangalatseni komanso zomwe angafune kuchita. Chidwi chachilengedwe chimapereka zotsatirapo zochulukirapo, monga momwe mwanayo angayambire. M'tsogolomu, sadzalimbikitsa kudikirira makolo, mwachitsanzo, kutaya ndi ntchito, chifukwa chizolowezi chophunzira chidzapangidwa kale kuyambira kale.
Mumakhulupirira ana anu kwambiri, thandizirani zabwino zawo ndipo musakakamize zofuna zanu. Pokhapokha ngati mwana angakhale ndi lingaliro laudindo pamoyo wawo.