Pambuyo pa kusiyana koyamba m'moyo wake, mayi wachichepere akuyamba kuwoneka kuti kugonana m'moyo wake kudzakhala monga amuna omwe ali pa konsati skhalov. Sizodziwikiratu kwenikweni komwe malingaliro oterewa amachokera. Msungwana wokongola sayenera kupita ku kalabu yachidule yachidule, koma ossak achichepere akuwona kuti ali ndi malingaliro oterowo, podziona kuti ndi apamwamba kuposa chibwenzi chotere.
Mwa njira, anthu ambiri amawona kugonana kwa usiku wina ndi anthu okha omwe amangoledzera kwambiri, zomwe m'malo otere simukumvetsa. Komabe, kugonana sikutanthauza kulumikizana kwakukuza kwa malingaliro ndi mnzake - ndikumvera chisoni kokwanira.
Inde, nthawi yotereyi ikubwera kutali ndi aliyense. Makamaka molimbika, yankho la kulumikizana chimodzimodzi limaperekedwa kwa atsikana omwe amakhala ndi chitsimikizo chakuti kugonana ndi chinthu chopatulika. Koma amuna amakula ndi kuyika kwina konse, kotero nthawi zambiri amakhala omasulidwa. M'dera lathu kumakhulupirira kuti mzimayi amene amavomera kukumana ndi msonkhano wanthawi limodzi, akuvutika kwambiri, ali ndi chisamaliro, komanso mavuto amadzidalira. Inde, nthawi zambiri akakakamizidwa, amene angaganize zopita kukatsutsa ndi kuthandiza zosowa zake. Nthawi zina mayi amangofunika kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yosangalatsa komanso munthu wokongola, osati aliyense ndipo samafunikira maubwenzi olimba kwa nthawi yayitali.
Mulabu mutha kupeza mosavuta
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Maganizo a kugonana kumapangidwa m'mutu mwathu
Vuto lalikulu kwambiri la azimayi omwe adasankha pa "tsiku lililonse chikondi" ndikudzilungamitsa pamaso pa atsikana / abwenzi / abale omwe mwina amachititsa mitu yawo. Mvetsetsani kuti ndinu mtsikana wamkulu yemwe ali ndi vuto kuti asankhe zomwe akufuna. Mutha kufunsa Council pa bwenzi musanayambe kuwunika zakudya zamkati, nthawi zina muyenera kusankha tokha ndi kusangalala ndi njirayi.
Simuli wolakwa chilichonse
Zodziwika bwino kwambiri chifukwa cha kudziimba mlandu, zomwe zimatiyendera moyo wake wonse munthawi ina, imatha kumamatira kumutu usiku wabwino. Koma dziwani nokha kuti: Ngati kugonana kudali kotetezeka, pamapeto pake mudakhala ndi chidwi - ndiye kuti angadandale bwanji? Mlanduwu suyankhula konse za inu ngati mkazi wakugwa. Kuti muthandizire kuzunzidwa kwanu, tikuganiza kuti njirayi: Ganizirani, kodi mudakhala osasangalala kapena mukuopa pagulu? Ngati mwasankha njira yachiwiri, mulibe chilichonse chodetsa nkhawa, mwachita zonse zili bwino.
osati kuyang'ana munthu wamoyo
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Kugonana kwa usiku umodzi - kugonana koona mtima kwambiri
Ngakhale mnzanuyo wa "chisangalalo" alibe zolinga zobisika. Chilichonse chiri chotseguka kwambiri: nonse mukudziwa zomwe mukufuna kupeza. Inde, ndipo onetsetsani kuti wina ndi mnzake palibe amene amafuna.
Simumakhala nthawi
Mwamuna amene mwasankha kuti munthu akhale wabwino sayenera kuzindikira malingaliro anu. Kupatula apo, simungapangitse chibwenzi chachikulu ndikukhala ndi nthawi yayitali ya "kupukuta." Msonkhanowu ulonjeza kuti ndi wosangalatsa komanso osamangiriza chilichonse. Ndipo palibe chomwe chimakulepheretsani kufunafuna mnzanu wokhazikika, pomwe nthawi zambiri mungakonde, ndipo palibe amene angakuweruzeni.
Chinthu chofunikira kwambiri ndikumva bwino
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Kugonana kogonana kumadalira chidziwitso cha thupi lake
Onetsetsani kuti mukumvera thupi lanu: ngati mukumva kukakamizidwa ndi kufalitsa, ndibwino kukana kukana ngakhale kuperekedwa koyesa kwambiri. Muyenera kukhala ndi chidaliro chonse kuti mukuchita, apo ayi inu kapena mnzanuyo mudzasangalala ndi njirayi.
Ngati zonse zili bwino, pitilizani mosachedwa: Kupatula apo, kugonana kochulukirapo kudzakhala ndi moyo m'moyo wanu, ndibwino mudzadziwa thupi lanu ndi mwayi wanu.