Pali nthawi zambiri m'moyo zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zitheke ndikuyang'ana kuti muwunike mopanda tsankho zomwe zikuchitika. Komanso, mafunso omwe amapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kuganiza za kufunika kosintha, nthawi zambiri zimagwirizana ndi vuto la ndalama kapena kusaka chisangalalo.
Pamene zigawo zikuluzikulu zilipo, moyo utha kuonedwa kuti umagwirizana. Koma ngati pali kumverera kusakhutira, ndiye kuti ndikofunikira kuganizira zomwe zikusowa ndipo koposa zonse, muyenera kuchita kuti mutenge.
Ndiyamba ndi zomwe ndiyesera kuzichita Mavuto omwe amalepheretsa kumva chisangalalo:
- Kudzimva kuti palibe amene amakukondani ndipo samvetsa, moyo wanu umawoneka wa imvi komanso wonyoza;
- kugubuduza kumverera kwamtendere mukamaona kuti mumawononga moyo wanu?
- Kufunafuna mipata kuti mukwaniritse zomwe mukufuna;
- Mumakhala nthawi yolimbana ndi malingaliro osemphana ndi mantha.
Irina Krivosheev
Izi sizili zotopetsa, komanso moyo wa munthu aliyense ndikuchepetsa chipembedzo wamba. Koma ngati mukuwoneka mopanda tsankho, zimamveka kuti ndife okhulupirira anu. Ndipo ngati pali vuto, litha kuthetsedwa ngati muyamba kugwira ntchito ndikuyesetsa kusanthula mgwirizano. Unali kulumikizana, kuchotsa zopinga ndi njira yaponse yochokera ku "njerwa za chikasu", zomwe zidzakutsogoletsani kukhala achimwemwe. Mukundifunsa, ndipo mwina chisangalalo ndi chuma chidzakhalapo moyenerera? Kupatula apo, agogo athu, agogome amabwerezanso za kuti ndalama ndi zoipa, tillet. Ndipo wokondwa inu mutha kukhala mu hood. Koma sichoncho. Izi si zokhudza ma shookiting ngati chitonthozo chokhala ndi moyo wathunthu poyerekeza ndi maulesi. Kuzama kwa moyo, nthawi zonse panakhala wosakhutira ndi Iye, pang'onopang'ono adadya kuchokera mkati. Ndikokwanira kukumbukira kuti azimayi aku Soviet mwachangu adabera. Kuvutika kosalekeza kunadya kukongola kwachilengedwe ndikusintha atsikana ang'onoang'ono mwa azakhali.
Era Aquarius amatiuza kuti tidzifongende, kusintha kuganiza. Yokhayo molondola komanso munthu woganiza bwino adzatha kukhazikitsa mphamvu zodzizungulira, zomwe zimayamba kukopa chisangalalo kwa iye. Ndipo chisangalatso, chuma chibwera. Zochitika zanga zimandilola kunena ndi mwayi zana zomwe ndalama sizimakonda zomwe sizimadzikonda. Onani zithunzi za zipata za Bill, Ilona chigoba, mackenzie bezos kapena lorin powell ntchito. Awa akumwetulira anthu, odzipereka, omwe amadzidziwa okha zolakwa zawo. Chifukwa chiyani ndikulankhula za zolakwika ndi kutayika? Mackenzie Bezos anapulumuka chisudzulo, ndipo ntchito za Lorin Powell adaikidwa m'manda, komabe sizingawalepheretse kukhala ndi moyo m'moyo wathunthu.
Ndidayankha amuna, ndi kwa akazi, chifukwa nthawi zambiri ndimagwira ntchito ndi oimira ofooka. Chifukwa cha psyche yosinthika, kuyankhula komwe azimayi sawopa kukambirana mavuto awo. Ndipo, monga mukudziwa, kuzindikira vuto ndi gawo lomwe limazungulira.
Tsopano ndizabwino kwambiri kukakhala nawo pamaphunziro osiyanasiyana. Tsoka ilo, ndikusemphana ndi iyemwini kuti ndasintha, ndiye kuti amatulutsa. Osapeza zomwe zimayambitsa kusungulumwa kapena kuswa kwaubwenzi popanda kusintha pulogalamuyi mkati mwathung'ono, palibe maphunziro omwe angathandize, mwatsoka. Ntchito yokhayo, yopweteka kwambiri pakubwezeretsa moyo wanu imatha kubweretsa zotsatira zowoneka bwino.
Ndipereka zitsanzo zingapo kuchokera pa zomwe mwachita mukamagwira ntchito mothandizana amayi amathandizira amayi kupeza chisangalalo.
Ndizogwirizana, kuchotsedwa kwa zotchinga ndi njira yadziko lonse lapansi kuchokera "njerwa yachikasu", yomwe ingakutsogolereni kukhala wachimwemwe
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Mkazi wazaka 60, muubwana wake anasudzulana mwamuna wake ndipo sakanakhozanso kukulitsa ubale wolimba. Tidatembenukira ku chikumbumtima chake komanso pamene akugwira naye ntchito adaphunzira kuti zaka zambiri, mwakunja, adachita chikondi chachinsinsi ndi mnyamatayo. Pomwe zidafika, mnyamatayo adavomereza kuti nyumba yake ikuyembekezera nyumba yake, ndipo idanyamuka. Mgwirizano unamusiya moyo wake. Kutayika kunatsekedwa mtima wake, kunaswa malire. Ndipo kwa zaka zambiri sakanakonda ndi mtima. Pa ntchitoyi, tinapeza zinthu zofunika kwambiri, zinathandiza kuti ubongo wake ukhale wosangalala. Pambuyo pake adapanga nkhope yapulasitiki, adabweza kukongola kwambiri ndikubweza chikondi chake.
Mkazi wazaka 43 adabwera panthawi ya zovuta za mabanja ogwirizanitsa ndi munthu wina mlandu wa mnzake. Tinayambitsa ntchitoyi ndipo tinapeza muzu wa vuto lomwe limakhudzidwa ndi nkhani ya ubwana. Monga mwana, nthawi zambiri ankawona abambo ake omwe adalephera kuledzera ndikulumbirira chikhulupiriro chakuti amuna sakanadalirika. Zinali zovuta kwambiri, anaphunzira zinthu zambiri zoyipa za mwamuna wake, koma nthawi yomweyo anamvetsetsa komwe anakhumudwitsa. Ndikukhulupirira kuti adzatha kukhululukirana ndi kubwezeretsa banja lawo, monga momwe amapezera mgwirizano.
Kodi nkhani yanu yonse ndi iti? Kunena kwina kosavuta. Popanda kusintha mapulogalamu owononga mu ubongo, osabweza zolumikizira, mtsikana wachinyamata sadzapeza mwamunayo miliyoni, mkazi wokhwima sangathe kusunga mwamuna wake. Kuphatikiza apo, ngoziyo ndikuti mtundu woyipa ungathe kupatsirana kwa ana.
Osawopa kudzifunsa. Ndipo ngati ndizovuta, pemphani wina yemwe amathandiza kudziwa kuti ndi liti ndipo mukamakhulupirira. Mankhwala oterewa cholinga chofuna kugwira ntchito ndi chikumbumtima, muzu chitha kusintha moyo wanu ndikukhala wosangalala kwa chisangalalo ndi chuma.