Ziribe kanthu momwe mumakondera munthu wanu, ubale wanu suyenera kukubweretsani chilichonse koma chisangalalo ndi chikhutiro. Amayi ambiri amakhululuka anzawo, kuti akasunge pafupi nawo, koma njira zoterezi zidzawonongeratu mgwirizano wanu. Tasonkhanitsa zazikulu zomwe simuyenera kukhululukira munthu aliyense.
Nkhanza
Posachedwa, mutuwu wakhala chinthu chachikulu padziko lonse lapansi. M'mbuyomu, anali kuonedwa kuti kuda nkhawa ndi za theka lake lachiwiri, lomwe silinatanthauze zolakwa zake zoyipa. Mzimayi akuvutika ndi manja ake adalangizidwa kuti awonetse "nzeru zachikazi" ndi kuzindikira. Kodi ndizoyenera kunena kuti kupempha kotereku sikungaonedwe mwanjira iliyonse. Chiwawa sichosatheka osati polumikizana ndi mkazi, komanso kwa munthu, chifukwa chake simungathe kugawa munthu yekhayo. Ngati muli ndi inu, ndichikhalidwe kuti muchepetse kapena kuwopseza, osaganizira maubwenzi.
Maubale azibweretsa chisangalalo
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Narcissism
Monga lamulo, ndi amuna, azimayi oterowo: Ngati mtsikanayo ankakonda ndi okonda makolo ali ndi zaka, muukalamba, mtsikanayo sadzayang'ana ku Ego Centerrik. Ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti bambo amene ali nawo pa mnzake sadzathandizidwa ndi banja lake ngati mukufuna kupanga mgwirizano wamphamvu, mwamunayo ndi woyenera udindo wa bambo wina wodzipereka komanso wa Atate wokonda. Samalani.
Njala
Osasokoneza chuma ndi umbombo wa tizilombo. Ngati pakuyambira ubale wanu, munthu akukana kukugulirani khofi, akunena za kusayenera, umakhala ngati "belu" kuti ziwonetsero zina zilizonse sizingapeze mawonekedwe. Amuna adyera samangodziwa mfundozo, koma kuyang'ana mtengo waukulu wa zinthu. Onetsetsani kuti munthu wotere azichita mokhwima ndipo sadzakulolani kukhala monga momwe mumagwiritsidwira ntchito kapena mukufuna inu.
Kulowelela
Mwina chachiwiri pangozi pambuyo pa chiwawa. Zonse zimayamba ndi zochepa: munthu wanu samasamala zakumwa ndipo ngakhale simudzaziponyera zosangalatsa, mwa lingaliro lake. Nthawi zambiri zimakhala ndi zakumwa zopepuka, munthu wofooka amapita kumadontho apamwamba ngati simukuchitapo kanthu mpaka pano, kuthandiza munthu kukhala wovuta kwambiri. Tonsefe timadziwa nthawi yomwe mabanja akufuna kupulumutsa m'bale wawo chifukwa chodalira aliyense. Ngati simukumvanso mphamvu zolimbana ndi kudalira mtundu uliwonse, siyani ubale womwe ungachedwetse pansi.