Zaka 10 zapitazo, kugonana paubwenzi kudazindikira ngati chinthu chomveka, koma tsopano akuchulukirachulukira kutchuka osati ku Russia, komanso padziko lonse lapansi. Malinga ndi kafukufuku, 55% ya ophunzira adavomereza kuti kamodzi, koma anali ndi vuto la bwenzi kapena chibwenzi.
Ochenjera ochulukirapo ali ndi chidwi ndi nkhaniyi, ndikuwombera zojambulazo ngati "anzanu akugonana" kapena "kuposa kugonana." Monga lamulo, m'mafayilo oterewa ndi otopetsa komanso osindikizidwa kwambiri: Anzanu angapo amapeza chithandizo kuchokera kwa abwenzi omwe omwe alipo, amakhala usiku umodzi, kenako ndikuyamba kumvana.
Ambiri amavomereza kuti kugonana kwansangala yokhudza ophunzira
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M'moyo weniweni, zomwe anthu amalimbikitsa sizimalungamitsidwa nthawi zonse ndi anzawo, koma m'mafilimu amodzi omwe samanama: Kugonana muubwenzi ndi chinthu chovuta komanso chosokoneza.
Ndi chiyani
Kugonana ndi mnzanu kumatha kuchitika zifukwa zotsatirazi:
Anzanu akufuna kuyesa, kudalira malingaliro a zithunzi zofanana.
Kungogonana popanda kudzipereka. Anthu nthawi zina amagona, koma palibe mgwirizano weniweni pakati pawo.
Kuti mwina mwake. Anzake amakambirana pasadakhale kuti akhale ndi mwayi wokhala ndi "ulesi" m'moyo wanu.
Kusamala ndi ubwenzi. Anthu akufuna kupita ku gawo latsopano mu maubale.
Ngozi. Kuwala kwadzidzidzi kumawonekera pakati pa anthu, ndipo akumvetsetsa kuti kuyambira pano palibe ubale.
Kwa okwatirana ambiri omwe amachita maubale omasuka, kugonana kokha ndiko kuyambitsa kwa "ochezeka". Mulimonsemo, kwa amuna, chinthuchi nthawi zambiri chimasankha, koma azimayi amafunikira thandizo lililonse. Akazi satsutsana ngati kugonana kwaulere kumapangitsa china chachikulu kwambiri, amunawo amawona zogonana ndi mnzake monga njira yotulutsa.
Pali ngozi yoti mugwire mchikondi osapeza yankho
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Ndi izi ndi zovuta
Mavuto amayamba pamenepo, pomwe m'modzi wa anzawo "abwenzi amalumikizana pang'ono. Ndikosatheka kukumana ndi zifukwa zogonana komanso nthawi yonseyi kumverera zomwezo, kamodzi wina pagulu akufuna kuti ubale ukhalepo kapena kuwachotsa.
Kodi kuyembekezera "apafupi" abwenzi
Ndiponso, akatswiri abwera kudzapulumutsa ndi kafukufuku: pafupifupi 30% ya ophunzira omwe palibe chomwe sichinasinthe, 35% chinali ndi banja, ndipo zina 25% zidasiya kulankhulana.
Pali zosankha ziwiri: mwina inu gawo, kapena khalani awiri
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