M'nkhani yomaliza, tinakangana chifukwa chifukwa chake zimakhala zovuta kukhululuka makolo m'kulalikira. Ndipo mwakuti silabwino kukhudza mutu wotere, kutsitsa mbali yake yosinthira. Kwa munthu wina, makolo ndi zimphona, komanso winawake - angelo, ayi. Zoyenera, zosavomerezeka, zachikondi ndi wokondedwa, malingaliro abwino ndi omasulidwa nawo.
Pokhala kholo lomwelo, nditha kunena kuti izi ndi zomwe zimamveka. Loto kuti ana anga asandibweretse "akaunti" chifukwa cha zolakwa zanga. Kuyang'ana mwa iwo, monga pagalasi la mayi ake, ndikanati: "Zonse zidachitika molondola." Zosangalatsa zazoterezi zomwe zimathandizira kuchepetsa mphamvu ya kudziimba mlandu.
Kukhala ndi kholo lamakono ndi kumverera kumeneku ndi kolumikizana. Kuyambira ndi pakati, kusinthira kwachimwemwe kwa chimwemwe ndi vinyo, kugona kwathunthu kwa amayi ndi pang'ono - pa Atate. Poipa, kulekanitsa, machitidwe, pambuyo pake, dziko lapansi ndi zochita za mwanawa zimadzudzula makolo. Gulu linakonzedwa. Ndi chitukuko cha intaneti, mitu yonena za zolakwa za amayi ndi abambo zidakhala pamwamba pazokambirana. Ndemanga, Yazif, adayamba kupanga nkhawa zokhudzana ndi ana, zolemba za ana zimafuula ku ndege, zimalimbikitsa kugona ndi anthu ena, ndikutchuka kwambiri ku malo ochezera a pa Intaneti. M'maso mwa anthu, amayi ndi opanda ungwiro , Abambo ndi ochepera kuposa mafunso pachikhalidwe chathu. Amayi aliwonse omwe amatero, chilichonse, kwa gawo lina, kudzakhala kolakwika komanso kudzudzula chifukwa chosankha kusamalira mwana ndi kuleredwa. Ndipo kodi amayi oterowo ndi chiyani? Zosachepera - Abambo, Zomwe Zimatsalira?
Mwana amakonda makolo ake mopanda mangawa, koma sikofunikira kugwiritsa ntchito
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Owonera okha omwe sakudziwa kuti izi zikuyenera kukhala bwanji molondola ana awo. Amagonjetsedwa ndi chifuniro chilichonse. Zomwe zili zomvetsa chisoni kwambiri, amakonda makolo awo, ndipo nthawi zambiri sizimawalola kuzindikira kuti makolo enieni asokoneze kapena nkhanza. Makolo mokwanira nthawi yayitali amakhalabe wangwiro kwa ana. Ndipo pamenepa, mwatsoka, ndikosavuta kuyamba kugwiritsa ntchito, polimbikitsa zinthu zoyambirira za dziko loyandikana nalo. Ngakhale mayiyo akadziwa kuti ali ndi vuto lathunthu mu ubale wake, woweta ndi mabodza, ndiye kuti pamaso pa mwana, iye ndi ungwiro amene akuchita chilichonse kuti chikhale chilichonse kuti banja lizikhala. Ndipo munthu akasiya kupanga ndalama, mwana, ngati akupereka moyenera, kwakanthawi kuti amvere chisoni Abambo, chifukwa akuyembekezera ntchito ya maloto, ndipo sakupereka moyo pa ntchito yosakondedwa.
Zoyenera makolo pa mwana - izi ndizochitika. Kwa iye, ndi akulu akulu, amadzipangira mphamvu ndi mphamvu, kukwaniritsa zokhumba zake zonse ndi zosowa zake zonse, makamaka akadali ochepa. Vutoli limapezeka makolo akamayamba kukulitsa chikondi cha mwana kwa olamulira.
Kwa mwana, zili ndi zotsatirapo zake. Kuganizira za zaka zaubwana kumakhazikika kuti zikhale zowopsa komanso zopatsa mphamvu, zomwe zimapezeka mu banja la kholo, lomwe limagonjetsa ulamuliro wawo komanso kudziyimira pawokha. Koma kodi tikulankhula za chiyani? Kodi mungapandukire bwanji? Kupatula apo, ndiye wabwino. Kodi sangakonzekere?
Koma Zipolowe ndizofunikira pakupanga kwamphamvu . Sipangakhale munthu woyimira pawokha yemwe samadziwa momwe angadziteteze, amadalira zigamulo zake ndikutsatira chowonadi chake. Nthawi zambiri, maluso awa amapangidwa muunyamata, koma samapangidwa konse ngati pali kholo labwino. Mu m'badwo uno, munthu amakhala ndi zaka makumi angapo pambuyo pake amayamba kupanduka ndi olamulira ena: Othandizira ake, mabwana, amuna kapena akazi, kuwononga ntchitozo ndi maubale omwe adapangidwa ndi iye. Zonse chifukwa kholo langwiro litatengera chikondi cha mwana wake, adatenga kuti abwereke kuti achepetse kukakamira kwawo. Ana ake omwe akukulira kale amadzipanga kale mabanja awo khumi ndi zitatu ndi anyamata, akumenyera nkhondo, amalimbana ndi chidaliro, kulimba mtima kumene kuli koyenera.
Makolo abwino alibe chilichonse chotsutsa. Koma zipolowe ndizofunikira pakupanga kwa umunthu wa mwana
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Ndipo zowonadi, makina otheratu amabwerezedwa m'badwo wotsatira. Malingana ngati wina sayamba kubwezeretsa zodziimba mlandu wake, kukhala wokhazikika m'maso mwa anthu ena, omwe ndi ochulukirapo kuposa zenizeni. Makolo ochulukirapo amaphunzira kulera ana, kutsamira, ana ocheperako ayenera kunyamula katundu wa zolakwa za makolo, motero khalani omasuka mu moyo wawo komanso weniweni. Zenizeni sizabwino, ndipo ndizosangalatsa.
Koma Kodi mungatani ngati muli ndi "makolo abwino"? Zabwino? Yambani kukudziwani. Ndi awo. Ndi inu abodza, mwamantha, kungokhala pangodutsa, mosiyanasiyana, osakhulupirika, osadetsedwa, odekha, modabwitsa, ndikuwonanso chodabwitsa ichi ndi makolo anu. Ngakhale momwe mungapangire kukhala wosavuta ndikuyamba "apulo kuchokera ku apulots mtengo." Nthawi zina zaka zimasiyira, koma sizofunikira. Chisoni ndi chosasangalatsa, koma chisangalalo chokhacho chimadziwika ndi zenizeni.