Posachedwa, azimayi omwe akufuna kubereka mwana nthawi zambiri amakutumizirani. Ambiri a iwo kwa 30, adachitika pantchito. Ndipo tsopano, pamene zikuwoneka kuti kucha ndi kukonzeka, ana awo pazifukwa zina sawalandira nawo.
Sindingamayang'anire zinthu zachilengedwe zomwe azimayi amakhala ovuta kutenga pakati kapena kutenga mwana. Tionana za m'maganizo wamba. Ndipo popeza mzimu (kapena m'malo mwake, psyche) Ndipo thupi limalumikizana, thupi limapatsidwa gulu kuti ana akadali msanga.
Chifukwa chake, mkhalidwe wonse wa azimayi awa ndi malingaliro ofunikira, chilakolako cha malingaliro.
Ena mwa iwo akufuna munthu wabwino kwambiri amene adzakhala mwamuna wachitsanzo chabwino ndi tate wa ana awo. Pali oyang'anira / olemba / olemba (cholowa m'malo pa ntchito iliyonse) sadzakwanira. Imafunika olemera, anzeru, anzeru, ophunzira, omwe adatsata, okhwima, okhwima, achikondi komanso (chidwi) Koma, pa tsoka lanu, azimayi okhala ndi malotowa amakhalanso ochenjera kwambiri. Amatsutsana motere: "Kuonetsetsa kuti munthu woteroyo akufuna banja, ndiyeneranso kufanana." Ndipo mudzadzibweretsa ku ungwiro. Ndipo malo ndi zosankha za unyinjiwu: Kuchokera ku masewera olimbitsa thupi mpaka maphunziro a Feng Shui, minofu yazovuta ndi njira 30 zokokera masangweji.
Zonsezi sizili bwino, koma zoona zake ndizakuti munthawi imeneyi ndizosatheka kusiya. Mkaziyo "amayenda bwino" Ana oyenera kwambiri.
Kwa iwo omwe asankha kale ana ndi abambo awo, zovuta zina: mwachitsanzo, thanzi. Ziyenera kukhala zangwiro, mtheradi kuti ana abadwe athanzi. Amayi otere amakonda mutuwu ngati akufuna kuuluka mumlengalenga, osabereka ana.
Wina ali ndi thanzi, koma ndalamayo ndi vuto, yesetsani kupezera zovuta zachuma, kuthamanga kapena kufuna kuchokera kwa amuna athunthu azaka 100 mtsogolo.
Wina ayenera kubereka mwana ndi zaka 30 mpaka 35. Chifukwa chakubadwa tsiku lomaliza popanda mwana ndi tsiku lolila. Ndipo zaka 5 izi zisanachitike - neurotic kuthamangitsa chikhalidwe.
Ndipo maziko a zonsezi ndi ungwiro, chidwi chotsatira lingaliro labwino komanso lolondola, mgwirizano ndi mayi.
Vuto lokhalo ndiloti Chiyembekezo ndi cholakwika cholakwika. Ana sagwirizana ndi zomwe zili muyezo. Idyani, tulo, lirani, mukulira, kudwala, sizikupanga molingana ndi mapulani kapena dongosolo lawo. Koma alenginiki ndizovuta kuvomereza zolakwa zawo, ndi ena, chifukwa chake, mutuwo wa ana uzidza kuyambiranso - pambuyo pa zonsezo, ziyenera kudziwa zofooka zawo zonse - zodzaza ndi fiasco yawo.
Palibe katemera, kupatula kuti aphunzire kulakwitsa, kusiya kudziletsa ndikulola kukhala ndi moyo, osati wangwiro. Ana ndi aphunzitsi abwino kwambiri opanda chikondi chopanda malire kwa iwo ndi okondedwa. Makanda sasamala ndalama zochulukirapo kwa MALLT mthupi, ndiye kuti ali bwino ndi mano ake komanso ngati amafanana ndi malingaliro okhudza mkazi wa Vedic. Adzafuna amayi omwe ali.
Mwa njira, makina angwiro amatha kukayikira kuti ma cramole aimba mu nkhaniyi kuti mudziponyere okha ndi kukula kwawo. Koma sichoncho. Ntchitoyi ndi yongoganizira zomwe zimangofunika kwambiri chifukwa chofunafuna miyezo yomwe mumayesetsa kukwaniritsa amayi. Mwina inunso muli ndi chimbalangondo ndipo mumangochotsa mayi wokonda kwambiri.
Maria DonaCkova, zamatsenga, othandizira am'banja komanso akutsogolera paubwenzi wapakati pa Marika Khazin