Amuna oyipa, komanso abwino, kwenikweni ayi. Koma pali munthu "wanu" kapena "osati wanu", ngakhale atakhala ndi makhalidwe ati omwe amapatsidwa. Kodi mungaone bwanji "munthu wanu" ndipo savomereza "mlendo" wa gulu lakelo, lomwe theka lanu latayika?
Ingoganizirani kuti m'winja la sitolo mudawona kavalidwe ka maloto anu. Koma pakadali pano simungathe kugula. Ndipo nthawi iliyonse, oundana pamaso pa zenera la sitolo, mukuganiza chovala chomwe chikuwoneka kwa inu, chidakupangitsani. Ndipo lingaliro lakuti mawa lidzagulidwa ndi mkazi wina, amakupangitsani mantha. Mumatenga ndalama kwa anzanu kapena kubwereketsa ngongole. Timathamangira ku sitolo kokha ndi lingaliro limodzi "ngati palibe amene angagule." Muwoloka sitolo ya sitolo, maso amayaka ndi chisangalalo, ndipo kavalidwe kakuyembekezerani kale kuchipinda choyenera. Pambuyo mphindi zochepa mumachoka kukwiya ... diresi yomwe mumalota, simunabwere. Zinakhala "osati zanu."
Osathamangira kukatcha munthu "yanu" mpaka inu "yesani." Ndipo, musanawerenge wosankhidwa mu "katundu", yesani. Apo ayi pamakhala chiwopsezo chakuti zoyembekezera zanu sizikuyenera chifukwa cha kavalidwe.
Musanawone munthu wanu "wanu, pendani maubwenzi anu akale ndikuganiza chifukwa chake mumakopa munthu yemwe akuyembekezera. Mwina simudziwabe zomwe muyenera kukhala "munthu wanu". Sikokwanira kudziwa zomwe simukufuna kuwona mwa munthu wanu. Ndikofunikira kudziwa zomwe mukufuna ?! Chifukwa chake, khalani osalunjika nanu. Tiyeni titenge njira zoyambirira zokumana ndi "munthu wanu".
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Ganizirani za mikhalidwe yayikuluyi yomwe ingakondwere ndi "amuna a maloto anu".
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