Zovuta pokhudzana ndi maubwenzi sizimangokhala chifukwa chotsutsana ndi zolinga ndi malingaliro pa mafunso ofunikira. Komanso ndizovuta kwa iwo omwe samagwirizana ndi mitundu yamakhalidwe. Mwachitsanzo, mtsikana wochokera ku zomwe adakumana nazo kuti akhale "amayi" kwa munthu - kuphika chakudya, sankhani zovala, ndipo sakufuna woperekera masana. Kuti mulankhule ndi munthu wokondedwa wazomwe mumavomereza mtundu, adatulutsa mayeso atsopano - kuyankha mafunso ndikugawana mayankho omwe ali pansipa.
Choyamba ndicheza
1. Munabwera ku golosalo kuti mudye chakudya chamadzulo chamadzulo, chomwe chingatenge chinthu choyamba?
A. Kodi ngati munthu amene amakonda - ndi nthawi yoyesako yachinsinsi, yomwe imawerengera pa intaneti.
B. Lembani zinthu zomwe amakonda - zabwino kwambiri bwino kukonza kanema pakama.
B. Masamba ambiri, zipatso ndi zipatso - chinthu choyamba ndikusamalira thanzi.
2. Munthu wanu amachedwa kuntchito. Kodi mumatani?
A. Ndidikirira, kenako ndikuyimbira foni kuzokambirana zazikulu - adziwitseni kuti ndizosatheka kuzimiririka popanda chenjezo.
B. Sindinena chilichonse, ndikhumudwitsidwa - zisiyeni tsopano zidachitika bwanji.
V. Ndipenda tsiku lake ndikuganiza chifukwa chake sanachedwe, mwina safuna kupita kwawo?
3. Mwalota kwa galu nthawi yayitali, koma zonse sizingaganize zogula. Ndipo mwadzidzidzi onani kulengeza kwa kugulitsa kamwano kokongola kwa mtundu womwe mukufuna. Kodi mumatani?
A. Ndikana kugula - ndizosavomerezeka, chifukwa nyumbayo tili ndi yaying'ono, ndipo ndalama pa galu zitha kukhala zonenepa kwambiri.
B. Onetsetsani kuti mugule! Ndibweretsa kunyumba ndikudikirira wokondedwa wanu tikamakhala ndi galu yemwe timuyang'ana ndi maso ang'ono.
Q. Ndikukumbukira kuti bambo wanga ali ndi vuto la ana pa agalu kapena chifuwa - muyenera kuganizira za ife awiri, osangonena za ine.
4. Mwayamba pamwezi, ndipo mupita kukafika sabata kuti mugone. Kodi mumatani?
A. Tidzamwa mapiritsi kuti tisunthe mzungu, ndikuchenjeza mnzanu - muyenera kuwongolera funso ili.
B. Ndimakonza iye ndipo sindipita kulikonse. Kodi sizotsimikizira kuti ndimamva bwino ndisanayambe kusungitsa sauna?
V. Ndine wokondwa kumuuza, ndipita kukakhala m'chipinda chodyeramo. Amafuna kupita kwa sauna kwambiri, sindingathe kusokoneza zolinga zake.
5. Mukuyenda ndi okondedwa anu pagalimoto, mwadzidzidzi akunena kuti watopa. Kodi muli ndi ufulu ndipo mudalemba inshuwaransi yake, khalani pansi pa gudumu?
A. Inde, chifukwa amafunikanso kugona, ndipo ndimakonda kuyendetsa.
B. Chifukwa chiyani! Ndili wokondwa kwambiri kuwerenga bukulo kuposa kuvuta ndikutsatira mseu.
Q. Ndikukumbukira kuti nthawi yanthawi yake adatopa, ndipo tatsala pang'ono kupitiriza mzati. Mwina nthawi yokhala pansi pa gudumu ...
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A. Kholo. Mumayamika mwayi wosamalira wokondedwa wanu, kuwonetsa momwe mukumvera mbale zomwe amakonda, samalani ndi momwe akumvera ndikugona, ndi zinthu zina. Kukonda kotereku kumafotokozedwa koyambirira kwa ubalewo, koma munthawi yayitali kumatha kukulekanitsa: munthu azitha kuzolowera zinthu zanu ndipo zimatha kuzindikira zabwino zonse zomwe mumaletsa kuyanjana kwanu. Mvetsetsani kuti wokondedwayo ndi wofunikira kukhala achikulire: Kudzipangira nokha payekha, motsogozedwa ndi zikhumbo zanu ndikumvela nokha. Izi sizomwe zimabweretsa, koma ndi moyo wabwinobwino. Chifukwa chake, tsegulani mwayi wopeza mpweya, ndikusilira mawere onse.
B. Mwana. Mphatso zokondedwa, zowonetsa zatsopano, zomata zazing'ono ndichinthu, popanda zomwe zimakuvutani kuti mukhale ndi moyo. Kugwedeza kapena kusewera pamitsempha ya anthu ena - sichoncho? Ayi, si atsikana onse omwe amakonzekera amuna - akusewera pazomera za anthu omwe amakukondani samveka. Iwalani za malamulowo ndipo khalani ndi chilolezo ndi wokondedwa, kuti muyambe kukhala abwenzi, kenako ndikugawana gawo la Mfumukazi ndi Mgonjetsi kwake.
Ochulukirapo V. Psychologist. Kodi mudakumana kangati tikamakhala vereti? Ngati otayika abwera nthawi ndi nthawi, omwe amalungamitsa mphamvu ya moyo mavuto awo, osatinso ulesi, zikutanthauza kuti ndinu. Timakopa anthu oterowo omwe ali oyenera. Lekani kukhala wopereka mphamvu kwa omwe sakanatha kuthana ndi mavuto awo ndi othandizira. Yang'anani mnzanu amene mungakhale womasuka, komanso yemwe mungakhale wokhoza kumupangitsa munthu kuti azichita chidwi.
Ngati simunafike ndi zosankha za mayankho, zikomo - mudzakhala ndi psyche yathanzi, ndipo mutha kukhala muubwenzi wofanana. Mayeso amazindikira ndipo akufuna kukupangitsani kuganiza za mavuto mu maubale. Chithunzi chonse pamaso pa mavuto chingapangidwe kokha pokambirana ndi akatswiri othandizira.