"Tikupita ndi amayi anga m'mphepete mwa nyanja, njira ndi mapino, pitani kunyanja. Ndipo ndikunena kuti amayi anga akumva kuti: "Amayi, awa ndi nyumba yanga, ndi malo anga! Ndimazikonda pano, ndili bwino pano! "Amayi amayankha kuti: Monga fumbi! "Ndimazikonda kuchokera ku gombe ili, ndimatumiza nyumba yake ndikubwerera ku banki. Ndikuwona bambo yemwe amasamala pano pa nyama: Kittons, akambuku ndi amphaka ena. Ndikumulimbikitsa kuti athandize kwa nazale, pachilichonse kuti athandizidwe ndikunena kuti ndikufuna chitetezo ndi kulipira ntchito yanga. Amayankha kuti zonse zili bwino kuti ndidzasamalira ana ang'ono ndipo ndidzakhale naye. "
Clalissa Pitlol Mauls, wophunzitsa wa Junga dzina lake omwe adalemba buku lotchuka "likuyenda ndi mimbulu", analankhula m'mabuku oyambitsa mzimayi - ndiye kuti, kudzipereka kwa mtsikana wachikulire. Ndipo imalandira izi kuchokera kwa amayi ake. Mwanjira ina, mtsikana wachichepere ayenera kudalitsa kuchokera kwa amayi chifukwa chakuti ali ndi moyo wawo kuti ali ndi vuto la zolakwa zake, banja lake, ana awo, maloto awo. Kuti anakhwima kwambiri kotero kuti safunikiranso malangizo a mayi, koma amangofunika thandizo lake.
Kugona msungwana uyu akuti wauka kwambiri kuuza amayi ake kuti apeza moyo, pomwepo, amamuuza zabwino amace, monga momwe amathandizira. Amakumana ndi munthu yemwe adzalera ana ndikumuthandiza.
M'malo mwake, zingakhale bwino kuti amayi onse achichepere adzachita izi. Nthawi zambiri, kupatukana kokhwima kwa mayi sikuchitika. Amayi amapitilizabe kulowererapo ndi ana aakazi achikulire, kwezani ana awo, kutsutsa moyo wawo wabanja. Ndipo ana akulu aakazi sangathe kudzitchinjiriza ku anyeziwu, ngati atsikana ang'onoang'ono omwe amawopa kukhumudwitsa kapena kukhumudwitsa amayi.
Izi ndizodziwika bwino pagulu. Kupatukana ndi makolo sikuchitika, komwe kumatanthauza kuti kukwaniritsidwa kumene m'moyo wawukulu m'moyo ulinso. Chifukwa chake, azimayi achikulire amakhala ndi akazi ngati ana omwe akhumudwitsidwa.
Koma maloto athu akuwoneka kuti akubweretsa dongosolo lolondola logwirizana ndi amayi ake. Ndipo ichi ndi chinthu chabwino kwambiri chomwe chikadachitika patsiku la ukwati.
Maria DonaCkova, zamatsenga, othandizira am'banja komanso akutsogolera paubwenzi wapakati pa Marika Khazin