Nthawi zonse timayesetsa kukhala ndi anthu ambiri omwe tili pafupi nafe komanso popanda zomwe sitimapereka moyo wathu. Komabe, pakachitika zina, kusiyana ndiye yankho labwino kwambiri, chifukwa si mgwirizano uliwonse womwe umayesedwa ndi nthawi. Ndiye mungapulumuke bwanji nthawi iyi ndi zotayika zazing'ono kwambiri? Tinayesa kudziwa.
Osathamangira kukadziwitsa anthu ozungulira
Nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta kuti mkazi azisunga malingaliro - ali ndi ma foni ochokera kwa abwenzi, abale ndi anzawo omwe anganene zoyenera kuchita. Kumbukirani kuti palibe, kupatula inu, awiri simukudziwa zomwe zikuchitika mkati mwa gulu lanu, motero upangiri wa okondedwa sikuti nthawi zonse. Kuphatikiza apo, ngati mukumvetsetsa kuti ubalewo wadziululira, musachite zambiri kuposa wina aliyense, kuyesera kuti amupangitse kuti apangidwe mothandizidwa ndi abwenzi, chifukwa nthawi zana limodzi ndi mnzanga. Pulumuka nthawi ino palimodzi.
Dzisamalire
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Osafunafuna
Thanthwe limasiya kwambiri mbali zosasangalatsa, makamaka ngati mnzake amachita ngati woyambitsa. Sikuti mkazi aliyense ali wokonzeka kupikisana ndi udindo wake ndikuyamba kukakamiza kwakale. Pano pali milandu ya anthu m'machimo onse, osalungamitsidwa nthawi zonse - mkwiyo supereka mkazi wapumulirako. Gap samachitika chifukwa cha vuto lililonse, onse awiri ndiwadzudzule chifukwa cha zonse, chifukwa chake musataye mphamvu chifukwa cha munthu amene wakhala wogwirizana.
Palibe chisoni
Osati kumverera koyenera kumalimbitsa ubale ndi kumera. Zimachitika kuti tikuchedwetsedwa ndi chiyembekezo chopanda chiyembekezo chifukwa cha kusamvera chisoni kwa mnzake: "Ali bwanji popanda ine?" Ndipo tikupitilizabe kuba nthawi ndi mphamvu kwa wina ndi mnzake, patsogolo podziwa kuti palibe chomwe chidzafika. Dziwani nokha mphamvu kuti muthe kufafanizana kuti muyambe kupanga moyo ndi munthu watsopano kapena pezani theka latsopano.
Ikani mfundo
Chifukwa china chomwe chimachitika pafupipafupi ndi zikumbutso nthawi zonse. Muziona kuti munasokonekera, kodi mumasunga nthawi zonse kuti: "Kodi mungatani ngati mungabwezere chilichonse?" Ndipo yambani kupempha chitonthozo mu lingaliro ili, lomwe silidzakwaniritsidwa. Mwina mumasunga zinthu za mnzanu wakale yemwe amakukumbutsani za kupezeka nthawi zonse. Posafunikira. Chotsani zikumbutso zonse zakuthupi komanso zosagwirizana zakale, popanda izi simungathe kuyambitsa mutu watsopano wa moyo wanu.
Sinthani nokha
Gap ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yoyambiranso "kuyambiranso." Monga lamulo, mu maubale, nthawi zonse sitimakhala ndi nthawi yokwanira, bwanji osagwiritsa ntchito nthawi yotulutsidwa kuti ibwezeretsedwe kwa thanzi la uzimu ndi thanzi? Pangani, pomaliza, zomwe mumakonda kuchita, sinthani gawo la zochitika, pitani paulendowu, zimatulutsa galu, chilichonse. Sinthanitsani kwathunthu.