Kulankhula ndi munthu wina, timayembekezera kuti munthu amvere mosamala komanso kuyankha mawu athu ndi mayankho. Komabe, machitidwe a amayimilidwe ena sangakhale omwe angasokoneze pazokambirana, koma kuti aletse. Munthawi yomwe nthawi zambiri mumalumikizana ndi anthu osadziwika, ndibwino kupewa kukwiya kuposa kutaya mtima wofunika. Timanena kuti ndi manja ati omwe amapewa pakulankhulana.
Dinani chogwirizira
Ngati mungagwire nawo mpira m'manja mwanu mutalankhula ndi munthu wina, koma osagwiritsa ntchito - ndizowoneka zachilendo. Choyipa chachikulu mukayamba kusanthula batani, kuwonekera. Ngakhale pachiwopsezo chachikulu, izi zimayambitsa kukwiya mu mphindi zochepa. Dziphunzitseni kuti muchepetse kukambirana musanayambe kuyankhulana ndikupindani manja anu, kuti musayende.
Chala chosonyeza
Sinthani chizolowezi cha kanjedza cha kanjedza - motero kuzindikira kwa umboniwo kudzafewetsa. Ngakhale mukuyesera kuyika muilesi ndi chala chanu, ndikunena nkhani yosangalatsa, imakhala yovuta komanso yovutika maganizo. Kuchita izi kumatanthauza kufalikira, mphamvu, ndipo ndani angafune pamene wina wosumirayo, ngakhale ngati angamukumbukire?
Osaloza intlocor ndi chala
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Kutulutsa khosi
Anthu akapezeka kuti ali ndi vuto, iwowa adayamba kuchita mantha komanso kukayikira mphamvu zawo. Kugwedeza khosi ndi chizindikiro kuti muli m'maganizo ndipo simungathe kuthana ndi nkhawa. Ingoganizirani kuti mwabwera ku zokambirana ku utsogoleri ndi pokambirana ndi abwana amtsogolo, ndiye ndimakaka khosi. Mtsogoleri wodziwa ntchito yemwe amaphunzira za sayansi yamakhalidwe, izi zimapereka chizindikiro chokhudza inu. Pangani zopumira zakuya, sungani manja anu ndikutsimikiza kuti mupambana.
Kuyika paphewa
Kulankhula nkhani mu kampaniyi kuchokera m'moyo, mwina sitingazindikire momwe amayesera kukhudza amayimilira ena, kuwayika paphewa kapena kumenya phewa. Kuchita izi kumakwiyitsa aliyense, chifukwa munthu aliyense amafuna kukhalabe malo oyikika payekha, ngakhale anthu ena atakhala pafupi. Ndikhulupirireni, mutha kunyamula ena ndi chilichonse, kupatula njira zongoyang'ana.
Omenyedwa
Kuluma kosakhalitsa kwa nkhonya - chizindikiro chomwe simumavomereza chidziwitsocho ndikukwiya kapena kukonzekera kufotokozera zakuyankha. Pakacheza pafupipafupi, ndikofunikira kukhalabe osalowerera ndale ndipo musakhale okhumudwa chifukwa chosakangana ndi aliyense. Kutsutsidwa kulikonse kumatha kufotokozedwa modekha - chifukwa izi simukufunikira kukonzekera chitetezo, kuwulula nkhonya.
Palibenso chifukwa chofinya zingwe ngati simukufuna kuchita zoyipa
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Manja owoloka
Zoonadi, aliyense akudziwa kuti manja awo atawoloka pachifuwa pawo akuti: "Sindikudandaula Nanu ndipo musakukhulupirira." Uku ndikuwongolera chitetezo chomwe chimakutsutsa chotsutsa kwa Interloompor. Nthawi zambiri zimagwiritsidwa ntchito mozama zokambirana zazikulu, munthu akangoyamba kapena kuneneza chinthu. Ngati mukufotokoza bwino malingaliro anu, osayesa kumubisala, ndiye kuti mulole kusamvana kutsutsana mwachangu ndikubwera ku yankho losangalatsa.