"Amayi ndi cholinga cha moyo." Ili ndiye dzina la imodzi mwazinthu zodziwika bwino kwambiri za psychotherapist wokhala ndi dzina la World Irvina Yala. Ndipo dzina lake siabwino kuposa mutu wa nkhani yamakono komanso kugona.
Mwina palibe protocol protocol osakhudza mutuwu. Ndipo chotsimikiza kuti gawo lililonse lachiwiri limatha ndi nkhani za "za amayi".
Amayi, tikufuna kapena ayi, amapanga zopereka zambiri kuchokera ku mbali zachilengedwe ndi zamaganizidwe kwa omwe tili. Psychoanalysis amafufuza ndi makasitomala mutu wa chinthu, komwe chinthu chofunikira kwambiri ndi mayi. Mayi aliyense: wokonda kunjenjemera, kusamalira, chidwi, okoma mtima, omasuka kapena ozizira, osavomerezeka. Amayi, omwe amayang'ana mwana wake ali ndi dzanja lamphamvu, kapena mayi yemwe anadzipereka ku chifundo cha chiyembekezo chovuta ndipo chimatha kukhalabe ndi moyo watsopano komanso waluso kwambiri wokhala ndi mwana wake. Amayi, omwe mungamukomere, kapena amayi, omwe ndi osowa komanso ofooka, momwe mungabweretse ...
Ngakhale atakhala ozizira, tikambirana za amayi.
Ndipo izi ndi za pampando wonena za amayi amatha kufotokozedwa. M'moyo, pomwe mayi ali moyo, ndipo amalumikizana nawo, akufanizira molingana ndi njira yapadera, yolumikizirana ndi zosokoneza zambiri zomwe "mayi ayenera kukhala oyera", "ayenera kukonda."
Kugona maloto athu masiku ano za momwe zimafunikira kwa amayi anga, koma ndizosatheka malinga ndi mfundo zamkati.
"Maloto awa akhala akulota kwa zaka zingapo, kubwerera ku mitundu yosiyanasiyana, koma nthawi zonse kumakhala kofanana.
Ndikupita kukasankha amayi anga kunyumba kwake ndikunyamula kukhala ndi ine, mnyumba mwanga. Zikuwoneka kuti ndi zachikale, ndipo ndikofunikira kuti ndizitha kumusamalira. Tikukhala pasitima, sitimayi kapena mayendedwe ena, akuyembekezera kuchoka. M'maloto amodzi, timayamba kuyenda ndikufulumira m'njira zapaulendo. M'maloto ena, sitimayo siipita kulikonse. Pamaloto achitatu, timachezera njanji yosiyidwa m'mapeto akufa. "
Kusamalira mayi wokalamba, muyeso wa nkhawa yomwe ili sikuyenera kukhala ntchito, koma kusankha kwa ufulu wosankha
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M'magawowa, snoviditits adawonetsa kuti maloto awa adayamba kulota kuyambira pomwe mayi wokalambayo adatsala mumzinda wina, ndipo pali zokamba za ulesi za kuti ndikofunikira kuti timunyamule.
Zachidziwikire, mukugwedeza, anena, Inde. Koma maloto a snovaidice akuwonetsa kuti moyo ndi amayi ndi mathero a akufa kuti njirayi ilibe chiyembekezo, ngakhale kuti ndi "zolondola", malingaliro ndi zina zomwe malingaliro sizingakhale zosiyana.
Mu zokambirana zamkati zamaloto, amadziuza kuti sanakonzekere kukhala ndi moyo, kuti, ngakhale kuti lingaliro la lingaliroli, palibe mwayi wochita bwino.
Sindikufuna kusiya mtundu wina wa yunifolomu motsutsana ndi kuti ndikofunikira kusamalira amayi akale. Zinthu m'moyo zimakhala ndi njira yapadera, monga zala zilizonse ndizopadera. Nthawi zina zokumana nazo za moyo ndi kholo sizimapereka mphamvu konse, koma zimachoka mbali zonse ziwiri: mwa ana ndi makolo. Popeza moyo umasiyana kwambiri, wowawa, wowawa. Kumbali ina, kudziimba mlandu komanso kukhumudwitsidwa. Kumbali ina, chisanu, kusungidwa ndi mkwiyo, kuti moyo wolumikizana umangotsimikizira izi ndikukulunga ndi mphamvu yatsopano pa media.
Maloto a maloto athu akuti nthawi zina ndi amayi ake, "zamamena" - sizinatheke kwa iye. Ndili ndi amayi anga, ndibwino mukamalankhulana mu mawonekedwe a mabungwe othandizira, kukayikira ndi ziphunzitsopoke. Kenako samalani mayi wokalambayo, muyeso wa chisamaliro kwambiri si ntchito, koma kusankha kwaulere.
Ndimalimbikitsa kuti funso lothetsa moyo ndi mayi anga silimawoneka ngati sitima, koma ngati galimoto, kumbuyo kwa chiwongolero chomwe maloto amakhala pansi. Mu wokwera sitima payekha ali ndi chikole: imapita komwe njirayi idayikidwiratu kuti woyendetsayo adagona. M'galimoto, woyendetsa amayendetsa vutoli. Ndipo izi zikutanthauza kuti woyendetsayo asankha momwe, komwe, pa liwiro lanji, ndipo apita ndi ndani.
Tikufuna maloto athu kuti mukhale pansi "kumbuyo kwa gudumu" pankhaniyi.
Ndikudabwa zomwe mumalota? Zitsanzo za maloto anu kutumiza ndi makalata: [email protected]. Mwa njira, maloto ndiosavuta kufotokoza ngati mu kalata yopita kwa mkonzi womwe mudzalemba nthawi ya moyo, koma koposa zonse - malingaliro ndi malingaliro panthawi ya kudzutsidwa m'maloto.
Maria DonaCkova, zamatsenga, othandizira am'banja komanso akutsogolera paubwenzi wapakati pa Marika Khazin