Kodi ndi ndani "wotopetsa" polalikira kwa achinyamata? Uyu ndiye amene sanyamula zosangalatsa zam'mbuyomu, yemwe ali ndi moyo wabwino komanso wolosera. Gawo la mwana wa mvula yamkuntho kwa azimayi ali ndi zaka pafupifupi 35, kwa amuna, kenaka, pafupi ndi zaka 40.
Ku m'badwo uno, anthu amasiya kupita ku mipiringidzo, kutsanulira nthawi zonse usiku, osakonda kusintha ntchito, musachite zinthu mwachangu. Sichichitika kawirikawiri kwa iwo omwe, kwa 30, mosayembekezereka kampani yopanda phokoso kwa abwenzi kapena kupita ku ulendo wosakonzekera. Masewera atsopano, zosangalatsa komanso zomwe ndidziwa zatsopano, mwatsoka, nawonso, choyambirira chaunyamata.
Nthawi zambiri chizindikiro cha "kusonkhanitsa" kumakhala ukwati. Maonekedwe a ana amawapangitsanso amayi ndi madambo kukhala moyo wabwino. Thandizo laumoyo limachepetsa kulakalaka chidwi chokhazikika. Komabe, pambuyo pa amuna ndi akazi, chidwi chofuna kuyenda kapena kukhala bwino kuti muchepetse nthawi yodyera. Monga akunenera, "sedna m'DUDY"!