Makolo ndi anthu oyandikira kwambiri. Amatidziwa ngati palibe wina ndipo nthawi zina amagwiritsa ntchito, kutipangitsa, nthawi zambiri osadzindikira. Afuna kudziwa za moyo wathu: kuda nkhawa zathu, zomwe ndi zachilengedwe komanso zabwinobwino, ndikuyesera kupereka upangiri. Koma nthawi zambiri makolo amakhala ndi zovuta zambiri pazambiri pazambiri, chifukwa cha komwe amakhala osavutikira. Kodi mungatani ngati mukumvetsetsa kuti makolo anu akukumana? Motani kuti asapweteke anthu apamtima, koma nthawi yomweyo musatchule malire?
Nthawi zambiri zimakhala zabwinoko
Zikachitika nthawi ndi nthawi, palibe zoopsa. Ndikofunika kuda nkhawa mukapanikizika nthawi zonse - kumalepheretsa moyo wamunthu komanso kulepheretsa kufanana kwauzimu. Ngati pali mavuto atakhala mwana, mtsogolo mwana sangathe kupanga zosankha zodziyimira pawokha, sadzazindikira zosowa zake zowona zenizeni.
Timayang'ana njira
Pali zizindikilo zingapo zomwe ndizosavuta kumvetsetsa kuti makolo anu sapunthwa:
-Unu mukumva kupanikizika;
-Kodi malingaliro ndi malingaliro ndi malingaliro saganizira;
- Oyambitsa amatenga nawo mbali m'mitundu yonse ya moyo wanu;
- Zogulitsa zikuyesera kukukakamizani kupanga zosankha zofunika.
Kukambirana pakati pa kholo-modumphar ndipo mwana nthawi zambiri amapezeka mu kiyi yamphamvu kwambiri.
Ganizirani zanzeru
Pali njira zingapo za makolo kuyesera kuti athetse ana. Njira yoyamba ikuimba mwana mosasangalatsa komanso momwe akumvera. Kholo limadziimba mlandu chifukwa chomukonda. Khalidwe lotere m'banjamo limakhazikitsa malamulo omwe malingaliro angagwiritsidwe ntchito ngati mkangano kapena njira yokakamiza. Mwachitsanzo, amayi amalongosola zomwe akukugonjetsani, monga momwe mudawabweretsera ndi chizolowezi changa chosayenera.
Njira yachiwiri ndiyo kuchepa kwa mphamvu za anthu ena. Nthawi zonse zimawoneka kwa ife kuti palibe chomwe chimalimba kuposa momwe mumakhudzidwira. Mavuto Alendo Timazindikira modekha - izi zimangochitika mu ubale wa kholo ndi mwana. Khalidwe lotereli ndizambiri kwa anthu onse.
Njira Yachitatu - Kukusowa Chikondi. Pambuyo pochita zinthu zopanda pake muubwana, makolo sangalankhule ndi mwanayo, osayang'ana - onse, kuti anyalanyaze njira iliyonse. Cholinga cha izi ndikuti makolo sadziwa momwe angachitire. Ngati tikulankhula za mwana akakula ndikukhala wamkulu, ndikofunikira kusiya zinthu ngati izi nthawi yomweyo.