"Maubwenzi apaumuno" poizoni amawononga moyo wa anthu ochulukirapo. Akatswiri amisala okha alibe nthawi yopezedwa kuchokera kwa omwe akuzunzidwa ndi anzawo - mwakuthupi komanso zamaganizidwe, koma ambiri satha kufulumira kusintha kena kake m'miyoyo yawo.
Kodi zizindikiro za zomwe mudakumana nazo mumayanjano ndi ziti?
Kudzidalira kumagwa mpaka zero
Mnzawoyo akadali, omwe muli nawo, zabwino zomwe muli nazo, ndipo onse, mikhalidwe yanu yonse imatsitsidwa, pomwe malo ocheperako amatha kukhala poyambira kutsutsidwa kwatsopano ndi kudzudzula. Monga lamulo, mnzake amadziwa zomwe zingachitike: tinene, mkazi akukumana ndi ma kilogalamu owonjezera, bambo, wozunza amayamba kumudzudzula, samakondwera naye, ndipo General munthuyo alidi. Ndipo mkaziyo ayamba kukhulupirira. Komanso, zinthu zitha kugwira ntchito mbali ina - mkaziyo amamuimba mlandu munthu.
Mnzake amadziwa kuti simupita kulikonse
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Kubera anzawo
Mukapha mkazi / mwamunayo, mnzake amayamba kumaliza, kukakamiza wozunzidwayo chifukwa cha kufunika kwake. Kumwa mankhwalawa kumabweretsa cholinga chake, amalandila mphamvu kwambiri kuti achitire mnzakeyo ndipo angafunike chilichonse chomwe akufuna. Monga lamulo, wozunzidwayo sakuganiza kuti adzachoka - amene amazifuna, ndi wopanda ungwiro m'maso mwake?
Mwamuna akumva kusasangalala
Wovutitsidwayo sangasangalale ndi moyo, zochitika zonse zikuwoneka kuti zikudutsa. Nthawi zambiri, kukhumudwa, kutopa, chidwi ndi kukhumudwa ndi maubale oopsa. M'malo oterowo, anthu amaiwala kuti ndibwino kumangira ubale watsopano kuposa kukonzanso dzina lawo.
Maubwenzi apadera amatha kugwira ntchito zina za moyo
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Chifukwa chiyani anthu amapirira izi?
Kugwirizana kwankhanza kumatha kulibe ngakhale pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi: zomwe zimafala kwambiri ndizofala pakati pa mabanja, m'magulu a antchito, pakati pa abwenzi. Chosangalatsa, ambiri mwa ozunzidwa kuchokera kwa makolo ndi anzawo amayambitsa ubalewu, koma izi sizimakhudzidwa ndi mnzake - gululi ndi "chokhazikika". Malinga ndi ziwerengero, omwe amakhudzidwa ndi mwamuna wake kapena mkazi wake amalembedwa kwa akatswiri azamisala, osati amayi ndi abambo. Ozunzidwa amadzilungamitsa omwe alakwira momwe angathere, mmalo mophwanya ubalewu.
Akatswiri ambiri azamisala ali ndi chidaliro kuti azimayi amakhala ndi mavuto ", chifukwa apulumutsidwa ku ubwana kuti mkazi wopanda mwamuna amakhala ndi vuto, akudzitsimikizira kuti ali ndi malingaliro oyipa kukhala ndi wina aliyense. Zimakhala zovuta kukhala ndi malingaliro omwe chikondi chimayenera kuyikidwa.
Mkazi akadali wakhanda amapereka kukhazikitsa kuti ali ndi chilema popanda bambo
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Zoyenera kuchita?
Mkazi, choyamba, muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti palibe amene ali ndi ufulu wobweretsa ufulu wake ndikusintha. Ngati zimakuvutani kusankha momwe mungachitire zinthu zovuta m'banjamo, onetsetsani kuti mwalumikizana ndi katswiri yemwe angakugwireni vuto.
Zachidziwikire, nthawi zambiri timatsutsidwa ndikupanga ndemanga, ndipo izi ndizabwinobwino. Koma pamene nkhanza zamaganizidwe zimatha kukhala ndi chikhalidwe chosatha, kudekha kulibe koyenera pano. Choyamba: Mvetsetsani kuti ubale woterewu ndi wachilendo. Muyenera kusunga psyche yanu ndikuyimitsa machitidwe a mnzake mwanjira iliyonse, mpaka kusiya.