Mfundo yake "imalola kuti" zikhale ", ngati mukuyesera kupanga mgwirizano wolimba ndi mnzake. Ena amakhulupirira kuti kudzikayikira ndi chizindikiro cha kufooka, ntchito. Koma makamaka, mgwirizano wokhudzana ndi kuthetsa njira, onse awiriwa ayenera kupereka china chake, osati imodzi. Komabe pali zochitika ngati izi pomwe kupambana kwa kunyengerera si njira yothetsera, ndipo chiyambi cha chimaliziro:
Mukamayesa kuchotsa
Ngati mnzanuyo amayesa kukupweteketsani, akuti simuyenera kuchita chilichonse, zosangalatsa zanu ndizotopetsa, ndipo ntchitoyi siyothandiza, ndikofunikira kuganiza za ubale wanu. Palibenso chifukwa chovomerezera "kunyengerera" komwe mumaponya ntchito kapena zosangalatsa chifukwa choti mnzakeyo akufuna. Musaiwale kuti munthu, chilichonse mapiri a Golide adalonjeza kuti, achoka nthawi iliyonse, kenako ndikuyika pachiwopsezo popanda malo opeza ndalama.
Zoletsa sizikunena za chikondi cha mnyamatayo, koma za vuto lake la Psyche
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Malingaliro anu amtsogolo sakusintha
Mwachitsanzo, mumafuna ana, koma bambo wanu sakhala, kapena mosemphanitsa? Ndipo vomerezani zolawitsa kuti: "Bwerani pachaka," "Ndidzandilimbitsa mtima ndi kukapeza mwana," "ntchito ina, kenako nkudzabereka." Mapangano ngati amenewa sadzabweretsa chilichonse chabwino, chifukwa ndizosatheka kukakamiza mwana, motero pachaka kapena atatha kuwonjezera mnzakeyo abwera ndi chifukwa chatsopano chochedwera mimba. Chimodzimodzi ndi ukwati. Osakhala ndi munthu yemwe amadzilemba motsutsana ndi maubale omwe ali ndi zovomerezeka - kuti akonzenso ndizotheka kuchita bwino. Koma pomusiya, simudzataya nthawi ndipo amapeza munthu yemwe ali ndi moyo.
Akakusankhani, ndi ndani kuti azilankhulana
Mwamuna akanena kuti atsikana ndi omwe muli osasinthika komanso ololedwa kuwaona, malinga ndi kuti zidzakhalapo - izi sizonyengerera, koma kuphwanya. Kapenanso, muli ndi abwenzi achimuna, koma wokondedwayo amadzikonzera mwamphamvu, motero amawaletsa kuti azilankhula nawo. Zitha kukhala kuti ngakhale kulumikizana ndi banja kumatha kukwiyitsa wokonda. Zonsezi pamwambapa ndi kulowererapo m'malo mwanu, zizindikiro zoyambirira za ubale wozunza. Sikoyenera kupita pa mapangano aliwonse okhudzana ndi anthu oyandikira - mumangoganiza mukamafuna kulumikizana ndi.
Osakhala mu maubale omwe simusangalala
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Malamulo amakhazikitsidwa kwa inu
Mwachitsanzo, simungakumane ndi atsikana kumapeto kwa sabata, pitani kumisonkhano, kavalidwe "molongosoka". Koma nthawi yomweyo mnzakeyo ali ndi ufulu kuti apite kumimba ndi anzawo kuti awone mpira, usodzi waulendo kapena umalumikizane ndi atsikana ena. "Masewera mu chipata chimodzi" sadzabweretsa chilichonse chabwino. Palibenso kunyalanyaza pano, nsembe yosafunikira yokha kuchokera kwa mtsikanayo. Ndikofunikira kukhazikitsa malire "m'mphepete mwa nyanja", ndipo ngati sichinathe, kuti mumalize maubale.