Amayi ambiri amalota za banja lalikulu lomwe lidzakhala ana ambiri komanso mavuto abwino, chifukwa cha mwana woyamba, mkazi akumvetsa kuti ngakhale ndi mwana m'modzi - weniweni. Chisankho pa mwana wachiwiri sichinaperekedwe kakang'ono kwambiri, komabe tidaganiza zokuthandizani kuti mupange chisankho chabwino.
"Pakhoza kukhala nyumba yayikulu, ndiye ..."
Mwinanso, kukayikira ambiri kukayikira ndendende panthaka yanyumbayo, monganso ana angapo sangathe kukula ku ODnushka, komwe akuyenera kukhala ndi makolo awo. Zoyenera, mwana aliyense ayenera kukhala ndi chipinda chosiyana, ngati muli ndi mwayi ndipo anawo ndi omwe angachite mgonero, mutha kuchita ubwana wina, koma si aliyense mwayi.
Nthawi zambiri, mabanja amabanja angakhale ndi kusankha mwana wachiwiri, koma maloto a nyumba yayikulu yokhala ndi indoramic Windows amasiya malingaliro awo ndi lingaliro lobzala mwana wachiwiri liyenera kulembedwa. Mukutsimikiza kuti loto ladziko lonse lapansi lidzabwera posachedwa? Ngati sichoncho, nkotheka, kudasankhidwabe kukhala makolo nthawi yachiwiri ngati mutalota kwa nthawi yayitali. Kuphatikiza apo, ndani amakuletsa kugula nyumba, kukhala ndi ana awiri m'manja?
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"Kumene mungapeze ndalama zochuluka kwambiri?"
Makolo ambiri amasokonezedwa ndi nthawi ino. Palibe amene akusonyeza kuti anawo adzayang'anitsitsa wina ndi mnzake, koma maphunziro abwino, mitundu yonse ya zolembetsa mu gawoli pali ndalama zabwino, makamaka pamakhala m'mizinda yayikulu. Sikuti aliyense angatulutse ndalama zotere. Komabe, kugawa ndalama moyenera kungathandize kuthana ndi vutoli: nsapato zotsatira zochokera padziko lonse lapansi zitha kuperekedwa nsembe. Mwa zina, nthawi zonse mutha kuwerengera chithandizo chamankhwala omwe amagwira njira zosiyanasiyana zothandizira amayi ndi akulu.
"Nanga bwanji za ntchito?"
Amayi mamiliyoni padziko lonse lapansi amaphatikiza ntchito komanso mayiyo, phindu masiku ano lili ndi mwayi wogwira ntchito kutali. Komabe, amayi ambiri amabatizidwa kwathunthu kusamalira ana, ndipo "kumene" anali kusintha kwakukulu pantchito yawo, kuti asamalire zomwe sizili zophweka. Pali njira zingapo apa, zonse zimatengera kuti ndi moyo wanu wokulirapo uti:
- Mutha kudzipereka kwathunthu kwa ana.
- Ngati mfundo yoyamba sikukugwirizanitseni, tikuyang'ana ana a nanny kwa ana ndipo tikusowa.
- Sinthani m'badwo.
"Chani? Kamodzi kupyola ku Gahena? Ayi! "
Palibe chifukwa chodziwika. Zochitika zosakwanira khansa zomwe zingasokoneze malingaliro anu. Inde, ndipo miyezi yoyamba atabadwa, amatha kukhudza kwambiri amayi a mayi wachichepere komanso wosagona, akumagona tulo, mayiko ena angamveke.
Mutha kuthana ndi mantha muofesi ya katswiri, pamodzi ndi wamisala, mumafotokoza kuti zidadabwitsidwa kwambiri kotero kuti lingaliro la kubereka kwachiwiri limada kwambiri. Ngati vutoli lili m'manja mwa pabanja, ndiye kuti chilimbikitso cha mnzanuyo komanso abale, simudzangogwira kokha ndi yachiwiri, komanso mwana wachitatu.