Amuna ambiri amakonda kubisa malingaliro - osati chachimuna, chimasilira bwino! Koma ndi kutsutsidwa pali zofanana ndendende. Nthawi zina mkazi amayenera kukoka kuvomereza kuchokera kwa wokondedwayo, komabe, pankhani yake yosakhutira ndi inu, makamaka pankhani ya kugonana, mutha kumvetsetsa za zomwe sitimalemba masiku ano kuti tisalankhule.
Safuna kukukhudzani
Mwinanso chizindikiro chofunikira kwambiri cha chizolowezi cha munthu - amangofuna kukhudzana ndi gawo la thupi lanu, yesani kudzuka pafupi, kupsompsona, pezani. Pabedi, zomwe zimachitika - ngati munthu apenga ponena za inu, adzapulumutsa kulumikizana kwakuthupi, m'malo motalikirapo. Ngati bambo akufuna chifukwa chothawira kuchimbudzi kapena pang'ono kuti musakhale nanu usiku, ndikofunika kuganiza kuti mupitilize kuyalana ndi munthu yemwe sakugwira mawu pamaso panu.
Munthu womangika amuna sangathamange pa mwayi woyamba
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Mimica nthawi zonse amapereka
Ngati mnzanuyo siochita bwino, kubisa kusakhutira mu njira ya samo sikugwira ntchito. Chowonadi chodziwika bwino - munthu ndi wovuta kuyang'ana pa zochitika zina panthawi yotsatira zomwe zikuchitika, zimatsimikizika ndi zakukhosi kwa thupi, motero mungatsimikizire kuti pakugonana ndi malingaliro ake kwa inu.
Popanda kuwononga maso
Mwamuna amene amasiririka ndi inu mu lingaliro lapamtima sadzayang'ana kapena kusankha mawonekedwe omwe simukuwawona. Ndizotheka, amaimira munthu wina m'malo mwanu, ndipo chifukwa chake ndikofunikira kuti musamayang'ane nanu. Mwina mumasintha kuti mumayanjana ndi misonkhano yamtengo wapatali, koma mawu ndi zokambirana za chikondi.
Kuthawa pabedi
Monga tidanenera, munthu amene mumasilira, adzaona chifukwa chothana ndi kuthawa kapena kumaliza kulumikizana pa kugonja lomwe. Kugonana koyenera komanso kulumikizana sikungamulole kuti atembenukire kukhoma ndi kugona mpaka m'mawa kuti ayang'ane mwakachetechete. Omangidwa kwa inu ndi munthu wokhutira sangakane kulankhula nanu ndipo zidzasangalatsa kumvera inu.