"Mwabwino kwambiri" ndi dzina lanyumba la munthu aliyense wangwiro - mkhalidwe womwe umapangitsa kuti mwini wake kapena mwiniwake amayesetsa pazinthu zoyenera pa chilichonse ndipo ziribe kanthu. Kumbali imodzi, kuyesetsa kuti zabwino sizabwino, ngakhale koyenera kwa iwo omwe ali ndi chidwi chofuna kuchita zinthu. Dongosolo la ungwiro ndi mawonekedwe a syndrome ndi njira yabwino kwa wolemba ntchito aliyense, chifukwa mutha kupachika ntchito ya timu yonse, ndipo idzazichita, chifukwa sizingakhale zosiyana. Chifukwa chake, kumbali ina, moyo wa munthu amene amayesetsa kukhala bwino, nthawi zambiri amafanana ndendende.
- mawonekedwe osiyanirana ndi ungwiro ndi syndrome ya mawonekedwe:
- Chikhumbo cha ukhondo wangwiro, dongosolo (ndipo titha kuwonedwa kuyambira ubwana - madola a kukula, zinthu mufiriji, etc.).
- Kuchita zopweteka pakutsutsidwa kulikonse komwe kumabweretsa kukhumudwa, ma Hoytedics. Ndipo motsutsana ndi maziko a nsanje iyi, wina akayamikiridwa.
"Kufunitsitsa kuchita zonse kukhala" asanu ", tengani maudindo owonjezereka, yesani kuti pali mphamvu, kufa, koma musachite.
- Kukonzekera kudzipereka, paubwenzi waumwini komanso kuntchito. Ake, Wanu, "Wabwino" sazindikira, siziteteza, ndizofunikira kwambiri kukwaniritsa njira iliyonse. Chifukwa chake, ili okonzeka kuchita zinazake kuti muwononge thanzi lake ndi thanzi, gwiritsani ntchito.
- Kuyerekeza ndi ena, zomwe nthawi zonse sizimakondwera - "zabwino" nthawi zonse zimakhala zoyipa kwambiri kuposa zomwe zimadziyerekezera, zimamulimbikitsa kuti akwaniritse kwambiri.
Lolani kuti mupange zolakwa
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Kodi anthu amapeza bwanji matenda abwino kwambiri?
Nthawi zambiri kumayambiriro, makolo akamamvetsetsa mtsikanayo kuti palibe, choyamba, sadzamukonda monga choncho. Ayenera kupeza matamando komanso, motero, chikondi. Zotsatira zake, kuyenera kukhala kuwonongeka kwa mano, kukhala ndi zinyalala, kukhala bwino, kuti muphunzire mwangwiro. Mtsikanayo amagwiritsidwa ntchito kuti chikondi cha makolo sichikhala chopanda malire ndipo chimadziwonetsera okha pokhapokha ngati ali bwino. Mulingo woona, umakhazikika: Kuyamika kwabwino + chikondi. Chifukwa chake, mtsikanayo amakula ndi kumvetsetsa kwa zomwe ayenera kukhala wabwino, yesani - ndiye kuti mudzakonda. Pano, monga lamulo, kutsutsidwa nthawi zonse kumawonjezera adilesi ya mwanayo, osakhutitsidwa nawo, chifukwa sizili ngati ena, chinthu sichichita kanthu, sichichita bwino. Mwana akukhudzidwa ndi iye yekha, akwiya mpaka sakukondweretsa zinazake ndi makolo ake, ndipo amayesa kutsimikizira ndi njira zonse zomwe ungakondedwa naye. Nthawi zambiri m'mabanja omwe "abwino" akukula, mmodzi wa makolo amaloledwa kwambiri ndipo amanyalanyaza mwana.
Kodi kupezeka kwa syndroome kwa exomitor kumatanthauza chiyani?
Chikhumbo choopseza chisokonezo chamanjenje, kupsinjika kwamphamvu, kusamvana kwa thupi, matenda a psychoomatic. Ndipo, mwina, chinthu chofunikira kwambiri ndikuti amayi omwe ali ndi matendawa amagwiritsa ntchito mwanjira zawo - olemba anzawo ntchito, amuna, atsikana, anzawo, onse omwe si aulesi kwambiri. "Zabwino kwambiri" - chinthu chovuta chokha chomwe mungachotsere ntchito yonse, mwa ubale wanu ndi nthawi zonse kusinthidwa kwa abambo, abwenzi, sangakane aliyense, wina ayenera kukana nthawi zonse. Atakhala ndi nkhawa kuyambira ubwana kuti chikondi chikhoza kungoyenera, ndine woipa kwambiri kuti palibe amene angandikonde kwambiri, amalola kuti muchepetse zozunza, ndikupangana nawo Ngakhale zili choncho kuyanjana kwakanthawi, koma koopsa.
Simukufuna kuvomerezedwa kwina, kupatula kwanu
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Kodi mungatani ngati mwapeza zizindikiro za syndroome ya Exomitor?
- Zimamveka kuti zoipa ndi zolakwika. Palibe kanthu koyera m'dziko lino lapansi, kuti mupumule ndi kungolemba: dziko sili kugwa. Chifukwa chake, dziletse mtima wobweretsa zonse kuti zichitike mwakufuna kwanu.
- Lolani kuti mulakwitse. Muziimitsa nokha kuchokera mkatikati mwa zina.
- Simuyenera kukumana ndi mafunso ndi malingaliro aliwonse. Ndipo, kuwonjezera pa iwo. Phunzirani kuchitapo kanthu, kutengera zinthu zanu zosafunikira, osati alendo.
- Zindikirani kuti simukufunanso kuyamikiridwa kwina kulikonse, kupatula nokha. Inu nokha.
- Ngati simungathe kusintha nokha ndi moyo wanu, kulumikizana ndi katswiri wazamisala kuti athandizidwe.