Manyazi - bwanji ... pang'ono pakumveka izi! Zikuwoneka kuti kumverera kumeneku sikunakhale kwa ife kwa nthawi yayitali, akuluakulu omwe amadziwa kuti ndani amadziwa za iwo enieni ngati sichoncho, kwambiri. Zikuwoneka kuti adakhala kwinakwake kuti akhale kutali ngati mtundu wa zonena zabodza, zomwe sizilamulira zenizeni zathu. Kapena ngongole?
Ena mwa ife sitimamva mawu akuti: "Nanga bwanji simuchita manyazi" ?, mwamphamvu, molingana ndi makolo ake kapena agogo aamuna kapena agogo, aphunzitsi! Pamodzi ndi mawu awa, onyoza adadza kwa ife, osamveka kapena owonekeratu, mantha ndi mantha. Analumikizidwa ndi chisokonezo choyambira: kuchita manyazi - kodi ndi? Kodi ndiyenera kuchita chiyani tsopano kuti ndimvetse zomwe ndachita? Kusokonezeka kumeneku kunachitika chifukwa tanthauzo la manyazi sikomwe samadziwika kwa mwanayo, siliba kwa iye, lilibe organic ngati angafotokozedwe, chiyambi. TAYEREKEZANI: Mumangokhala, chitani zina zomwe mukufuna, ndipo mwadzidzidzi mudzapachika munthu wotanthauza, wamkulu komanso wowopsa komanso mokwiya, kukhumudwitsidwa ndikulimbikitsa. Chithunzi chowopsa, sichoncho? Koma ngati zonse zomwe zikugwirizana ndi manyazi ndi zosasangalatsa (onani zomwe tidazikonda zomwe tidazigwiritsa ntchito m'ndime yaying'ono iyi!) Chifukwa chiyani nthawi zambiri zimakhala zamanyazi?
Poyamba, manyazi omwe anali ndi cholinga chabwino: Kuletsa ma gust otsika otsika, kuti tiphunzitse umunthu mwa ife
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Popanda mboni
Manyazi - anavomereza kumverera. Sitinganene kuti ofufuza ambiri kwambiri anali kuchita nawo mafunso okhudzana ndi manyazi, ochita masewera ambiri, ochokera ku Aristotle kupita ku Darwin, Freud ndi Exudma. M'malingaliro osiyanasiyana ndi malingaliro, pali omwe adasamukira kale ku maxiom: lero tikudziwa bwino lomwe manyazi omwe amayambitsa kuti tikumva za Mboni. Pamodzi ndi ine titha kudzimva kuti tingakhale ndi mlandu, nkhawa kapena chisoni, koma zidzachititsidwa manyazi pagulu. Kuphatikiza apo, ndiwe mkhalidwe - woyamba pamaso pa amayi ndi abambo, ndiye, pamene akukula, ndipo akuluakulu ena amalumikizidwa - "amapachika".
Nthawi zambiri, kumvera kumeneku kumapangidwa mwa zaka zisanu, ndipo, monga talembera kale, choyambirira, kumalumikizidwa ndi thupi ndi mawonekedwe ake. Mwa njira, ambiri amawona kuti manyazi, mosiyana ndi kudziimba mlandu, amamverera kuti ndi okonda kwambiri - ndizovuta kwambiri kuposa momwe zimakhalira. Magazi amasunthira m'masaya athu, amagogoda m'makachisi - ndipo apa tili ofiira kwambiri pamizu ya tsitsili, takonzeka kugwera pansi. Zowoneka bwino kwambiri, zopweteka, zolemera kwa nthawi yoyamba yomwe ikukumana ndi nthawi yoyambira sukulu. Ana amayamba kuzindikira kuti akusanjana, akudziwa kale za kusiyana kwa atsikana ndi anyamata, onani momwe makolo amabisa makulidwe, kusungabe m'bafa. Amawerenga izi, pozindikira kuti pazifukwa zina ndikofunikira kubisa ziwalo za thupi lanu, osaziyika pa ndemanga ya aliyense. Iyi ndi nthawi yofunika kwambiri yomwe amayi ndi abambo nthawi zambiri amaphwanya "psyche ya ana, tabbby ndi chidwi chawo chokha pagawo. Zotsatira zake zimakhala zachisoni: iwo omwe adapangidwira ngati mwana pophunzira, nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi mavuto osiyanasiyana pakugonana, chifukwa cholephera kuvutika ndi zogonana komanso zopatuka. Ndinali ndi mnzanga yemwe amakhulupirira ndi mtima wonse kuti kuzindikira kuti kuzindikira ndi konyansa komanso koyipa, ndipo wokwatiranayo adazindikira ndendende ngati ngongole, ntchito inayake. Komanso: Sanathe kudutsa kuchipatala, adawala m'makutu pamene wina akufuna kulola nthabwala "pansi pa lamba". Ndikofunikira kunena kuti ubale wake ndi azimayi ake anali achisoni kwambiri ndipo adatha. Wodziwika bwino pambuyo pake adaganiza zotembenukira kwa katswiri, adalemba tsatanetsatane: " Ngati aphwanya malamulo a banja.
Ndiye mudzakhala bwanji? Kodi ndi munthu wopanda manyazi (ndipo pamaso pa m'badwo wina uliwonse ndi zotere ndipo palibe malire ndi zoletsa? Mutha ndi kusowa, koma ndi pang'ono, mosamala komanso osatsutsidwa. Podzafika zaka zisanu mpaka zisanu ndi chimodzi, sikelo anu ayenera kukhala kale ndi gawo labwino - malo otetezeka - ndipo muyenera kufotokoza kuti palibe manyazi, koma osachita zinthu zina, Popeza sizoyenera.
Chimaliro
Chifukwa chake ...
1. Main. Nthawi zambiri amayenda manja ndi manyazi, ndipo sitingathe kusiyanitsa wina ndi mnzake. Koma izi ndizofunikira. Chizindikiro cha zolakwa - samakusiyani ndi Iye, ngakhale manyazi ndi kudzimva pagulu.
2. Mantha. Wachibale wina wapamtima ndi manyazi. Timachita mantha kwambiri, tikuopa kuti tisankhidwe ndi china chake, timachita mantha ndi zopinga ndi manyazi. Zonsezi zikugwirizana ndi zoopsa za kukanidwa ndi kuopa kuti ife, monga ifenso, akana.
3. Chikhutiro. Modabwitsa, ena amasangalala kwambiri akamakumana ndi manyazi. Akatswiri amisala amawatcha kuti akupatuka, ndipo anthu omwe akufuna kuchita manyazi aphatikizidwe nawo anthu omwe ali ndi machitidwe onyenga.
Koma ngati zonse zinali zosavuta! Kodi mwazindikira kuti anthu osiyanasiyana amachita manyazi chifukwa cha zinthu zosiyanasiyana? Onse chifukwa makolo athu osiyanasiyana oterewa amatipatsa malingaliro awo. Chifukwa chake, ndili mwana, ndinali wosakanikirana thupi langa, komanso kuseka mokweza, ndipo nthawi zambiri sizinali zofunikira kufotokozera chisangalalo komanso momasuka m'banja lathu sichidavomerezedwa. "Kodi sukuchita manyazi kuseka kwambiri?" - Ndinandilimbitsa mtima. Poyamba sizinalidziwitse zambiri zomwe akulu amakwaniritsidwa, koma pang'onopang'ono ndidayamba kuzindikira kuti ndi "kuseka" pagulu sizovomerezeka ndipo ndizongoletsedwa kuti zikhale "kavalo ", imaphimba ndi zachikhalidwe chamuyaya. Koma bwenzi langa limachita manyazi kukwiya ndipo akwiya - agogo ake aakazi ankangokhalira msungwanayo woti azilowetsa siponji, amaika miyendo ndikufuula. Mosakayikira bwenzi lenileni lidawononga mwamakhalidwe chifukwa cha zoyipa (zomwe zikukumana ndi aliyense wa ife!). Zotsatira zake, atakula, sangayatenso, kapena mlendo, amene adzachita manyazi ndi manyazi chifukwa cholungama. Posachedwa, mnzake adatipatsa mphotho yake - ndikadasokoneza malo onse a bwenzi (komanso ndani sakanatero?). Koma adangoperekedwa ndi misozi, kenako miyezi ingapo (!) Zinali zamanyazi kwa miyezi ingapo, chifukwa mkati mwake anali waukali.
Poyambirira, manyazi ake anali ndi cholinga chabwino: Kuletsa mafinya athu otsika kwambiri, kuphunzitsa munthu mwa ife. Chifukwa chake, kafukufuku anati kuti mwana omwe ali ndi kufupika ku kufupika kumakulitsidwa pakukula. Kutsutsa kwachilengedwe mwa ife ndi chinsinsi chakuti tiyesetsa kutsatira mfundo ndi makonzedwe. Mawu ofunikira pano "achilengedwe", koma, tsoka, mndandanda wazomwe adaletsedwa (osati chifukwa ndi zowopsa kapena zosavomerezeka ndi ambiri) atha kukhala osakhalitsa komanso achisangalalo. Malingaliro awa, ndiye kuti timapita kukazindikira, chifukwa cha kukongola kwachilendo komwe kudafunika kuti makolo athu azitilamulira m'mawonetsero athu opitilizabe. Kodi chowonadi ndichakuti "kuseka" kapena kukwiya? Kuwonetsera kwa momwe ana amakhudzidwira sikungayesedwe ku malingaliro a chikhalidwe. Sitingakonde mawonetseredwe awa - pankhaniyi, ntchitoyo ndikuphunzitsa m'badwo wachinyamata kuti anene "eco-ochezeka", ndiye kuti, yovomerezeka komanso yovomerezeka. Mwana akamenya mayi, mutha kupempha manyazi ndi chikumbumtima, ndikumupatsanso iye m'malo momenyera kuti aike ndi mapazi anga kapena kumenya pilo, namenya pilo. Koma nthawi zonse "kumamatira" mwana chifukwa cha kupsa mtima, chimodzi mwazomwe mukungofunika kuphunzira kukhala, musatero.
Mfundo yodziwika kwambiri, chifukwa azimayi amakono omwe amanjenjemera, amakhalabe ndi malingaliro awo
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Pofunafuna
Kuphatikiza pa makolo omwe amathandizira kuti akhale achilendo, hypertorrophyrophyrophyrophyrophyrophyrophyrophyrobyrouness, timakhala kuti tili ndi chidwi cha anthu omwe amachita. Maziko Amphamvu Kwambiri: Yemwe akudziwa kuti anali wokhulupirika pamakhalidwe ake ndikuima, adatha kudziwa zomwe zimabweretsa chisangalalo, kuphunzira kunena "Ayi" wopanda nthambi ya chikumbumtima. Mpumulowo - ndipo iwowo ndi ife, olima, ambiri, kuyembekezera mpikisano kuti avomerevomerezedwe. Zomwe simungachite kuti musapewe kumverera kwa manyazi, chifukwa zimapulumutsa mwakuthupi ndi malingaliro.
Mfundo yomwe imadziwika kwambiri kwa azimayi amakono omwe amachititsa akadali mkhalidwe wawo. Wosudzulidwa, wopanda ana, wopanda bwenzi? Zikuwoneka kuti, pali vuto nanu. Kwa inemwini, zimachita manyazi kukhala ndi moyo, kusangalala ndi kusungulumwa kwanga komanso kusungulumwa kwanga - zopanda pake? Ndipo ngakhale mutasankha vuto la "vuto", lomwe likutuluka mbanja ndi kubereka ana angapo, simukutetezedwa ku diso la anthu onse. Tsopano ali ndi manyazi kukhala mkazi wabwino komanso mayi. "Kodi unadyetsa mwana ndi Macarona?" - Anadabwa kuwongoka nsidze, ndidandifunsa mzanga waposachedwa. Kenako adatsatira nkhani yokhudza makolo enieni ayenera kukhala (ndipo ine sindine weniweni?) Nano, ndikumupatsa chakudya chamadzulo. M'mawu amenewa, nthawi yomweyo ndinamva Maminino "yomwe sinachite manyazi!". Ndipo nthawi yomweyo ndinayamba kuchita manyazi kwakanthawi: Komabe, ndinadzitengera ndekha m'manja mwanga, ndinakumbukira kuti ndine munthu wamkulu, ndimatha kudziwa kuti uli ndi manyazi.
Amuna ali ndi zowawa zawo. Talemba kale za momwe anyamata kuyambira ali ana ali mwana zimafotokozedwa pamalingaliro kuti misozi ya munthu - chamanyazi kwenikweni. Kuphatikiza pa kuti njonda ndizoletsedwa kulira, sizingakhale zophera ndipo zimapeza ndalama zochepa. Ndipo ngati mnzanuyo sanakonzekere kukhala wogwirizana (zilibe kanthu, kodi adatopa, lee akudwala) - mwina munganene izi mphindi.
Maphunziro, zokonda, zolimba - zopanda mawu onena: Ngati simunawerengere Plato ndi Hegel, simungaonedwe kukhala munthu weniweni? Ndidasankha ntchito yogwira ntchito, ndidaganiza kuti sindingathamangitse ngati maphunziro apamwamba - zimatanthawuza munthu wopusa komanso wosachedwa popanda zokhumba. Ndidasankha ntchitoyo kuti ilere ana - sizingatheke chilichonse, motero zidathawa pakati. Chikondi kwambiri chowonjezera ndi mawonekedwe. Makono amakono, mawu oti kunjenjemera mpaka adawonekeranso (kuchokera ku English English Hightion HOMSH) Kwenikweni "manyazi"). Kwambiri, owala kwambiri kapena, m'malo mwake, osagwirizana, osavala masiketi, simumavala pinki, osapita kwa otsutsa ... munthu yemwe amakwaniritsa zofuna za anthu Zikuwoneka ngati izi pagulu lomwe mungafune, mutha kudzibweretsa nokha matopa.
Maseketi amatikana ife ndi mawonetseredwe athu, amatipangitsa kuti tizikhala osakondedwa, osafika m'dongosolo lambiri la anthu. Kwa nthawi yayitali ndimayesetsa kuwoneka ngati ena amandiona. Amayi ankandifunadi kuti ndinyamule madiresi ndipo anali achikazi. Wina wa okondedwayo anawona ngati akazi achitsanzo chimodzi mwa ine, wina amafuna kuti ndikhale wokangalika pa ndale. Nthawi iliyonse sindinalungamitse zomwe munthu wina sindinanene, osandiwerengera ntchito inayake, chifukwa chosadziwa kuphika chakudya chamadzulo 3 mbale, nthawi zina ndimakhala ndi mphamvu kuti nditumizirena ndi malingaliro onse Iwo amene akuyesera kuti andipangitse kuti ndichitepo kanthu pakumvetsetsa kwawo, muulendo wautali komanso wosangalatsa.
Nthawi zambiri timakumana ndi mavuto, timadziona kuti ndife osayenera, maonekedwe athu, osati chifukwa amachita zinthu zosavomerezeka, koma chifukwa chakuti sakwaniritsa zomwe akuyembekezera. Ndikofunikira kuzindikira zomwe zikuchitika, ndikulekanitsa mbewuzo pazovuta. Popanda kukumba, ndipo nthawi zina thandizo la akatswiri, musachite. Nkhani yabwino ndiyakuti ntchito yanu panokha idzakhala ndi ufulu ndi mphamvu. Mukakonzanso manyazi abodza, dziko losatha ndi zoyeseza ndi zoyeserera zidzatsegulidwa.
Osayesa kukhala omasuka kwa aliyense
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Manyazi akugwireni…
... kupanga pang'ono. Anthu amatiweruza: Ndalama zambiri, inunso muli. Dzukani, sizili choncho! Kuchita bwino ndi zinthu zakuthupi ndi chida chabe, ndipo chachita manyazi kuti malipiro anu ndi otsika kuposa abwenzi - opangidwa. Yesetsani kugwedeza malo omwe angakuchititseni manyazi, funso losavuta: "Chifukwa chiyani ndiyenera kuchita manyazi?"
... Osayesetsa kuchepetsa thupi. Sitikulankhula za milandu ngati munthu akamva zonenepa - ndiye kuti thupi lake limakhudza thanzi. Koma ngati tikulankhula za makilogalamu awiri a "owonjezera", mutha kutanthauza alangizi kuti azichita nokha, koma osati kudzera mwa inu.
........................................................... Ngati anzanu ndi okondedwa anu akuyesera kuti abweretse moyo wanu wapamtima, akuwakumbutsa kuti palibe amene ali pabedi lanu pakama panu. Mwacibadwa, timalankhula zokha pazomwe zimaloledwa ndi lamulo!
... Osawerenga / kuwonera / kuchezera maphunziro pa kudzikuza. Mukufuna kuchita zonsezi? Dzichitireni nokha, koma osawalangizani!
Bweretsani nokha
Mosiyana kosowa ngati kumverera kowawa kwa manyazi abodza. Ngakhale tidasiyana ndi kusiyana, padziko lapansi pakadali pano pali malingaliro wamba pankhani zabwino ndi zoyipa, za chilungamo, chifundo ndi ulemu. Ngati mukutuluka mafelemu awa ndikudutsa mzere, kumverera kwa manyazi ndi kwachilengedwe ndipo pakufunika. Nthawi zina, mumakopeka ndi zokumana nazo zabodza.
Ngati mwanenedwa pafupi, tero, koma molimba mtima. Funsani munthu amene akufuna kukuimbirani kapena kutichititsa manyazi, bwanji ziyenera kuchitika? Dzipatuleni nokha kwa wokondedwa, tengani zomwe zimatchedwa kuti zopatukana: "Mverani, Amayi, Ndingachite Chiwopsezo chilichonse, sindichita chilichonse, Ine Osanyenga aliyense kuti atero. Ndikudziwa kuti mwina simungathe kukonda, koma sindingakupatseni chilichonse. "
Ngati "manyazi!" Mukufuula mwa anthu a anthu ena, musasokoneze kuonetsa ukali komanso kuunika (kumbukirani kuti mkwiyo sukhalapo wachipongwe). Lolani kulimba mtima ndi mphamvu kukupatsani kumvetsetsa komwe kudzoza kumenezi kumalowa m'gawo lanu ndikuyesera kuti mudzikuletse. Osayesa kukhala omasuka kwa aliyense!