Luntha laukadaulo silitanthauza kuti nthawi zina munthu samamva kuopsa kapena kukhumudwa. M'malo mwake, imatha kukhala yotetezeka kwambiri kuti isaunjidwe ndi nkhawa, chifukwa mumazindikira momwe mulibe chidwi. Nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta, chifukwa maluso amenewa angayambitse nkhawa kwakanthawi. Kuphatikiza apo, kusokonezeka kwamtima ndi kudzikayikira kumapangitsa munthu kukhala womangidwa moona mtima paubwenzi pakati paubwenzi, koma imatha kubweretsa kukhumudwa mukamasweka. Timamasulira zamatendawa masiku ano, zomwe zimafotokoza kulumikizana pakati pa EI komanso kukwiya.
Luntha limasunthira patsogolo
Munthu amene ali ndi nzeru zapamwamba nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi nkhawa modekha zomwe zimatha kuyambitsa, koma nkhawa yayikulu. Mwachitsanzo, tingoyerekeza kuti Sally amawopa ndi mnzawo wapamwamba m'deralo momwe sally samvera. Pamsonkhana, mnzakeyo akulengeza kuti adagwiritsa ntchito luso lake kuti apeze chilankhulo chimodzi ndi kasitomala wofunika pakampani. Sally samamva nsanje kwa kuchita nsanje kwa ogwira ntchito komanso kusatetezeka kwa mphamvu zawo. Komabe, popeza Sally akudziwa zakukhosi kwawo, kuphatikizapo opweteka ngati nsanje komanso kusatetezeka, imatha kupirira nawo mwachangu. Akuganiza zofunsira mnzake ndikumupempha zinthu, kuphunzitsa ndi malingaliro anu pa momwe angapangire zomwe akufuna. Wophatikizidwa ndi wokometsedwa ndikukonzekera kuthandiza. Sally imayamba kugwira ntchito, ili ndi mphamvu komanso zolimbikitsira. Kuzindikira kosasangalatsa kumamuthandiza kuti achite china chake.
Khalani gulu, osati adani wina ndi mnzake
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Mwinanso ndikuganiza kuti Sally ali ndi luntha lotsika kwambiri. Imachotsedwa ku malingaliro opweteka omwe amamuwopseza. Kugwiritsa ntchito popijekiti, mosazindikira kumalepheretsa malingaliro awo kumuwopseza ego. M'malo mozindikira zakukhosi kwanu, amazichita pa iwo. Mumsonkhanowu, iye amasokoneza kwambiri chidziwitsocho, akuimba mlandu mnzanu wosakwanira kukhulupirika kwa timu. Kunja pa msonkhano wa Sally amaphatikiza teamwa motsutsana ndi mnzake wosalakwa. Izi sizongolakwika, komanso zowononga gulu ndi gulu. M'malo mwake, amataya chilichonse, kuphatikiza Sally, lomwe silikukula mwaukadaulo.
Ganizirani za ena, osayiwala za inu
Ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti azikhala ndi malingaliro a anthu ena, koma zingayambitsenso kuda nkhawa kwakanthawi. Mwachitsanzo, lingalirani za Ron, munthu wokhala ndi nzeru zambiri. Ron akumva ngati woyipa. Kumva zoipa, Ron nthawi yomweyo anali ndi nkhawa. Ron amafunsidwa ngati achita china chake kuti akhumudwitse mnzake. Mwamuna wokhala ndi nzeru zapamwamba nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi vuto lalikulu, motero kapena limakhala losavuta. Kuganiza zokhumudwitsa, zolakwika kapena kusamvana, Ron amaganiza za zomwe zachitika m'mbuyomu. Kusanthula kumeneku ndi kovuta, koma kofunikira. Ron akumvetsa kuti mnzake amagwira ntchito molimbika, zomwe zimawoneka kuti zimawanyalanyazidwa.
Posachedwa a Ron adabwerako kuchokera kumatchuthi ang'ono. Ngakhale Ron akumvetsa kuti sanachite chilichonse cholakwika, akufuna kuti mnzake amve bwino, motero amabwera kwa iye nati: "Ndazindikira kuti umagwira ntchito kwambiri ndikuchita zabwino kwambiri gulu. Ndikungofuna kuti mudziwe kuti ndimayamikira ntchito zanu ndikusilira. " Mnzakeyo amadabwa, koma amavomereza thandizo la Ron. Amavomereza Ron ndikunena kuti wasudzulidwa tsopano. Popeza Ron akhazikika m'malingaliro awo, limamva kuwawa kwa anzathu komanso kuwamvera chisoni. "Ndikumverani chisoni, iyi ndi nthawi yotheradi. Muyenera kuda nkhawa kwambiri. Ndingakuthandizeni bwanji?" Kutha kwa Ron kuti agwirizane ndi momwe munthu wina amakhudzidwira, kumamuthandiza kumvetsetsa momwe zinthu zingamuthandizire kuntchito. Maphwando onsewa akudalira chilichonse Zina, zomwe zimatha kubweretsa ntchito yopambana komanso yopindulitsa.
Thandizani ena pakusunga zabwino zadziko lapansi
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Zotsatira zake ndizofunika
Kudzionanso ndikofunikanso kwa munthu wokhala ndi nzeru za m'maganizo. Ngakhale mtima wofuna kusasanthula nthawi zina umapereka kusasangalala ndipo kungayambitse nkhawa, zotsatira zake ndizoyenera. Mwachitsanzo, tiyerekeze kuti Lisa adalumikizana ndi munthu yemwe si gulu lake, nampempha kuti athe kugwira ntchito yake. Pambuyo pake, tsiku lomwelo ndi Lisa, mutu wa munthu uyu umalumikizidwa ndi Lisa, yemwe wakhumudwa kwambiri chifukwa cha kuti Lisa adayesetsa kuchotsa wogwira ntchitoyo. Amaona kuti salemekezedwa, ndipo amalengeza kuti ali wotsimikiza kuti Lisa adadzipangira yekha wosagwirizana. M'malo moteteza ndi kuchita manyazi kapena kusewera nsembe kuti imveketse mtima ndipo pewani udindo, Lisa akumva zowopsa. Amamvetsetsa kuti munthuyu akumva. Mwina amamvanso chimodzimodzi ngati maudindo atasinthidwa m'malo mwake, kotero Lisa amazindikira kulakwa kwake pakuweruza ndi kupepesa. Amatenga udindo wonse kuchitapo kanthu. Komabe, chikumbumtima, kulapa mwamphamvu ndi kuthekera kozindikira cholakwika chawo patsani mwayi wa lasa kuti akule, khalani ndi zolakwika ngati izi mtsogolo. Kukula kwanu kumabadwira onse ku kudzikayikira komanso kumvetsetsa vutoli.
Makhalidwe ambiri okhudzidwa ambiri amathandizira amathandizanso pakukhazikitsidwa kwa maubale akuya ndi akulu. Kuyandikira nthawi zambiri kumatheka chifukwa chomvetsetsa zakukhosi kwa munthu wina. Kudziona nokha kumapangitsa munthu mwayi wokhala ndi udindo ndipo amazindikira zolakwika zomwe zili muubwenzi. Izi zikutanthauza kuti nthawi zambiri sachita zolakwika zofanana kawiri.
Kutha kulumikizana ndi malingaliro a munthu wina kumapangitsa munthu kuzindikira, womvera, woganiza komanso wokoma mtima. Adapanga ubale wozama komanso wapamtima ndi okondedwa. Munthu wokhala ndi nzeru zapamwamba amalumikizidwa ndi mtima wonse. Komabe, ngati kukondwererako kumasweka molakwika, munthu amalolera kutaya zakuya ndi kotheratu. Monga thundu, lomwe muzu wake umadulidwa, kutayika kumakhala kowawa.
Komabe, munthu wokhala ndi luntha lotsika kwambiri ndiosavuta kusokoneza kuyanjana mwadzidzidzi. Popeza sangakhale womvetsa chisoni komanso wodzitchinjiriza komanso wodetsedwa chifukwa cha malingaliro omwe amawaopseza kapena kudzidalira, iye kapena sangakhale wophatikizika. Kapangidwe kakang'ono kosatha kumalola munthu msanga komanso wopanda zingwe zamkati kuti akoke nyama ya carpet kapena kukana mnzake chifukwa cha mnzake. Chifukwa chake, zingakhale zofunikira kuwonetsa kusankhidwa ndikuyika ndalama mwa mnzanu wokhala ndi luntha lamphamvu kwambiri.