Nthawi zambiri, mukamatchula zachiwawa zapabanja, zithunzi zoopsa za amuna-ankhanza amanyoza akazi awo kukwera. Koma mbiri yaposachedwa imatsimikizira kuti chiwawa sichimagonana, ndipo nthawi zambiri chimakhala chofooka koyamba mkazi amakhala chomwe chimayambitsa mavuto ndi zovuta mu awiri. Komabe, si munthu aliyense amene amatha kuwona msungwana wokongola kwambiri wa "ziwanda zenizeni za chovala." Tikukuuzani zomwe zili m'makhalidwe ayenera kukuchenjezani.
"Ili Ndi Ndalama Zanga"
Ambiri amvanso mawu ofanana ndi okwatirana kuti: "Ndalama yanga ndi ndalama yanga, ndipo ndalama zake ndizofunikira." Ndipo inde, malingaliro awa amatsatiridwa kwa oimira ambiri pansi. Ndipo patatha zaka makumi asanu zapitazo, azimayi adasankhidwa kukhala malipiro, kotero kuti "munthu samamwetsa", popanda chifukwa, mkazi angafune mnzake atagwiritsa ntchito ndalama pogwiritsa ntchito. Mkazi amenewa akufuna kuti alamulireni onse mitundu yonse yomwe imayang'aniridwa, ndikuganiza kuti mwamunayo apanga zosankha - zodzaza ndi misala, malinga ndi akazi tirana. Ngati mnzanu ali ndi chidaliro kuti popanda kudziwa kwake mudzagwiritsa ntchito ndalama "pachisoni chilichonse", mtsogolomo vutoli limangokulitsidwa.
"Nthawi zonse mumakhala ndi mlandu"
Syndrome si chifukwa - chizindikiro cha azimayi-tirana. Zomwe zidachitika m'moyo wake, ntchito zonse zopambana ndi zochitika zopambana - koma mnzakeyo amakhala akuyenera kudandaula, koma mwina "kutopa ndi mitsempha yonse", pakugwa kwa aliyense mapulani. Ndipo kotero mu chilichonse. Komanso, azimayi oterowo samabweretsa kusungulumwa - ndani amatero? Ayi, lolani mwamunayo akhale pafupi, ndipo ndibwinoko ngati sangatsutsane. Kodi mufunika kusintha kotere?
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"Ungomuyang'ana"
Mayi wankhanza sangaphonye mwayi wowonetsa kuti ndi wapamwamba kwambiri pagulu. Amadziwa bwino kuti mnzanuyo sangamuyankhe, ndiye bwanji osakukonzera malingaliro anu ndikuwonetsa anthu omwe ali mere wamkulu? Nthawi zambiri, zochitika ngati izi zimachitika mwa anthu angapo omwe mwazolowera - mkazi sawona tanthauzo la "amakakamiza" "Chilango" mu izi kwa nthawi yayitali. Amakonda nthawi zonse.
"Simudzamuona Mwana"
Zinthu zimakulitsidwa ngati pali ana anu. Pankhaniyi, mayiyu akutsala pang'ono kutha kudziletsa, makamaka ngati awona momwe mwana ali wokondedwa. Amamvetsetsa kuti simupita kulikonse, ngakhale atakupanikizani. Kuphatikiza apo, ngakhale ndi kupuma, zinthu sizidzasintha: Ngakhale munthu ndi kusiya zomwe nthawi zosamutsogolera sizingachitike, vuto lina lidzayamba - kupusitsa ana. Mkazi aziyamba kuletsa mwana kapena zonsezo kuti adule madeti anu. Yesetsani kuyandikira mosamala kusankha wokondedwa wake, apo ayi tsogolo lidzabweretsa mavuto ambiri kuposa chisangalalo.