Mosakayikira, malingaliro ogonana amatha kuchezera aliyense, koma ndizotheka kusankha pakukhazikitsa kukhazikitsa kwawo kokha, malinga ndi ziwerengero. Ngati onse okwatirana amakhulupirirana wina ndi mnzake osati paubwenzi, palibe vuto kuti, mwachitsanzo, nenani chikondi pamalo achilendo kapena pemphani kachitatu kupita ku "kampani" yanu. Komabe, si zokhumba zathu zonse zomwe timabadwa mwachilengedwe: kuvulala kwamaganizidwe kapena zokumana nazo zakale zimatha kubereka pozindikira chifukwa cha kulakalaka komwe sikungatchedwa wathanzi.
Chisangalalo kudzera kuvutika
Kugonana - njira zosiyanasiyana, zotsatira zake zimatengera momwe aliyense amakhudzidwira. Muubwenzi wabwino, aliyense wa maphwando ali akumvetsa kuti zitha kupatsa mnzake komanso zomwe wokondedwa 'angayankhe' pabedi. Ngati nonse mukumva kukondweretsa kwabwino, palibe chifukwa chosangalalira. Mavuto ngati simungathe kukhala ndi vuto lalikulu - chikhumbo cha zamaganizidwe kapena zakuthupi nthawi zambiri chimakhala chifukwa cholephera kupeza orgasm m'malo abwino. Munthu amafunika kuchita zowawa, ndipo nthawi zonse pamapeto pake amatulutsa. Izi zitha kutchedwa mu mtundu wina wa Masochism. Panthawi imeneyi, ndikofunikira kutembenukira kwa katswiri munthawi kuti asataye mtima komanso chidwi chogonana mogonana. Samalani nokha.
kugonana kuyenera kubweretsa chisangalalo kwa onse awiri
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Kufuna Kuyambitsa Ululu
Sinthani vuto la asochism. Mukamvetsetsa kuti kuyanjana kwanu kwa wokondedwayo sikupangitsanso malingaliro owala am'mbuyomu, "Konzani" kukongoletsa "kwanu munjira zosiyanasiyana, kuphatikizapo masewera olakwika. Kusintha kwa zinthu zowopsa kumatenga ngati mungafikire peak kokha kusokonekera kapena kupweteka kwa mnzake kapena kupweteka, asalole kukhudzika. Kukhumba kumeneku kumakamba za chiyambi cha kusokonezeka kwa malingaliro malingaliro, komwe ndikofunikira kutchera khutu ndikugwira ntchito ndi katswiri wazamisala kupewa.
Kugonana ngati njira yokweza kudzidalira
Nthawi zina zolephera m'moyo weniweni zimatha kubweretsa zovuta zosatheka. M'chilengedwe chathu, kufunitsitsa kudutsa wotsutsawo kumayikidwa, ndipo ngati izi sizichitika, tiyeni tinene kuntchito kapena mbali zina za moyo, psyche imafunikira kubwezera. Nthawi zambiri, anthu amapeza chipulumutso polumikizana kwambiri: lingaliro loti "ndikufunika kuti ndikhale", "mwina nthawi yokhumudwa kwakanthawi, koma nthawi yomweyo imakondwera ndi Kugonana kumangolandira kokha ndikupukutira kosalekeza kwa malingaliro ofunikira pamutu. Monga mukumvetsetsa, kudzidalira sikungakhale pa kugonana kokha, komanso kuyankhulana sikunamangidwe modalira.