Ubale uliwonse ndi kovuta ndipo amafuna ntchito. Koma ndikofunikira kuyimilira? Ubwenziwo ulibe nzeru? Timayesetsa kudziwa katswiri wakugonana, katswiri wochita zogonana, kugonana kwa magazi, ogonana blogger Larisa Konstantinidi.
Katswiri wazamisala wodzipangitsa, katswiri wazamaphunziro, ogonana Blogger Larisa Konstantinidi @lori_zakys:
Maubwenzi alipo mpaka paubwenzi winawake, pomwe ali ndi nzeru, zolinga, cholinga. Pokhudzana, timakwaniritsa zosowa za chikhalidwe chosiyana. Titha kukhala munthu wathunthu, koma pezani malingaliro ena mu maubale - kufunika kwachikondi, mwachitsanzo. Chofunika ichi chisanakhuta, anthu ali mu maubale. M'malo mwake, sindingathe kutenga udindo kwa munthu aliyense ndikunena kuti muyenera kuchoka, chifukwa malire ndi malingaliro ake pazokhudza ubalewo ndiosiyana. Malangizo ndi otheka ngati wina mu chibwenzi ndi owopsa kwa wina.
Chinthu chachikulu mu ubale ndi chitetezo chamaganizidwe
Chithunzi: Unclala.com.
Mukakhala payekha payekha paubwenzi, zomwe zimabweretsa kupweteka komanso kukhumudwa, ndikofunikira kulumikizana ndi katswiri, ndipo iye palimodzi ndi inu omwe muli nawo. Chinthu chachikulu mu ubalewu ndi chitetezo cha zamaganizidwe ndi kudzikuza. Ndikukulangizani kuti muchoke ngati pali kusagwirizana. Ndikosavuta kuganiza awiri omwe sakugwirizana ndi ndale kapena kuyang'ana banja ndi ana. Pa siteribe, ngati kuli kotheka kuphunzira ndi kumvetsetsa munthu, ndizoyenera kapena ayi, nthawi zambiri timayembekezera zomwe timayembekezera pazomwe sizikufuna. Choyamba, timapita m'magalasi a pinki, khulupirira kuti wokondedwa wathu amakumana ndi zomwe tikuyembekezera. Zabwino, ngati zili choncho. Koma, monga lamulo, ndiye pa kuluma mumayamba kumvetsetsa kuti mnzanu siili zomwe mungafune kukuonani pafupi nanu. Koma popeza psyche yaumunthu imakonzedwa kuti atiteteze, sungani mphamvu, timayamba kulungamitsa mnzake. Nthawi zina njira yodziwira imatha nthawi yayitali, zaka.
Mukapanda kutengera ubale, zomwe zimabweretsa kupweteka komanso kukhumudwitsidwa, ndikofunikira kulumikizana ndi katswiri
Chithunzi: Unclala.com.
Kusankha kwa kusiya kusungunula kumakhala kovuta nthawi zonse, chifukwa mphamvu zambiri zamagetsi zimayikidwa mwa munthu, ndalama. Aliyense amapanga chisankho pamene ayenera kuchoka. Wina akhoza kukhalapo m'zovuta, kusamvana, ndipo wina alibe vuto, pomwe wina alibe, akakhala ndi supuni kunja, kodi ndingakonde chiyani. Mulimonsemo, tikufuna kucheza ndi anzathu. Timakondana ndi china chake chodziwika bwino, tatseka. Ndipo mnzakeyu nthawi zonse sasangalatsa nthawi zonse. Zitha kukhala zankhanza komanso kuzizira. Nthawi zambiri amuna ozizira nthawi zambiri amakhala nkhani yakumupembedza azimayi, chifukwa abambo ake anali choncho kapena sanali konse. Wina amayamba kukondana, pamakhala owoneka bwino - zonsezi zimachokera ku ubwana.