Banja lirilonse lili ndi chinsinsi chake cha ubale wabwino, komanso nkhani yake yomwe ilipo, koma nthawi zina ifenso sikuti timadzikayikira kutikopa kwathu, ndipo sindifuna kumbali ya munthu. Kuphatikiza pa kusamvana komanso kumvetsetsa bwino kwambiri kwa mawonekedwe a theka la theka la theka la theka lachiwirili, pali zifukwa zochepa zomwe zingapangitse munthu pafupi. Kodi ndi chiyani kwenikweni? Tapeza.
Fungo lanu
Zomwe timakhulupirira, posankha awiri, nthawi zambiri timadalira nzeru, kuphatikizapo kusankha mnzake mwa kununkhira, ngakhale simungazindikira. Akatswiri amisala adayesa kuyesa: amuna ndi akazi osungulumwa ndipo adadzipereka kuti awunikire kununkhira kwa munthu wina. Ambiri mwa omwe adasankha anthu omwewo. Chifukwa chake, zowoneka bwino kwambiri zimawoneka kuti sikuti sikuti ndife okongola kunja kwa anthu, koma anthu omwe ali ndi vuto lalikulu, komanso kutengera kuchuluka kwa mahomoni ena. Mofananamo, abale ang'onoang'ono amatero.
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Makhalidwe anu ndi ofanana
Monga kuti sitinatilimbikitse kuti amakopa otsutsa kwambiri, chifukwa, ambiri omwewo amasankha anthu omwe magwiridwe awo omwe amagwirizana ndi zawo. Pali malingaliro akeake mmenemo: anthu opitawo mwamtheradi samagwirizana kwa nthawi yayitali - mikangano pakusamveka nthawi zambiri zimayambitsa kusiyana.
Ndinu mfulu
Mwinanso, ambiri amadziwa za "zotsekedwa" za Psychology: Kuwolokera manja, miyendo kunena kuti munthu sanapezeke kulankhulana momasuka, sizingakhale bwino. Zomwezo zikugwiranso ntchito paubwenzi wathu wachikondi - patsiku, manja anu omwe adutsa pachifuwa "anganene kuti" ndi bwenzi lanu lomwe simuli nawo pa kulumikizana. Ndipo m'malo mwake, m'malo mwake, khalani ndi manja, makamaka ngati mumakonda zodzikongoletsera ngati zibangili ndi mphete, zimatha, ndi, ndi, ndi, ndiyomwe imathandizira munthu amene mungamuthandize. osakhala opanda chidwi.
Munthu sanakonde
Amayi ambiri amakumbukira zomwe zachitika munthu wina amene akana kudziwana mwadzidzidzi ayamba kupirira zomwe zingakusonyezeni chidwi chanu. Khalidwe loterelo silingakhumudwitse, kuwonjezera apo, machitidwe a bambo muzochitika izi sangathe kudziwa kuti mayi wina yemwe amadziwa bwino kuti mnzawo ndiwosatheka. Akatswiri amisala amalongosola machitidwe awa a mzimayi wina kuti munthu akane munthu amene anakana - m'maso mwake zimawoneka zokongola pamaso pake, chifukwa pakumvetsetsa kwake kumayenera kugonjetsa.