Lingaliro la "munthu wopambana" silikugwirizana konse ndi nzika zazikulu: mpikisano waukulu umapereka chidwi chofuna kukhala bwino, moyenera kwa woyandikana naye bwino ndipo amatenga zambiri kuposa masiku onse. Komabe, anthu omwe amapita ku zinthu zopambana amachita zolakwa zomwezo. Masiku ano tinaganiza zosonkhanitsa zowunikira zomwe sizingakhale zachilendo kuchita bizinesi ndi anzawo.
Sachedwa kutonthozo
Mwinanso kuopa aliyense wa ife - kuwopa kusintha. Kuti mumvetsetse kuti zovuta zitha kupezeka m'njira yomwe, mwina, idzatha kupirira zawo, ambiri amabweretsa mantha. Ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti palipo pomwe chilichonse chimakudziwitsani, ndizosatheka kukwanitsa zina kuchita bwino - nthawi zonse muyenera kuwulula zatsopano. Kodi mwathetsa china chake mpaka liti kuti musinthe m'moyo wanu?
Sachita mantha pochita kutsutsidwa
ZOFUNIKIRA - Ndi za kutsutsidwa koyenera, kulimbikitsidwa ndi mikangano. Ngati munthu sakondweretsedwa ndi ntchito yanu popanda chifukwa, malingaliro ake sayenera kuwonedwa ngati chofunikira kwa inu kwa katswiri. Kuti mupeze "maulendo apamwamba" oterowo mwanjira yoti musanyalanyaze zomwe mukuwongolera, ndikofunikira kuti mudzilemekeze nokha, chifukwa ndi kuchokera pakuwona kwanu ndekha, kaya idzatha kusokoneza chidaliro chanu. Musalole anthu kuti akubweretsereni kuchokera ku maphunzirowo.
Ganizirani "Njira"
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Kwa iwo palibe zotchinga
Nthawi zambiri, zomwe zimayambitsa zolephera zolingalira sizimangokhala pakalibe mwayi wakukhazikitsa mapulani, koma posakhalitsa munthuyo, yang'anani njira zothanirana ndi vutoli. Kumbukirani kuti vuto lililonse limathetsedwa, koposa zonse, kupeza njira yoyenera kuposa kusangalala ndi anthu opambana, osadandaula kuti "zinthu zopanda chilungamo padziko lonse lapansi."
Kwa iwo, maubwenzi okhazikitsidwa kale ndizofunikira.
Zachidziwikire, mikangano imatheka ngakhale ndi anthu omwe ubale wodalirika waikidwa kale, ndipo zingaoneke - palibe chobwera. Komabe, ngakhale mkangano waukulu kwambiri ndi munthu wofunika m'moyo wanu si chifukwa cha ubalewu - munthu wopambana nthawi zonse amakhala wovomerezeka ndi kulumikizana kwa anthu, osati mtundu wawo - osati bambo yemwe akufuna kukwaniritsa zambiri.
Sadabwitsidwa ndi zolephera
Ngakhale chiwembu choganiza bwino sichingagwire ntchito. Ndipo munthu wopambana amadziwa izi, motero amakonzekera "njira zobwerera" pasadakhale kapena dongosolo lotchedwa lotchedwa mwadzidzidzi. Dziwani: Musamadzichepetsetse zomwe mungachite, khalani okonzeka kusintha zinazake ngati muyenera kuthana ndi mavuto modzidzimutsa, chifukwa cha kusinthasintha kwamaganizidwe nokha, pokhapokha mutakwaniritsa zomwe mukufuna Zotayika.