Aliyense amakhala ndi zochitika zotsutsana muubwenzi ndi wokondedwa. Nthawi zina ndimafuna kufunsa funso lililonse lokhudza zomwe takumana nazo, koma sitinyalanyaza, musachite kapena ayi. Katswiri wazamisala wogonana wamatsenga komanso kugonana kwa Exgger Larisa Konstantinidina ananena mwatsatanetsatane zomwe zidali osavomerezeka kukambirana.
Katswiri wazamisala wodzipangitsa, katswiri wazamaphunziro, ogonana Blogger Larisa Konstantinidi @lori_zakys:
Ndikofunikira kulumikizana wina ndi mzake pamitu yosiyanasiyana, kambiranani malire paubwenzi, chifukwa kusowa kwa kukambirana kumatsanulira mikangano ndi kusamvetsetsana. Mutu wazokambirana nkhawa ziwiri, mutha kukambirana chilichonse chifukwa izi ndizomwe zimachitika pakati panu ndipo zimapangitsa ubale wanu. Pa chiyambi, muyenera kukambirana za ubale wanu womwe mukuwayembekezera. Mwina munthu amene akufuna kukonda moyo wake, ndipo mtsikanayo sakulungidwa konse paubwenzi, ndiwosangalatsa chifukwa cha kugonana kwathu. Palibe amene amachidziwa, ndipo ubalewo ukakhala wokulirapo, zimayambitsa kusamvetsetsana. Tiyerekeze kuti bambo akuti akufuna ana ndi banja tsopano, ndipo mtsikanayo sangakonzekere ana - zonsezi ziyenera kufotokozedwa.
Kambiranani m'malire
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Panthawi yoyambirira yaubwenzi, ndikofunikira kukambirana funso la kulerana ndi malamulo anu. Poyamba, tonse timachitika mahomoni owuma, tikufuna 24/7 wina ndi mnzake, koma patapita kanthawi, malingaliro akakhala pang'ono, timayamba kuziziritsa. Kuti mumve zambiri pa zonse, muyenera kudziwa china chake chokhudza inu, motero ndikofunikira kulipira nthawi yophunzira thupi lanu.
Sikofunikanso kukambirana mosiyanasiyana kuti musangalale ndi kugonana. Kambiranani malire, zomwe zimakuvomerezani, ndipo sizoyenera. Nthawi zambiri zonse zimachitika zokha panthawi yogonana, wina aganiza zoyamba kuchitapo kanthu m'manja, kenako pali zokumana nazo zabwino kwambiri zomwe sizimachitika, kapena pali nthawi zosasangalatsa. Ndikofunikira kukambirana nkhani yokhudza matenda ogonana, sinthani satifiketi osachepera. Ngati palibe, ndikofunikira kuti mupitirize kuyesedwa. Dziwani kuti ndi chitetezo chamtundu wanji chomwe choyenera kwa inu - mahomoni kapena osachita mahomoni.
Pa chiyambi choyambirira chomwe muyenera kukambirana za ubale wanu womwe mukuwayembekezera
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Kambiranani m'malire. Pali anthu omwe sakonda kukambirana zomwe adakumanapo kale, koma ine, podziwa, chifukwa chiyani wokondedwa wanu adasokonekera ndi mtsikana yemwe wadutsamo kuti amvetse zambiri za munthu. Mwadzidzidzi adasokoneza chifukwa cha nkhanza zamaganizidwe, kumenyedwa, simukudziwa ndikulowa muubwenzi ndi wobisalira. Ayi, sikofunikira kuti musangochititsa mnzake komanso zomwe adakumana nazo, zitsutse kumene kuwunika kwanu sikunafunikire. Palibe chifukwa chotsitsa mikangano yotsika ndi mphindi zoyipa pa Sampek, chifukwa iwo eni sanathetsedwe. Ndikofunikira kukambirana momwe mungachitire ngati mikangano, chifukwa nthawi zina zimakhala bwino kufalikira pa nthawi, chifukwa kenako zimachitika kuti mikangano ifika m'manja, kutukwana, kulira , ndipo ndibwino kubalalika pakadali pano mosiyanasiyana ndikukhazikika.