Aliyense ali wokonzeka kupeza zomwe akufuna kuchita zonse zomwe akuchita. Ponena kuti: "Simungakhale woyamba kufuna zonse, ndipo nthawi yomweyo kukunyamulani." Tsoka ilo, kulakalaka sikuyenera kuchita, ndikofunikira kupanga zoyesayesa zina, komabe, zomwe zimapangitsa ndi imodzi mwa mfundo zazikulu panjira yopita ku cholinga chake. Tikuganiza kuti tidziwe ngati zingatheke kuti zithandizire pakuchitika mwachangu kwa chinthu chimodzi chokha.
Njira yopambanayi siyikhala yowongolera
Kodi tikuganiza chiyani tikafuna, mwachitsanzo, kukhala otetezeka? Tikuganiza komwe titha kupeza zida mwachindunji (pezani / fikani ku cholowa / kupambana, sankhani njira yoyenera), ndipo tsopano wina akuchitika? Pafupifupi timadziwika ndi zochitika ngati izi, mulimonsemo, pakati pa omwe timawadziwa. Koma musataye mtima, ngati amalume otetezedwa sakulemberani, samalani m'manja mwanu. Ganizirani, kodi mungapeze bwanji zochulukira, koma nthawi yomweyo kudzichita wekha. Sinthani malingaliro anu ndi chiyembekezo kuti muchite bwino momwe mungakwaniritsire cholinga chanu. Mwina muli ndi mnzanu kapena mnzanu amene akugwira ntchito yayikulu kapena kutsogolera bizinesi yanu omwe akudziwa mwina, kodi akungofuna wogwira naye ntchito? Osawopa kukulitsa malowo ndipo tangoganiza kuti siofanana.
Osadalira malingaliro okha
Mwina izi zikuwoneka zodziwikiratu, koma si aliyense amene amadziwa mphindi yotsatira: pali phompho lalikulu pakati "kuganizira zotsatira zake" ndi "kukhazikitsa". Inde, popanda chikhumbo chachikondi, malingaliro anu sathandizidwanso, koma popanda zomwe mwachita, ndi phokoso m'mutu. Malingaliro athu ndi ofunika kwambiri pakukonzekera ndi kukhazikitsidwa kwa omwe ali ndi pakati, pangani malo, komabe, ntchito zenizeni zomwe zingapangitse kuti malingaliro anu azitha kuoneka.
Osawopa kukhazikitsa zolimba mtima kwambiri
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Mendulo nthawi zonse khalani ndi mbali ziwiri
Mwamuna wina anachititsa khungu chilakolako chake, nthawi ina chimayamba kukayikira, kodi chidzatheka kuzindikira chikonzerocho ndipo chidzachita bwino ngati zotsatira zake sizichitika? M'malo mwake, ngakhale atalephera, zonse zimachitika molingana ndi dongosolo la chilengedwe chonse. Popeza anali kulepheretsa kutsimikiza kwa cholinga, dziko lapansi limayang'ana ngati mukufuna kupeza zomwe zili mukulimbana kwambiri. Nthawi zambiri, pakakhala pakanthawi kolephera, chikhulupiriro chimayamba kufooketsa chikhulupiriro mwa iye yekha ndi mphamvu yake - munthu akhoza kungosiya zonse mkati mwa njira. Ngati munthawi imeneyi mukukumana ndi zofanana, popanda chifukwa simuyima ndikukhulupirira malingaliro anu kumapeto - usiku wakuda kwambiri nthawi zonse usanakwane.
Chilengedwe chikukutetezani
Nthawi zina zimachitika kuti izi sizingatheke njira zonse zomwe zingatheke. Ndipo izi ndizothekanso komwe muyenera kukonzekera. M'malo mwake, chilengedwe chingakutetezeni ku zomwe simukufuna, simukumvetsa izi. Ndipo chilengedwe sichitha nthawi zonse kukhala ndi chikhumbo chathu chosakhudza, chifukwa chake sitinataye mtima mwa inu ndi mphamvu zanu, zimawoneka ngati zopanda chiyembekezo.