American Commedy ya 1999 ndi gawo la Julia Roberts ndi Richard Gira "adathawa mkwatibwi" ndi wotchuka komanso lero. Kanemayo akunena nkhani ya mtsikana yemwe adathawa pansi pa korona mpaka atapeza chikondi chake chenicheni.
Mu psychology, pali mawu oti "Mkwatibwi wochimwa" syndrome, omwe sanawonekere ku Hollywood ndendende, komanso m'moyo weniweni. Izi matendawa si masewera wamba - iyi si matenda. Amphamvu, izi ndi zizindikiro, mawonekedwe ake, phobias osiyanasiyana omwe amapezeka mwa mtsikana yemwe, m'dzanja limodzi, akufuna kukonza moyo wawo, koma nthawi yomweyo umaopa chibwenzi chachikulu. Njira: Chifukwa chake sindinamvetsetse, amakonda munthu amene adawasonkhanitsa amene adamusonkhanitsa ndi korona, kapena ayi, zomwe Iye akufuna. Ngakhale mu kanema, mkwatibwi aliyense wakupulumuka, yemwe Julia Roberts adaseweredwa, Jennifer Aniston (gawo loyamba la "Anzanu") ndi, losokonezeka ndi makolo, kudziimba mlandu kapena ngongole, ikupita kusanafike paguwa ndi mlendo kwa iye. Pomaliza, mtsikanayo akumvetsa kuti china chake chalakwika apa, sindikutsimikiza, ndipo sichikupeza chilichonse chabwino, momwe mungathawire pansi pa korona.
Wazambiri zamaganizidwe a Olga Romaniv
Ndani akuimba mlandu chifukwa chakuti mtsikanayo amachita monga choncho? Popanda kusamalira maudindo ndi Mkwatibwi, mwina, pambuyo pa zonse, makolo ake, omwe mwina anali ndi Mtumiki wokwanira ndipo sanapatse mwana wawo wamkazi kuti angasankhe. Kupatula apo, kusankha kulikonse kumatsata udindo, ndipo chifukwa cha izi, ndi makolo omwe akukonzekera mwana. Ngati makolo onse azolowera kuthetsa banja lotero m'moyo wa mwana wa mwana wotere, ndiye kuti, wolamulira, ndiye kuti ndi moyo wachikulire, mtsikanayo sakukonzeka kupanga zisankho. Makamaka ngati makolo omwewo ama Amayi ambiri, m'njira zonse zomwe zingatheke muukwati, ndipo samvetsa: Kaya ndi chisankho, koma amamugonjera ndipo amavomera kukwatiwa. Ndipo, ngati, kuchokera ku chilengedwe, mawonekedwe a msungwana uyu akadalipo, akhoza kudzilengeza kuti ndi zikhumbo zake panthawi yovuta kwambiri - patsiku laukwati, ndikuthawa.
Njira ina ndi pamene mkazi sakukhulupirira. Samadzimvetsetsa Yekha, samvetsa kuti amafunika chiyani pa maubale, kuchokera m'moyo. Zimachitika pa stestotype - "azimayi onse ayenera kukwatiwa." Koma ngakhale akufuna kukwatiwa - osadziwika. Iye ngati knight panjira, sanasankhebe. Mantha amachita, akuopa kutenga lingaliro lolakwika. Mantha awa ndi achilendo, mwina akwati ambiri omwe amaganiza za kaya sanalakwitse. Nthawi yomweyo, atsikana ambiri omwe amadziwa kukayikira amakwatirana mosamala ndipo amasangalala muukwati. Ndipo wina sangathe kupirira naye. Zifukwa zomwe zimapangitsa kuti izi ndi mantha izi ndizosatsimikizika komanso kusatsimikiza kwa mnzake. Chithandizo ndi chinthu chimodzi chokha - gwiritsani ntchito nokha komanso paubwenzi ndi wosankhidwa wanu, chifukwa chidaliro chimodzi chimatsika mwa iwo.