Kholo lililonse linakumana ndi nthawi yomweulendo wopita ku sitolo kapena zochitika zina amakhala nkhondo yeniyeni pakati pa iye ndi mwana wake yemwe. Amayi ambiri ndi abambo sadziwa zoyenera kuchita ndi momwe angayime screech, yomwe imakopa chidwi cha aliyense kuzungulira. Mwachilengedwe, ndikufuna kupita ku zikhalidwe zonse zazing'ono kuti ndisiye kugwira malingaliro otsutsa (ndi za zochitika zomwe mwana ali wathanzi ndipo amafuna kuti akhumudwitse mokweza mawu). Tinaganiza zothandiza makolo, makamaka achichepere, ndipo masiku ano tiyesa kudziwa momwe tingachitire thandizo ndi mwana, komanso kusangalatsa ndi ma hysteria, omwe amatha kukhala okhazikika.
Kuleza Mtima, Kuleza Mtima Kokha
Kunyalanyaza mokwanira kuukira kwa mwana sikugwira ntchito. Komabe, iyi si chifukwa "ikani" mkhalidwe wa mwana, ndani akudziwa kuti simungakhale opanda chidwi. Khalani oleza mtima, ana sangathe kuwongolera zakukhosi zomwe zimawasefukira nthawi ndi nthawi. Mwana samayesetsa kukutulutsani nkhawa, koma ayenera kudziwa kuti amayi kapena abambo amuthandiza kuthana ndi vuto ili, ndipo sadzasiya kusakhutira kwawo.
Osati nthawi yokambirana
Timazolowera izi polumikizirana ndi akulu, mikangano iliyonse yomwe tidathetseratukuka chifukwa cha zokambirana zazitali. Ndi mwana sizikugwira ntchito, makamaka pakadali pano pomwe ma hoytelics ali pachimake. Pakadali pano mawu anu ali ndi phokoso lakumbuyo. Yembekezerani mwana pomwe mwanayo atsikirako ndipo adzakhala wokonzeka kuzindikira mawu anu, apo ayi mukhala nthawi yokopa, kokha Kukhazikitsanso Ma Hys.
Onetsetsani kuti mwana sakuvutitsa chilichonse
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Palibe mkwiyo
Choyipa chachikulu chomwe mungachite pamavuto ngati chotere ndikuyamba kuwonetsa mkwiyo poyankha. Ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti mwanayo azindikira kuti mwanayo adzaona kuti, mudzakhala ndi vuto lalikulu kwambiri lomwe lidzadzetse mavuto akulu. Gwirani nokha m'manja mwanu. M'malo mwake, kukumbatira mwana ndikuyesera kutsogolera / kunyamula kuti mudziteletse komwe mungatolele ndipo palibe amene amakupweteketsani.
Gawirani zoyera ndi ubwana wosauka
Asanachitepo kanthu, onetsetsani kuti mwanayo sakudandaula ndi china chake kutentha kwambiri kapena mawonekedwe ena osasangalatsa. Nthawi zambiri, ana akuyesera kuti akwaniritse awo - simunagule zinthu zomwe mumakonda kapena sizinatenge chidwi chanu. Pankhaniyi, ndikofunikira kuwonetsa kupirira ku zofewa - mukangopita kukangana ndi zaka, zimamvetsetsa kuti mutha 'kukopa "motere.