Masiku ano, abwenzi athu nthawi zambiri, kapenanso timavomereza kuti kupeza mgwirizano womwe udzaperekedwa kwa miyoyo yonse, osati yosavuta. Anthu ambiri amagwira ntchito m'malo omwe amakwaniritsa zosowa zachuma zokha, "odzipereka" nthawi yomweyo komanso "kupha" kudzoza. Makamaka nthawi zambiri, mavutowa omwe amadzidalira omwe akudziwana ndi anthu omwe angomaliza kumene maphunziro apamwamba ndi omwe ali pamolomo. Zoyenera kuchita? Kukhumudwa ndi kunyamula pa chilichonse? Osafulumira. Tiyeni tichite ndi momwe tingasinthire ndi sitepe kuti muthetse mavuto amodzi masiku ano.
Zingatani Zitati…
Ingoganizirani kuti mulibe mavuto modzipatsa nokha ndi chilichonse chomwe mungafune ndipo muyenera kumvetsetsa momwe mungachitire pamavuto otere. Tiyerekeze kuti mwapambana lottery, muli ndi akaunti yakubanki yochititsa chidwi, kenako? Kodi muyamba kuwononga vutoli? Mudzatopa mwachangu ntchito imeneyi ndipo mudzatsimikiza momwe mungachitire, kuti mulankhule, "kwa moyo". Musaganize kuti ndalama zimabweretsa malo ena muzosachedwa. Ngati mwapatsidwa pamlanduwo ndikukhulupirira kuti kupambana, ndalamazo zisanduka mwachisawawa kukhala khola. Komabe, khalani okonzekera kuti njira yopambanayi sikhala yochepa.
Ndi ziti zomwe zimakusangalatsani kwambiri?
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Kodi mumachita chidwi ndi chiyani?
Mwadzidzidzi, mmodzi mwamavuto a munthu wamakono adakhala kusapezeka kwa zosangalatsa ndi zokonda zake. Makamaka ndi vutoli kumayang'anizana ndi anthu omwe ali ndi chidwi chochita chidwi, chomwe "chimasowa" kuntchito. Kuyambira ndili mwana, amalimbikitsa kuti ndikofunikira kukula munthu wolimba - "nthawi yayitali, ora losangalatsa." Ndi kuyika uku komwe kumapha kudzoza kulikonse ndipo timayamba kutaya chikhulupiriro mwa mphamvu zathu. Mukukumbukira zomwe mudakhala ndi chidwi ndi ubwana ndipo mwakhala bwanji bwino? Ndipo tsopano - nchiyani chimakupangitsani kukhala chosangalatsa lero? Ganizirani mbali ziti zomwe mungagwiritse ntchito zomwe mumakonda. Kodi mumakonda kujambula ndikuchita bwino? Yesani kusaka malo otseguka komwe "adawonera" imafunikira mumithunzi ndi mitundu. Mudzaona kuti makampani ambiri ambiri alibe akatswiri.
Mukufuna chiyani
Mukayang'ana udindo wamaloto, onetsetsani kuti mwapanga mndandanda wazolinga zanu chaka chimodzi. Mukapita mwachindunji pamndandanda wabizinesi, zimakudziwitsani, kaya ndi nthawi yocheza ndi nthawi yofunsidwa kuti ikhale yofunsidwa, pomwe ndandandayo sizikugwirizana ndi nthawi yanu, mukakonzekera nthawi yanu kupitiriza kuphunzira komwe simudzagwira nthawi. Ganizirani mphindi izi kuti patatha miyezi isanu ndi umodzi siyikulembetsedwanso pasakani pa tsamba.
Zomwe Zikuyembekezera
Kuphatikiza pa zithunzi zosangalatsa, zimbalangola ndi gulu labwino kwambiri, muyenera kukhala ndi chidwi ndi zomwe mukuyembekezera. Kodi mungapeze maluso ati opezekapo? Kodi zingatheke bwanji zaka zochepa? Kodi mungakhale bwanji m'derali? Lamlungu mayankho a mafunso awa, ndikugwirizana ndi zabwino zonse ndi mandimu, pambuyo pake mutha kupanga chisankho.