Kodi mungatanthauze daffodium pa zovala zake? Mwina ngakhale osati momwe mungaganizire. Anthu a Narcissalcal, ngakhale atakhala kuti agonjera matenda a chipatala, angawonekere ku "zisonyezo za zabwino, koma amathanso kuonetsetsa kuti tiwunike molakwika ndi malingaliro awo . Kafukufuku amafotokozera za psychology ya kusakhazikika kumeneku.
Kuwala kwambiri kapena kuchepera?
Ambiri a daffodils amakonda kukhala likulu la chisamaliro - ndipo adzakopa chidwi ndi zovala zowala, zodziwika bwino komanso mawonekedwe okongola. Chifukwa chake, nthawi zambiri titha kuzizindikira molingana ndi zojambulajambula ndi zowonjezera zotsika mtengo, ngakhale kusakhalako kwanthawi yayitali, monga zokonda zadyera kapena chikondi cha magalasi. Koma tikamagwiritsa ntchito zovala ndi zojambulajambula zachilengedwe ku Psychoalysis kuti tiweruze umunthuyo, tikhala pachiwopsezo choletsa anthu ambiri komanso owolowa manja omwe akufuna kuti athe, ndipo titha kuphonya kalasi yapadera kwambiri ya Narcissus, omwe ali odziletsa nokha kudzera mu chikhalidwe cha chikhalidwe.
Chikondi cha Narcissus kukopa chidwi
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Hannah Turo ndi NAAA Jun m'nkhani "(2020) adafufuza momwe nara adafufuza momwe narcissism ndi malingaliro amathandizira kumwa chikhalidwe. M'malingaliro a kafukufuku wapitawu akuphunzira zomwe amafotokoza kuti "chikhalidwe chamikhalidwe", omwe amayang'ana kwambiri momwe chikhalidwe chachuma chimakhudzira zomwe anthu amakonda kuyerekeza ndi zokambirana.
Shin ndi Yun adafufuza mitundu yosiyanasiyana yamiyambo yamiyambo, kuphatikizapo zitsanzo zotere za mafashoni monga "kuphatikiza kwamitundu yapamwamba ndi mtundu wa msewu watsiku ndi tsiku." Amazindikira kuti kulimbikitsa kwa narcississism kumakhudza momwe ogula amathandizira, chifukwa Narcissus amakonda kugula zinthu kuti zithandizire kukhala wapadera. Chifukwa chake, poona kafukufuku wokhudzana ndi Narcissism ndi kusatetezeka, adayambitsa kuti kusakhazikika kwa narciscion kumalumikizidwa ndi zoyesayesa kuti ukhale wopambana kudzera mwa ogula.
Mtundu wa Egoistical: Kufuna kuwonetsa ulemu kapena kuwona mtima
Poganizira maphunziro am'mbuyomu, kumanga narcissism komanso chikhumbo chofuna chidwi, adaphunzira momwe zimagwirizaniratu zachilengedwe kuti zikhalidwe zamakono zimasinthidwa. Anawunikiranso zinthu zomwe zimapangitsa kuti gulu lino lizikhalapo ndi zinthu ziti ndikulimbikitsani kudziwika kwawo. Turo ndi Unn amawafotokozera kuti kubwera kwa zikhalidwe zachikhalidwe kumathetsa kusatetezeka, kukwaniritsa kufunika kwa maudindo, ndipo chikhalidwe chatsoka chimakwaniritsa kufunika kwa kukhulupirika kwawo.
Yang'anani machitidwe a munthu
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Chenjerani ndi mimbulu mu zikopa za nkhosa: Chiwerengerocho chimanena zambiri kuposa zovala
Zikuwoneka kuti, umunthu wa Narcisstic akhoza kukhala aliyense: Wochokera kwa anthu owoneka bwino kwa anthu ochezeka a Eco-ochezeka. Zovala zosiyanasiyana zoterezi zimatha kubweretsa chizindikiritso cholakwika. Narcissus, atavala zovala wamba, amakhoza kuwoneka ngati osazindikira, amabweretsa malingaliro osocheretsa, amatenga njira yawo yodzichepetsa. Koma poyang'ana mwakuya: Daffodils amasiyanitsa ndi masewera kuposa zovala. Mosasamala kanthu kuti amavala dala, kapena akufuna kusintha kudziona kuti ndi kukhulupirika, akavala mokoma mtima, timakhala pachiwopsezo cholakwa kuti chisamadzichepetse.
Narcisso amatha kutsimikizika pokhudzana ndi zovala.
Paul k. Piff mu kafukufuku wa Narcissism ndi gulu lalikulu kwambiri (2014), mawu odziwika komanso otchuka mogwirizana ndi enawo "komanso kuchuluka kwa kufunikira kwake , kuzindikira ngati wapadera komanso payekhapayekha. Amalemba kuti imodzi mwazinthu zazikulu za narcissism ndi lamulo la zamaganizidwe - chikhulupiriro pakuti ndiwe woyenera kwambiri komanso wofunika kuposa anthu ena. Makhalidwe awowa ndi olondola kwambiri kuposa momwe angasankhire zovala zamkati, makamaka poganizira zolinga zosakaniza ndi narcissa posankha mafashoni. Chifukwa chake, mmalo moweruza buku lokongola, muzikhala nthawi yowerenga, lomwe limabisidwa kumbuyo kwa kudzichepetsa kapena kodabwitsa kwa kudzichepetsa. Malingaliro enieni a mitundu ya Narcissic mikhalidwe amakupatsani mwayi kuti musamamangire umunthu wosangalatsa uyu komanso nthawi yochulukirapo kuti mukhale ndi ubale wabwino.