Munjira zambiri, pali vuto mosakayika m'malingaliro a wina ndi mnzake. Mwachitsanzo, munaganiza zokhala nthawi yamadzulo ndi atsikana, kusiya bambo kunyumba. Simunadziwenso kuti nthawi inangomaliza zokambirana ndi nthawi yayitali bwanji kuti mudapeza uthenga wochokera kwa mnzanuyo ndi funso komwe mudalipo. Ndipo, pobwerera kunyumba pakati pausiku, anamupeza sagona komanso akuyang'ana modekha.
Kafukufuku Wosangalatsa
Nthawi yina yapitali, asayansi m'dera lamaphunziro adazindikira kuti akuluakulu omwe ali otetezeka ndi chifukwa cha mavuto omwe adakumana ndi mavuto. Malinga ndi lingaliro la masitaelo othandizira, akuluakulu akupitilizabe maubale ndi akulu akulu omwe amatchedwa "mitundu yamkati", yomwe imachitika chifukwa cha momwe amasamalirira. Akuluakulu omwe amakonda kwambiri adzatha kupirira zikhalidwe zapamwamba zokhudzana ndi akulu kuposa akulu osadalirika, omwe ma alarm awo amayambitsidwa ndi malingaliro awo osakanikirana. Phunziro latsopano lomwe lachititsidwa ndi Jacomo Chompho ndi anzawo ochokera ku Roma la Roma la Sapueno (2020) likuwonetsa kuti sikuti ndi mtundu wosatetezeka wokha kuti azitha kuwongolera chifukwa cholephera, komanso kugwiritsa ntchito momwe amadziwika kuti ndi osakhazikika.
Kutengera lingaliro lamaganizidwe, olemba amafotokoza kuti malingaliro amakono pazoteteza amawaona kuti ndi "malingaliro ndi malingaliro a malingaliro ndi malingaliro anu omwe mwina amayambitsa matenda amisala ndikusintha." Kuchokera pamenepa, chikondi chosatetezeka chimangokhala pang'onopang'ono chifukwa chosowa mnzanuyo ali ndi chidaliro.
Kusiyana ndi mizu yamanja kumapita ku ubwana
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Njira Zotetezera Zamagulu
Magawo a zoteteza munjira imeneyi amasiyana " Malinga ndi olemba aku Italy, othandizana kwambiri adakumana ndi zomwe aponyedwa, yesetsani yesetsani kungowonjezera zinthu zomwe zili zopepuka kuti sangathe kudziwa zomwe zimawachitikira. Chifukwa chake, kuphatikiza kwa mawonekedwe osafunikira komanso osakhazikika kumatha kubweretsa kuti mnzanuyo amabwereka komanso atakhumudwa atazindikira kuti mulibe "chithandizo".
Monga kafukufuku adadutsa
Kuyang'ana njira iyi, Chophka ndi ogwira nawo ntchito adayesa mtundu wowerengera zomwe zidatengedwa kuchokera ku Ophunzirawo a 1129 ku Italy ndi Albania pogwiritsa ntchito njira zolumikizira, zoteteza, kupsinjika zamaganizidwe. M'badwo wa ophunzirawo unali kuyambira 18 mpaka 49, koma pafupifupi zaka 22, ndipo ambiri (65%) anali azimayi. Muyeso wa kalembedwe kamene kanapatsa kuwunika momwe ophunzira adamangiridwira, mantha (oopa (omwe akuda nkhawa (sadasiyidwa). Olembawo adaneneratu, anthu omwe adalandira mfundo zapamwamba kapena kudera nkhawa, kapena kuti azikondana, mwinanso ndi nkhawa kwambiri.
Anthu omwe ali ndi mawonekedwe osagwiritsidwa ntchito sakudziwa osati mu ubale wokha, komanso chifukwa chodziwika. Akuyesera kudziletsa kufooka kumene, kutengera njira imodzi yoteteza ingapo, koma imangowonjezera vutoli. M'malo mozindikira ndi kuthana ndi mavuto anu, akuyesera kuwabisa.
Kodi mungagwiritse ntchito bwanji zofufuzira zothandiza kuti mnzanu azichita bwino?
1. Dziwani gwero la kusakhazikika kwa mnzanu. Palibe amene akufuna kukhala ndi mawonekedwe osadalirika. Ngati mnzanuyo akuwona chisamaliro chachikulu, izi sizikugwirizana ndi kusankha kwake.
2. Chitani mphamvu ya kupadera kwa wokondedwa wanu. Ndipo inu, ndipo mnzanu mutha kupambana kuchokera ku kuzindikira mbali zolimba ndi zabwino za wina ndi mnzake.
3. Khalani oleza mtima ndi chithandizo. Apanso, mnzanu safuna kukhala chomwecho. Ndikosavuta kukwiya komanso kutetezedwa, choncho yesani kukhala odekha.
4. Thandizani mnzanuyo kuti akonze njira yotetezera kwambiri. Kumbukirani kuti nthabwala ndi imodzi mwamakina otetezera kwambiri. Ngakhale zingaoneke kuti zimangophatikiza moto, mwina pa nthawi yofananira kwambiri mutha kuvomereza ndi wokondedwa wanu za njira zothanirana ndi momwe akumwetulira kapena nthabwala.
Mnzanuyo angathane ndi kusakhazikika kwake.
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5. Gwiritsani ntchito zochitika zomwe zachulukitsa m'mbuyomu, ngati njira yokonzera zamtsogolo. Apanso, zinthu zikakhala zodekha, bweretsani (popanda milandu) kukakumbukira, popeza zonse zidapangidwa chimodzimodzi kuti zitheke kuti muthe kuletsa zomwe zinachitika.
6. Pezani njira zothanirana ndi zomwe mwakumana nazo. Ndi chinthu chachikulu chokumana ndi mwayi wa wokondedwa. Mukufunabe kuwona anzanu yekha ngakhale ndi mnzanga wamanjenje. Ngati mungakhazikitse malamulo oyambira pachibwenzi pasadakhale, zomwe mumakonda zimatha kuvomereza zochitika ngati izi mukafuna kukhala opanda pake, ndi bata lalikulu.
Pofotokoza za kupezeka, zitha kupezeka kuti kupezeka kwa wokondedwa wina yemwe amakwiya msanga komanso wokhumudwa, akhoza kusokoneza moyo watsiku ndi tsiku kwa inu nonse. Kumvetsetsa olankhula mwakuthupi kuti mnzanuyo angakuthandizeni inu kuti mubwerere ku namondwe wokhazikika.