Kuchokera m'makalata oyamba a owerenga, ndimamvetsetsa ngati padzakhala ndikusankha bwino komanso kolondola kuposa mayankho. Kugona lero za ngwazi, m'malo mwa gulu lachiwiri. M'maloto ake, pali ambiri omasuka omwe amafunikira kuti azitanthauzira zochulukirapo kapena zochepa.
Pogwiritsa ntchito izi, ndiyesetsa kuwonetsa zomwe mungafunse mafunso ndipo mungaganize zokhuta, koma zosawoneka bwino.
Ndikofunikanso kunena kuti malotowo adalota kwa mkazi ali mu zaka zokhwima, ndipo mawu omwe ali nawo ali pafupi ndi pore. Ichi ndi chizindikiro chofunikira pakutanthauzira.
"M'maloto, ndiyenera kutseka gawoli, koma kuyambira chaka chatha ndili ndi" michira. " Ndikhulupirira kuti mphunzitsi sindiye chifukwa sindimakhala ndi vuto kwa ine, ndimatha kumunyengerera kuti atseke "mchira" uku. Koma ndiwa Adamu, akuti ndikofunikira kuti udutse zonse zomwe muyenera kudziwa. Nthawi yomweyo mozungulira, anthu osiyanasiyana amalinganizidwa, omwe amapatsidwa gawo lomaliza ma ruble 15,000, koma ndilibe ndalama. Ndikupempha thandizo kwa abambo, amakukondani, komanso sangathandize ndalama ndikuwonetsa kuti afunse amayi. Ndipo pamodzi sitikufuna.
Kenako ndikumvetsa kuti zosankha zonsezi ndizodalirika, ndipo ndimayamba kukonzekera, momwe ndingaphunzirire zakuthupi ndikudutsa moona mtima. "
Chifukwa chake, lonjezo la kugona lino litha kuonedwa kuti ndi mawu omveka bwino kuti lingakhale labwino kuti yankho lanu liziyankha moona mtima. Ngakhale izi zikhale zochuluka, chifukwa malingaliro odalirika pa mawu ake ndi milandu yake siitali kwambiri pa luso lodziwika bwino la munthu wamakono.
Koma tulo, tikamakumbukira, amalankhula mu chilankhulo cha zilembo ndi fanizo. Mwachitsanzo ichi pali zingapo. Ndikukhulupirira kuti malotowo akuwerenga kale gawo lathu, adzawayankha ndikusankha mauthenga ena owonjezera olota.
Samalani ndi fanizo ndi zilembo zapadera
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Chifukwa chake, fanizo loyamba ndi wophunzira. Kodi anali wapadera bwanji mwa wophunzira wake? Kodi amakumbukira chiyani za nthawi ino? Kodi amakumbukira chiyani za iye? Kodi makolo ake adagwira ntchito yanji pamoyo wake? M'maloto, pali mawu onena za kupempha thandizo kwa abambo ndi amayi, ndipo abambo amaphatikizidwa ndi zozungulira, ndipo amayi sali. Kodi amamuuza chiyani tsopano?
Ponenapo wachiwiri ndi ma ruble 15,000. Ndi mayanjano ati omwe amaganiza za izi? Kodi kulowererapo ndi moyo wake ndi chiyani? Kodi ma ruble 15,000 ali ndi chiyani m'moyo wake? Mwina ndiye chizindikiro chosangalatsa kwambiri: kwandi konkriti, osati kusokonekera komanso womveka. Ndikofunika kuganiza kuti ndalama izi zimamuthandiza tsopano.
Komanso musaiwale za momwe akumvera. Mwachitsanzo, pamakhala kusuntha kwa malingaliro a maloto athu, koma sanalembe za momwe akumvera ndi zomwe amakonda. Nthawi zambiri, ndiye chinsinsi cha kulolera, chifukwa kugona ndi chidziwitso chojambulidwa ndipo mwina chimaphatikizaponso malingaliro omwe akuyimilira kumbuyo kwa zinthu zonse.
Tikufuna zabwino zonse ndi loto pokana kuseta tulo tsopano. Palibe zodabwitsa kuti anali kumukumbukira. Kugona kumakhala ndi chidwi chachikulu, chofukizira. Zingakhale chifundo choti muwasiye modzitchinjiriza.
Talmud imati "tulo osasankhidwa ndi ofanana ndi kalata yosagwirizana."
Ndikudabwa kuti "kusindikiza" inu? Zitsanzo za maloto anu kutumiza ndi makalata: [email protected]. Mwa njira, maloto ndiosavuta kufotokoza ngati mu kalata yopita kwa mkonzi womwe mudzalemba nthawi ya moyo, koma koposa zonse - malingaliro ndi malingaliro panthawi ya kudzutsidwa m'maloto.
Maria DonaCkova, zamatsenga, othandizira am'banja komanso akutsogolera paubwenzi wapakati pa Marika Khazin