Tchuthi nthawi zonse chimakhala chochitika chosangalatsa, chomwe, komabe, chimatha kuphimba anthu omwe muyenera kukumana ndi malo opezeka ngati mabwalo a ndege ngati mabwalo a sitima. Tinaganiza zosonkhanitsa mitundu yayikulu ya oyandikana nawo omwe angakhale nawo mu kanyumba ya ndegeyo ndikundiuza momwe ndingachitire, ngati palibe mphamvu kupirira oyandikana nawo.
"Awa ndi malo anga!"
Tonsefe timadziwa okonda kukhala pawindo "pamtengo uliwonse", ndipo sitikunena za zolephera ndi dongosolo lomwe limapatsa malo omwewo, ndi chikhumbo chofuna kuchita. Muzochitika zoterezi, kuthekera kwa zofatsa kumakwera kwambiri, koma tikuvomereza mwamphamvu kuti tisalingalire zomwe zachitikazo ndikupempha thandizo kwa antchito othawa. Ngati mnansi wanu wokakamizidwa adatenga malo anu ofuna, adzamasula mulimonse, ndipo ngati pali cholakwika chaluso, mutha kuyika malo aliwonse aulere. Nthawi zina ngakhale kalasi pamwambapa.
"Pepani, koma ndikuwuluka"
Monga mukudziwa, mwamantha amafalikira mwachangu kuposa moto wamtchire. Ngakhale mutakhala wapaulendo wodziwa bwino ndipo mwina ndi mantha, mkhalidwe wamanjenje ungadutse mosavuta komanso inu. Popewa kumverera kosasangalatsa komwe kumayendera ndege yanu yonse, yesani kulemba zokambirana zopanda pake pamutu wambiri. Pangani kukhala omasuka monga momwe mungathere komanso mwachilengedwe - "makutu" a zolankhula sizidzatulutsa. Ndipo palibe chifukwa chopanda "kuthira" kuopa zakumwa zomwe mungamulangize mnansi wanu - aerofoba - zimayipa kwambiri.
Okonda kukhala pazenera nthawi zambiri amakhala
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"Ndine Nyenyezi"
Pali ena omwe sangaphatikize ndi khamulo. Mwanjira imeneyi, ndikofunikira kudzipereka kwa iwo okha mwanjira iliyonse, pomwe okhazikika pa omwe ali paulendo ena, monga lamulo, amakhala ndi nkhawa kwambiri. Kodi mungazindikire kuti "nyenyezi" yakuthawa yomwe ili mu machitidwe a propeater: mipando ya mafoni? Ayi zikomo. Armarts wokwera uyu amatenga zonse zomwe angathe kuzikwaniritsa, ndipo zidzakhala zodandaula ndi mtima wonse kukwiya kwanu. Choyipa kwambiri ngati nyenyezi yonyamula "imagwiritsa ntchito mowa mosiyanasiyana - koma apa mutha kuthana ndi vutoli, pofotokoza yemwe akuchititsa, koma amasungunuka malire anu, osalira.
"Nanunso?"
Kulankhula zoyandikana ndi kuyankhulana ndi matemberero enieni mpaka mutafika pamalo omwe akupita. Nkhani zopanda moyo zokhudzana ndi iwo, banja, ntchito, zokambirana zandale - koma zonsezi sizingafanane, koma ndi anthu ochepa omwe sangakhale mnansi woyankhulirana pampando, koma izi sizitanthauza kuti muyenera kupirira kutuluka kwa pakamwa. Yesani kuchoka kuchimbudzi, kubwerera, ndikutseka makutu ndi mutu - kuti munthu aliyense akhale chizindikiro kuti asokoneze kukambirana. Kapenanso, mutha kutanthauza chinthu chilichonse chofunikira chomwe chimafuna kukonzekera, mukamatenga pepala kapena piritsi. Mwa njira, macheza sapezeka pafupipafupi, ndiye kuti ndizochepa kwambiri pa "wokamba" kwenikweni - aliyense akuyesera kugona kapena kuthana ndi zochitika zawo.