Kwa akazi ambiri, ukwati umakhala ngati cholinga cha moyo, kukumana ndi munthu woyenera, mtsikanayo nthawi zambiri amayesera mwachangu kuti athetse wosankhidwa, nthawi zina mthenga wa mfundo zofunika kwambiri zomwe zikufunika kufotokozedwa Mphamvu zopambana.
Dziwani momwe munthu wanu amatchulira ana
Nthawi zambiri chinthu ichi chimakhala chomaliza muubwenzi. Vomerezani, kukwatiwa ndi munthu, akuyembekeza kuti zaka zingapo mudzakhala ndi ana ochepa, ndipo pa funso lanu: "Tidzakonza liti?" Yankho ndi yankho: "Chifukwa chiyani tifunika lamulo? Ifenso ndi timene tinali kugwedezeka kwambiri. Monga lamulo, azimayi ali ndi chidaliro kuti pambuyo paukwati munthu munthu amayambitsa kukambirana za ana, ngakhale atangoyambitsa mutuwu. Ayi, sangakhale bwino kusintha malingaliro, ngati amapewa nkhaniyi. Pofuna kuti musakhumudwe muukwati, fotokozerani nthawi ndi ana nthawi yayitali musanayambe kupanga malowo.
Dziwani zomwe zinali zoleredwa ndi munthu wanu ali mwana
Tonsefe tikudziwa kuti moyo uliwonse wamoyo wa makolo ake: Ngati banja lidali lamphamvu kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu, pafupifupi chidaliro chonse titha kunena kuti munthu sadzaona kuti munthu sangawone dzanja ndi ana ake. Ganizirani nthawi yomwe timakambirana ndi ma celves athu achiwiri okhudza ubwana wanu? Osati kawirikawiri, komanso pachabe. Kukambirana kwa ubwana wanu kumatha kuwulula maso anu pamakhalidwe ambiri a mnzanu.
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Dziwani zomwe mumayembekezera kuchokera kwa mwamuna wanu
Ndiponso kusowa kwa kulumikizana mu awiri kumabweretsa kusamvana kwakukulu kusamvana mbali zonse ziwiri. Nthawi zonse mumafuna moyo wopanda phokoso kunja kwa mzinda wokhala ndi mitundu ndi ana, ndi osankhidwa anu, komwe kumakhala kovuta kwambiri kumoyo Moyo wake m'nyumba yochotsa. Vomerezani, ndibwino kuphunzira za kusiyana pakati pa zokhumba "m'mphepete mwa nyanja" kuposa m'mawa kutacha ukwati.
Amuna anu ndi abale anu pati?
Zachidziwikire, ngati mnzanuyo akamapita kukacheza makolo ake, palibe chowopsa pakali pano, ngati chikuwonekera nthawi zambiri kuposa kuntchito, muyenera kuganizira za izi, komanso ngati munthu angasinthe pa mayi ake nthawi yomwe inu muyenera kukhalapo kwake. Kambiranani ndi bambo mphindi iyi, ndiuzeni zomwe mukufuna kukhala nanu nthawi yambiri kapena kukutenga ndi ine kwa banja langa. Mwamuna akamachita izi chifukwa chovulaza chotere ndi kamphamvu ngakhale mwamwano, kuganiza ngati kuli koyenera kupeza moyo wanu ndi munthu wotere.