Mwachitsanzo, ngati ana aang'ono azaka pafupifupi theka la nthawi, akakhala maso, kukhalabe omasuka, kenako, chisangalalo chimachepetsedwa nthawi zina ndipo sichoncho Opitilira maola awiri patsiku, ngakhale atakhala nthawi yayitali bwanji kapena munthu wina yemwe amakhala m'maloto. Nthawi zambiri achikulire amakhala okhazikika, oyang'ana, okwiyitsidwa kapena ali ovutika maganizo.
Makamaka mikhalidwe yofananira ndi mikhalidwe ya anthu okhala m'mizinda ikuluikulu kulowera kumpoto, m'maiko omwe mumakhala masiku ochepa ndi nthawi yayitali. Zonena, zosangalatsa ndizochepa. Mavuto ambiri komanso mavuto komanso mavuto. Inde, tidziphatikiza nokha, mmalo mokondwera pang'ono chisangalalo ndikusangalala mphindi iliyonse, tsiku lililonse.
Wina amakhala kumapeto kwa sabata mpaka kumapeto kwa sabata, akugwira ntchito yosakondedwa. Wina - kuchokera ku malipiro kupita malipiro, akugwira ntchito yosangalatsa, yolipidwa yotsika mtengo. Wina wochokera kutchuthi - isanakwane tchuthi. Iliyonse ili ndi njira zake za moyo, nthawi zina zodikirira komanso zovuta zomwe sizingathetsedwe. Komanso banja lomwe silinakonde kapena lokwatirana, likukulitsa ana omwe samachita zonse zomwe akufuna, kapena njira ina pozungulira, kusasangalala ndi ana ... chisangalalo sichiwonjezera. Ndipo ngati mungathe kusintha ntchitoyo ngati mukufuna kusintha, ndiye kuti ndi banja ndizovuta kwambiri. Mnzanu wosavomerezeka / Wokwatirana ndi vuto, koma anathetsedwa. Mutha kusudzulana ndipo, mwina, kuti mukhale osangalala pang'ono.
Mutha Kuchepetsa! Nanga bwanji ana? Zidzawakhumudwitsa, ndipo ingavulaze m'maganizo. Zotsatira zake, zovuta: Pangani ana achimwemwe kapena osasangalala, ndikuyamba kuda nkhawa kale kwa iwo? Ngati palibe ana, amathetsa banja lanu lomwe mulibe zinthu zosavuta. Koma, monga momwe amatchulidwira, nyumbayo yomwe idatengedwa m'nyumba yomwe idalembedwa awiri. Kusiyiratu ngongole nokha kapena kupatsa nyumbayo komanso chidwi chofuna kukwatirana ndi mnzanu? Ngakhale atakhala ozizira, ndizopindulitsa kulipira limodzi, ndipo sindikufuna kuwonjezera pa nyumbayo. Apanso vuto. Kapena bola, kutenga awiri. Ndipo chisangalalo chinali chotheka!
Onani, ife ndife gwero la mavuto athu. Mfundoyi siyikunena za tsoka. Osati "tsogolo kuti atenge ngongole yanyumba", ndipo kukula kokwanira kwa malipiro a pamwezi komwe kumatchulidwa mu chithandizo cha 2 ndfl ndi kukula kwa zopereka zoyambirira. Osati "tsoka lasankhidwa kuti likhale loyembekezera", ndipo "ndikunyalanyaza kutanthauza pakati pa msambo. Zachidziwikire, pali zosiyana "koma", komabe, nthawi zambiri timalandira nokha zinthu zosangalatsa ndi kupusa kwawo, umbombo komanso kusasamala.
Ku ndalama, mavuto azaumoyo, ubwenzi komanso kusaka kwa theka lawo lachiwiri, ndikofunikira kutengera malingaliro, kutenga nawo mbali, osangodalira zofuna za mlandu ndi tsoka. Mumawoneka ndi chisangalalo mwa akuluakulu.