Tiyeni tiyambe ndi kuti amuna ali ndi malingaliro osiyana ndi ndalama: sakhala odziwika bwino, ndi oyenera kuwononga ndalama zokhala ndi vuto. Sangokhalapo, amasunga ndalama. Ndipo nthawi zambiri mayi wokondedwa ndi ndalama zambiri. Ngakhale atakhala ndi ndalama zingati, nthawi zonse aziyesera kuchitira mkazi wake.
Yakwana nthawi ya katswiri wazamisala
Muyenera kusankha mtundu wa chisanu chomwe muli ndi bizinesi. Mwina ndinu "mwayi": Kuchokera kumatundu onse omwe mwasankha Zada zatha. Sali osangalatsa pakulankhulana komanso umbombo pachilichonse. Mwamuna wotere sadzaitanira malo odyera, ndipo ngati amayitanidwa, ndiye kuti akumana ndi mitengo yayikulu yomwe mungamvere pa chakudya chamadzulo. Ndipo akauntiyo mudzagawana pakati. Mwina adzasiya zonse - pambuyo pa zonse, ndizodula kwambiri. Zakudya zam'madzi zanden sizimangokhala ndalama zokha, komanso pazowonetsera zakukhosi komanso momwe mukumvera. Apa umbombo - vuto ndi zamaganizidwe, ndipo palibe chomwe angagwire mkazi muubwenzi ndi munthu wotere. Psychotherapist yokha imatha kuthandiza oterowo.
Ndi oganiza bwino akhoza kuvomerezedwa
Pali gulu lina la amuna - okonda anthu. Ndiwo zachuma komanso makamaka. Ndipo zachuma ndi zotsatsa m'moyo uliwonse sizoyipa nthawi zonse: zimatanthawuza kuti munthu amaganiza zamtsogolo, amaika zolinga. Ndi mwamuna wotere mutha kupeza chilankhulo chimodzi. Muyenera kuti mumvetsetse kuti musamamvetsetse kuti simuli trans. Nsapato zogulitsidwa zogulitsa, tengani zovala zapanyumba kuti zisapite ku cafe. Kwa munthu wachuma, nkhani ngati mafuta pa mzimu: akumakumverani, amamvetsetsa kuti mayi wotereyu amatha kupatsidwa bajeti, chifukwa mumakhala wolumikizidwa ndi zambiri. Zachidziwikire, iye adzakumbukira mtengo wa mphatso ndipo mwina, angayese kupulumutsa pa china chake, koma okonzeka kusangalatsa zosankha zake. Mwina sindigula udzu, mukadzabweranso, musayitane malo odyerawo, koma kenako zidzapereka china chake chofunikira.
Thamangitsani ku kupanda chidwi
Pali mtundu wachitatu wa amuna adyera. Itha kutchulidwa kwa iwo omwe ali ovuta kutchula mabampu, chifukwa umbombo amawonetsa poyerekeza ndi mayi yemwe alibe chidwi. Amuna oterowo amakhala achimwemwe kudzipereka okha, okondedwa awo, amtundu wina, koma osaganizira za mkazi. Samayamikira, safuna kukondweretsa. Nthawi zambiri mu maubale oterowo, mkaziyo pawokha amawonetsa luso: amagula mphatso, osagwiritsa ntchito nthawi zonse. Ndipo bambo amalola kuti azikonda. Ndipo si ma Alfons, osayanjanitsika ndi mkazi uyu, samawona tanthauzo lake kuti agwiritse ntchito ndalama. Kuchokera pamenepa, njira imodzi yotuluka ndikuyang'ana munthu yemwe amachita mosiyana. Mwakulemekeza kotero, mzimayi samagwiritsa ntchito ndalama zokha komanso nthawi yake, komanso mphamvu zake. Kudzidalira kumachepetsedwa, kumayamba kuwoneka kuti sikuwoneka kuti siiyenera chikondi, chisamaliro, mphatso za banja. Amamva kusasangalala, ndipo ubale umakhala pang'onopang'ono. Ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa chinthu chachikulu: Mwamuna amakololedwa mwa mkazi amene akufuna kukhala. Ngati bambo amakupulumutsirani - sakhala nanu.