Koma nthawi zina zakale kapena zam'mbuyomu theka lachiwiri ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri la moyo, lilipo komanso tsogolo - kuti sizingatheke kuletsa, simungathe kukana.
Kuyankhula za ana. Inde, ana ndi chimwemwe, maluwa amoyo, koma kwa makolo awo, agogo. Mfundo. Mndandandawo supitilira. Ana ndi kupitiriza kwa mtundu ndi gawo lofunikira la banja lolimba. Mabanja omwe amayi ndi abambo amakhala limodzi komanso mosangalala.
Pomwe, mu ubale wa makolo, pali chisokonezo ndipo akufuna kukhala mofatsa, zomwe zili palimodzi, chifukwa sizikumvetsa chisoni, koma banja lawo litasiya kusudzulana ndi mbali, ana amawotchedwa. Chifukwa njira yolekanitsidwa imatha - chifukwa yaying'ono, chifukwa zimapangitsa kuti ngozi zazikulu zamaganizidwe, chifukwa cha chitukuko chamithunzi, makolo onse amafunikira moyo wapafupi ndi moyo, mchikondi. Kupatula apo, mwana sangapusitse.
Kukhala ndi thanzi lakunja sikubisa ming'alu ndi malo otsatsa. Mwanayo adzaona kuti pali vuto. Nthawi zambiri, posachedwa, makolo athe. Zidzayang'aniridwa, koma izi sikokwanira. Nthawi zina, makolo omwe kale anali makolo akale amalota, koma mwana kapena ana amakhala amakhazikika, omwe makolo anga, amafunika kuwona, ndi ana - amamva kuti ndi katundu wa Magetsi ndi kukwiya - munthu wina wachikulire yemwenso, makamaka pamene iye (anali) woyambitsa chisudzulo - achita zachikulire, kuti akhazikitse mwana kuti asalowerere kholo lina. Nthawi zambiri mwachipongwe komanso chikondi chosasinthika, ziyembekezo zopanda chilungamo zimawonetsedwa ndi njira yowala kwambiri, ndipo mwanayo amamvetsera mayankho onse opanda tsankho pa abambo awo kapena mayi awo.
Inde, ana ali ndi malingaliro ake, amakonda kapena sakonda ngakhale onse omwe adauzidwa, koma, monga aliyense amadziwa, madzi ndi otola miyala. Chifukwa chake, kuvumbula mwakukulu kwa makolo ena pamaso pa mwana, mitsempha Yake imawuma, kusokoneza kukhazikika kwa psyche ndikuyambitsa vuto lalikulu, komwe ngakhale chikondi chachikulu chimayamba kumva. Ndipo awiriwa pafupi kwambiri, okwera mtengo kwambiri chifukwa bambo anali ndi adani ake. Chimodzi - chifukwa chakuti ndizosasangalatsa m'mimba ya mwana, yachiwiri, chifukwa amafuna kukhala losangalala, kusiya banja lina, kapena banja lina.
Ndani ali wolondola, ndani amene akuimba mlandu ndi kuchita? Kuona mtima komanso m'tsogolomu adzakhala wolakwa kwa mwana yemwe kholo amene akuyesera kukhazikitsa mwana motsutsana ndi abambo awo kapena mayi ake. Akuluakulu ayenera kumvetsetsa izi, mwatsoka, chikondi nthawi zina chimadutsa ndipo ngati theka lachiwiri akufuna kuti achoke, wakhala akulondola. Zikatero, ake (ake) amayenera kumasulidwa, khululukirani ndikuyamba moyo watsopano, mwina amayesanso kukondanso. Ana ogwirizana sakhala olakwa. Ali ndi ufulu kulankhulana ndi makolo onse komanso bwino, ngati kholo lomwe lasiyira moona mtima limalumikizana ndi ana ake, kuti azichita nawo maphunziro, amathandiza pachuma.
Choyipa chachikulu ngati mnzanu kapena wokwatirana naye, kusiya banja, amataya ndi ana. Inde, nthawi zina iwo omwe adayika izi molimbika kuwona ndikulankhulana ndi mkwiyo kapena momwe akumvera omwe sanathe. Ndiye? Ndinu achikulire - mudzagwira. Ndipo ngati Pepani ndipo mudzazindikira chifukwa chake zonse zinachitika, ndiye kuti tsoka lidzakupatsani mwayi woti musangalale ndi kusangalala.
Ndipo ndizopusa kuganiza kuti simukufuna aliyense ndi ana m'manja mwanu. Inde, kapena kuti aliyense sangathe kutenga udindo - ndi munthu wamphamvu komanso wolemekezeka, koma, Kupatula apo, mumangofunikira, kuyambira kale), Ndiloleni ndithandizeni pakuleredwa ndi ana ndikukonzekera msonkhano ndi munthu yemwe angapangire ubale watsopano ndikupanga banja latsopano.