Izi ndizomwe zingathandize kukhazikitsidwa kokha komanso kokha. Za zosowa za amunawa, katswiri wazamisala, wolemba komanso kutsogolera maphunziro achikazi pa ubale wa ma Vedim akutero.
1. Mnzanu
Chimodzi mwa zinsinsi zazikulu za psychology ya ubale ndi kuthekera komvera mnzanuyo. Mverani chilichonse mwachidwi chilichonse chokhudza zomwe bambo angafune kunena, ndi kukhala ndi mwayi, ngakhale ngati zovuta pantchito yake kapena malingaliro osangalatsa. Kutha kumvetsera sikutanthauza kuzindikira zonse zomwe mwamunayo amazichita. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuti adawona kuti mkaziyo ndi yekhayo, amaganiza kuti nthawi zonse amathandizira.
2. Muza
Ndipa mphamvu yokhulupirira munthu yemwe amamulimbitsa komanso kusirira mwaluso, amasilira mphamvu zachikazi. Osamatamanda chifukwa cha zochita, koma osamala zomwe munthu sanachite. Moona mtima, samalani zinthu zomwe akufuna, ndi zomwe anali nazo kuti akwaniritse. Kukhulupirira mwa munthu kumamulimbikitsa kuti agonjetse zinthu zawo ndi ntchito yawo.
3. Chikondi, Banja
Kuyambira kale, mkazi amakhalabe ndi ntchito kuti akhalebe otonthoza m'nyumba, perekani munthu wodekha komanso chidaliro kuti amakonda ndikudikirira. Chifukwa cha omwe adayang'aniridwa, nyumbayo imakhala malo a Mphamvu - ine ndikufuna kuti ndibwerere kumeneko, bambo akupuma pamenepo ndikubwezeretsa nyonga, kupeza mphamvu chifukwa chakwaniritsa. Mosangalala anakumana ndi, kumiza iye kusamalira ndi kusangalatsa, ndipo adzakhala ndi mphamvu nthawi zonse.
4. Kugonana
Uyu ndi mkazi amene amadziwa kuyamikira ndi kudzikonda yekha. Mwamuna wake yemwe anali mu Aura wake sakupanga mayesero kumbali. Amatha kusankhidwa ndi zomwe takumana nazo zomwe amayamika - ndipo izi zimagwira ntchito kwa luso lokhalokha, komanso magawo ena amoyo. Chosowa chachikulu chachimuna ndikuchitika, chifukwa chake, pakufunika kuphunzira momwe mungadzipangire nokha, kusiyana ndi kuwongolera ndikuyamba kudandaula za bambo. Ndipo kenako mwamunayo sadzasintha.
5. Kudzipereka
Mkazi wodzipereka ali ndi mphatso yofunika kwambiri kufotokozera momwe iye amamvera ndi munthu m'modzi yekha. Amakopa chidwi, koma osapezeka, amadziwika kwa aliyense, koma ndi woyenera. Tumikirani wosankhidwa wanu, ndipo mwachilengedwe mudzabwezeretsedwa.
6. Mnzanu
Mnzanu weniweni amakulandirani monga inu, ndipo mkazi weniweni amalandilanso. Ndi iye, bambo amatha kupumula kuchokera ku gawo la ngwazi, kuwululidwa kwathunthu komanso kukhala yekha. Ngakhale amuna ochokera ku chilengedwe amakhala olimba ndipo akufuna kumenya nawo nkhondo ndikupambana, kuti apirirenso nthawi zonse komanso kunyumba, ndipo palibe amene angagwire ntchito. Chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira osati kungoyambitsa kukula kwa munthu, komanso amamulola kuti azipumula m'malo anu.
7. Ego
Uyu ndi mkazi yemwe amanyadira. Luso ili limasilira munthu ndikumudyetsa chidwi chake payekha nthawi zonse, amamupatsa tanthauzo la amuna oyamba a Mgonjetsi, wosaka ndi wopambana. Ponyani zovala zakale komanso ngakhale kunyumba ina. Ndipo nthawi zonse muzikhala ndi zosasinthika komanso zachilendo, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti kwa munthu mudzakhala wokongola nthawi zonse.
Atsikana okongola, kodi mukufuna malangizo ochulukirapo pazachimwemwe chachikazi? Dziwani zinsinsi za ubale pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi ndikudziwa za psychology ya amuna ndi akazi, komanso zolakwa za akazi komanso momwe mungasinthire.
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Zolemba zina ndi upangiri wa Vadim Kurkin pa psychology yokhudzana pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi amawerengedwa mu blog ya katswiri wazamisala.
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