Mumakhala pamodzi limodzi, koma kenako china chake chasintha? Kapena mwamunayo kuyambira pachimake amachoka ndi mbali? Mwamunayo akhoza kukhala ndi zifukwa zambiri zosanyalanyaza mkazi, ndipo sizitanthauza kuti nthawi zonse. Tinaganiza zopezera tanthauzo la zomwe munthu amachita.
Ambiri osokoneza
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Chifukwa # 1.
Simuli mkazi wake
Monga amuna, azimayi nthawi zambiri amasokoneza ulemu ndi kukopana, mavuto onse amayamba kuchokera pano, munthu akadzadziwanso momwe angachokerepo gawo la maphunziro. Munthu akhoza kukhala wovuta kuvomereza kuti mulibe chidwi ndi izi, motero amasankha magwiridwe ake obwerera pang'onopang'ono.
Pankhaniyi, palibe chomwe chingachitike, chifukwa mtima sukulamula. Makamaka wina.
Chifukwa # 2.
Mwamuna sakufuna chibwenzi chachikulu
Nkhaniyi ikayamba kumayambiriro kwa buku lanu zonse zinali bwino, koma mwadzidzidzi adasintha kwambiri. Mwachidziwikire, munamupatsa kuti amvetsetse kuti mufunika china choposa misonkhano yopepuka ndipo mumayenda kangapo pa sabata. Zimachitika kuti munthu sakukonzeka kumanga ubale wolimba, ndipo chifukwa chake mwina sangakhale mwa inu - mwina moyo wake udzakhala moyo.
Zachidziwikire, ndizovuta kuti munthu asinthe malingaliro ndi zomwe amakonda, koma zimakhala zovuta kusintha kena kake ndikukakamiza munthu kuti apite pamayendedwe akulu. Kuyimilira sikunakhalepo zabwino.
Chifukwa # 3.
Mwamuna akhoza kumva kuti sazindikira
Pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana, amuna ena amachepetsa kuzindikira zakukhosi kwawo. Nthawi zambiri zimakhala chifukwa cha zomwe sizikugwiritsa ntchito kale, pomwe, mwina, anthu omwe anali wokondedwa kale adakanidwa kapena kunyozedwa kuwonekera kwake. Tsopano, izi zimamusamutsa ku ubale wanu. Mutha kuwona kuti pamaso panu omwe ali atatayika, sadziwa komwe angakonde manja ake, zindikirani mawonekedwe ake omwazikana.
Yesani kupanga yoyamba, musadye ndikusamala kuti musawopseze munthu wamphamvu.
Akuwopa kuwulula m'malingaliro
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Chifukwa # 4.
Adalakwitsa
Tsoka ilo, nthawi zambiri timakhala ndi chidwi ndi munthu, koma patapita kanthawi timamvetsetsa kuti kupanga zam'tsogolo mwa mnzake ndi njira ina. Ndipo kukulolani kukongola bwino, zimapangidwa, ndi inu pali china choti mulankhule, kumverera kwa chikondi kulipo, kapena si - sizitengera mikhalidwe yanu.
Ngati izi ndi zomwe mungasankhe, ndiye kuti bambo samangoona ubale wanu ndi inu, komanso kukuwuzani kuti siophweka.
Mwamuna mwina sangakhale wokonzeka kukhala pachibwenzi
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Chifukwa # 5.
Ndinu olimba mtima
Inde, tanena kale kuti mutha ndipo ngakhalenso muyenera kuyeleredwa ndi mkazi, komabe, azimayiwo ndi osasinthika. Munthu wachilengedwe ndi wogonjetsa, sadzalekerera mu ubalewo ndi mtsogoleri wina - pokhapokha ngati simukufuna kungokhala ndi chidwi kwambiri "Chinthu chogonjetsedwa" chimayamba kutsanulidwa munso kapena pang'ono.
Ngati mupitiliza mu mzimu womwewo, munthu amatha kusinthana ndi mkazi wamafuta ambiri, ndiye lingalirani ngati chikhumbo chanu chizitsogolera muubwenzi wanu wonse ndi munthu wanu wokwera mtengo.