Ndikulakwitsa kukhulupirira kuti dziko lapansi lagawidwa kukhala lakuda ndi loyera, ndi mawonekedwe a zabwino komanso zoipa. Ngati kuzindikira kwathu kumatha kutengeka, zikutanthauza kuti ndikofunikira kuti pakhale china, chomwe chimapangitsa kuti ena awone. Tinayesetsa kupeza zabwino zomwe sizisangalala kwambiri, zomwe ndikukuuzani.
Osadziletsa kumva
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Ukali
Osati kumverera kosangalatsa kwambiri, komabe ndikofunikira. Ngati mukukhulupirira akatswiri a akatswiriwa, lingaliro lamphamvu lazachisoni nthawi zambiri limakhala "pendeji", lomwe ambiri mwa ife ndiofunikira: Ndikufuna kuchita zonse nthawi yomweyo. Koma zochita za kubwereka ndi mphamvuyo zitha, m'malo mwake, zimabweretsa nkhawa, kukhumudwa komanso neurosis.
Njiru
Anthu amakono satha popanda kumverera: Tikufuna kukhala mdziko la mpikisano, kufunikira kwakukulu koma osachokapo, tikufuna kuti tipeze chilichonse, mabatani a gulu la Hollywood vampires. Zoterezi, kumverera kwa kaduka zazing'ono kwambiri ndikofunikira kupita patsogolo, kulandira maluso atsopano ndi chidziwitso chopitilira alendo. Koma osaledzera: Ngati simungourira, poyang'ana galimoto yatsopano ya oyandikana nawo, koma khalani ndi moyo, idzakuwonongerani posachedwa.
Kusafunaliza
Apanso, popeza tikukambirana za moyo mu mzinda wamakono, psyche yathu imavuta kuthana ndi chidziwitso chotere komanso mogwirizana ndi momwe timakhalira kunyumba. Pankhaniyi, kukayikira kumakhala kuteteza malingaliro athu ndi kuthandiza kuthana ndi mantha komanso mantha.
kaduka ikhoza kukuwonongerani kuchokera mkati
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Kunyada
Chiyambire ubwana, tazolowera kunyada sikungatipatse magalasi m'maso mwa anthu. Nthawi zambiri makolo amanena kuti: "Osapikisana modzichepetsa," ndipo kudziletsa kumeneku kumatha kudziiwala kuti tinene. Munthu amakhala wovuta kumuzindikira ndi ntchito yake, chifukwa chakupita kwa makwerero pantchito ndi kapena kukwezedwa, kapena kumatha kuyesa, chifukwa simungathe kuwunika tanthauzo lanu. Aliyense wa ife nthawi iliyonse m'moyo wake unali msonkhano ndi bambo wina yemwe analemba zinthu zomwe walemba za mwayi, ndipo zolephera zake zidalione. Ngati mwaphunzira nokha, sinthani malingaliro anu kwa inu, komanso bwino - kulumikizana ndi katswiri kuti athane ndi vutoli.
Dzikondeni nokha
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Kumakumakuma
Ndiponso mavuto onse kuyambira ali ndiubwana kuti: "Pitani kwa m'bale wangayo kuti", perekani keke yabwino kwa m'bale wanga "ndipo tidamva mawu ena ofanana ndi achibale. Ndipo pakadali pano, thanzi labwino ndi njira yodzisungira, yomwe ili yachilendo kwa anthu ambiri, makamaka munthu. Inde, muyenera kusamalira okondedwa, komanso kuyiwala za inu.