Kukhazikika, mgwirizano, kukhazikika komanso kukhazikika kwa kulumikizana sikuli ndendende paubwenzi wanu? Mu mgwirizano ndi mnzanu, kholo kapena bwenzi, kodi mumamva kuti muli ndi nkhawa nthawi zonse, kufunitsitsa kutsimikizira, kupepesa, chonde osakhumudwitsa? Zikomo kwambiri, ndinu ovutitsidwa ndi munthu woopsa, wotchedwa wozunza, kapena wokonda chidwi. Zikuwoneka zowopsa, ndipo izi ndi zowona.
Kuchita Zinthu Kwambiri Zaka zaposachedwa kuti anthu azikhala omveka, sizingaoneke ngati nkhani yokhudza kukhumudwitsa, mawu oti mabala, ndipo kukakamizidwa kwamalingaliro kumasintha kwambiri umunthu wathu. Izi si mawu ofuula, koma mpaka pano, chifukwa mpaka posachedwa, ngakhale kumenyedwa kwa wokondedwayo kutanthauza kuti Mkazi wokhala ndi golide. " Ngati kupempha munthu koteroko ndi munthu adadziwika kuti ndi chizolowezi chofikira pakadali pano, nchiyani cholankhula za mwano, kudzichititsa manyazi, zomwe sizimasiyira "zakuthupi, zomwe sizimachokera kuti" zakuthupi "sizimasiya" zakuthupi, zomwe sizingachitike. Kalanga ine, koma osalamulira komanso kusintha kwa mnzake sikunawoneke ngati zoyipa. "Ganizirani, chinthu chachikulu sichikupweteketsedwa," Khalani Bwino "- Awa ndi gawo lokhalo la omwe azunzidwa omwe amawazunza (kuchokera ku Chingerezi Ogwiritsa Ntchito -" Chidwi Cha Assung "). Ndimathamangira kukhumudwitsa: Palibe malingaliro akulu pano osanunkhiza. Nanga bwanji tikuganiza kuti mwanjira ina, sitizindikira kapena kukana kuzindikira mfundo yoti ndife ozunzidwa? Tikumvetsa!
1. Ndodo
Ngati mnzanuyo, mnzake kapena kholo nthawi zambiri amalolera mawu osadziwika komanso nthabwala pa adiresi yanu - chenjezo! Uwu ukhoza kukhala kuyimba koyamba.
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Kulakalaka kuti dzanja lanu lisungidwe ndikuwongolera nthawi zonse, zochita zanu, mayankho, bajeti ndi chizindikiro cha Abduzer. Musachite zonena: Sizimasamala, koma zopweteka zokhazokha kuti muchepetse inu.
3. kuzizira
Mkangano wanu ungafanane ndi mavuto a ku Italy, ndikuwopseza nsanje - nthawi zina amadabwitsidwa, koma mwinanso mnzanu amatsekedwa momasuka, popanda chisoni.
Chiwawa sichimakhala nkhani yokhudza kukhumudwitsa, mawu oti mabala, ndi zovuta zamaganizidwe zimasintha
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Drama Theatter
Choyamba, ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti ndiwe ndani, ozunza kale. Sakhala pachabe pachabe chotchedwa Toxic - kupezeka kwa anzawo omwe ali ndi zibwenzi m'moyo wathu poyizoni. Ndipo choyambirira, zotsatira zoterezi sizikuwonongeka, ndiye kuti kuchuluka kwa sewero kumawonjezeka, ndipo mukamvetsetsa kuti china chake sichinachitike monga mwa mapulani, kuti muchoke pa intaneti yopanda pake komanso yovuta kwambiri.
Kalanga ine, koma iwo amene amachita zionetsero za psywino komanso nkhanza za okondedwa, osati zochepa kwambiri. Kuphatikiza apo, pafupifupi makumi asanu ndi anayi pa zana a okwatirana omwe adazindikira kuti akukhudzidwa ndi nkhanza muukwati. Wozunza akhoza kukhala aliyense: Mnzako, mnansi, mnzake wapamtima kapena mwamuna wake yemwe. Kodi chimachitika ndi chiani kuti munthu wabwinobwino amakhala mmbulu pakhungu la nkhosa?
Anthu omwe amakonda zachiwawa, pafupifupi zana limodzi adapulumuka. Mwinanso, ndili mwana, makolo, m'malo mokhala chitetezo, wafalitsa kufooka kwawo, kusakhulupirira kwamtendere ndi kukhulupirika. Kukhala wamkulu, munthu wotere sangathe kuthana ndi nterosisis yake ya nerosis, mantha ndi kukamba kumakumba mkati mwake, kuyang'ana njira yotulukira. Nthawi zambiri pamakhala awiri - kapena kuwonongeka, ndiko kuti, zochita zowononga zowononga zimayang'aniridwa mwa ena, kapena kuukira ena, nthawi zambiri anthu apamtima nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi anthu apamtima. Nthawi zambiri, omwe amakhudzidwa ndi makolo oopsa, ana achikulire, amasintha poizoni wawo.
Pokhudzana ndi momwe zimakhalira pachibwenzi, zimatsekedwa, kuchotsedwa, sikonzeka kuyankhula, kubwera kudzalumikizana. Kuyesayesa kulikonse kokhazikitsa kulumikizana, kumaletsa mawu onyansa ("Musandipangitse kukhala ubongo" - chimodzi mwazizindikiro kwambiri). Amawoneka ngati osayanjanitsika komanso ozizira akamathandizira pamavuto pamavuto. Zimakhala zovuta kuti amveke chisoni, kungogwirizana kuti azindikire zolakwa zawo. Kwa aliyense, ali ndi chifukwa chabwino, ndipo ntchito iliyonse imalongosola mosavuta. Wolakwa ku nkhanza sadzakhala - kupatula mawu.
Njira zonse ndizabwino
Kodi chiwopsezo chimanenedwa bwanji pokhudzana ndi ena? Kumbukirani, mwina m'malo mwanu pali munthu amene munthu sali-ayi, ndipo amatchedwa vampire. Pambuyo pomuphunzitsa, ngakhale pang'ono, mudzazindikira momwe zimakhalira, chidwi ndi malingaliro abwino zimazimiririka, malingaliro otsimikiza mu mphamvu zanu zimawonekera. Zachidziwikire, ayi "Vampiriss" pano ndipo samanunkhiza - patsogolo pathu "mabsk", omwe ena amadziwa momwe angadziwitsire nkhawa komanso kukayikira. Komabe, ndi zophiphiritsa kuitana munthu wotere ndi magazi magazi.
Aboaser ali ndi zida zawo zolandila ndi maluso omwe amakulolani kuti akuletseni. Chilichonse chimamangidwa pakuwonongeka kwa kudzidalira kwanu ndikuchepetsa chikhulupiriro mwa mphamvu yanu. Ndipo apa mutha kumveketsa bwino kuti: munthu wodziwona yekha miyendo yake, kuyimirira molimba pa miyendo yake, momveka bwino ponena za malire ake ndi mfundo zake, samakonda kuchitiridwa zachipongwe. Kungomverera kokha mu chitsogozo chanu mogwirizana, amaletsa kuchita izi. Kalanga ine, koma anthu abwino kwambiri omwe anthu ali ndi thanzi pafupifupi samatha kuchitika, chifukwa nthawi zonse tonse tili m'gulu loopsa mwa nkhanza.
Chifukwa chake, timatembenukira ku zochita zina zomwe mnzanu amagonana. Ndikosavuta kwambiri kudikirira matamando - onse ovomerezeka komanso enieni. Mutha kuponyera mapiri, kukhala ngwazi ya Olimpiki ndikukhala ndi nthawi yokonzekera chakudya chamadzulo, koma nkhanza zosasangalatsazi ndi nsidze sizikhala - izi ndizabwino kwambiri. Nthawi zambiri zomwe mwachita, kupambana ndi zomwe mwachita zimanyozedwa, kusankha katswiri kumakanidwa, ndipo ntchitozo zimatsutsidwa mu fluff ndi fumbi. "Inde, ndani akuchitira anthu, kodi mukufuna kukhala opemphedwa bwanji?",
Kuwongolera pa inu ndi cholinga chachikulu cha Abizer
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Kunyoza mfundo zanu pamutu uliwonse, malingaliro ndi zigamulo zanu. Kuphatikiza apo, ziphunzitsozo zimangokuseka (mokoma mtima, mokoma mtima, nthabwala, koma osakhazikika ndikunyalanyaza zopempha kuti musiye kuzimitsa). Ngati mwakhumudwitsidwa, ndiye kuti mudzalandira mphotho ya nthabwala komanso chifukwa chachikulu. Malinga ndi munthu wakupha, sangakhale wolakwa, chifukwa chake mukulakwitsa. Mwa njira, ngati mungayesere nthabwala naye poyankha, mudzakhala ndi mphamvu yakukwiya komanso kupanda ulemu. Tikulonjeza: Kulimbana ndi kuchira kwa ulemu kumakupatsani.
Ngati zotheka zanu za wogwiririra zimanyalanyaza, ndiye zolakwitsa zenizeni zidzalandiridwa ndi iwo ndipo zidzakhala fanizo mwa anthu. Palibe tsatanetsatane womwe udzasowa ndi Wopulumutsa kunja - zonse zidzapulumutsidwa mu zonse ndi zopondera.
Zonsezi ndizoseketsa, nthabwala, kunyoza, kunyalanyaza ndikunyalanyaza nthawi zonse - posachedwa kudzapangitsa kuti kudzidalira kwanu kudzayamba kugwa mwachangu. Nthawi zina, mudzasiya kukhulupilira kuti, kugwira ntchito pa atatu, kugwira ntchito limodzi mwa ana ndi nyumba, kudzichirikiza kukhala ndi "tox" yosayerekezeka, chitani zinthu zapadera. "Palibe chodzinyadira nokha, aliyense akuthana ndi izi ..." - Uthenga wamkulu wa wogwiririra, mothandizidwa ndi zomwe amayamba kuti akuletse bwino komanso moyo wanu.
Mwa njira, kuwongolera pa inu ndi cholinga chachikulu cha Abizer. Mwamuna wokhala ndi ulemu wosakhazikika mosavuta komanso molondola, chifukwa pambuyo pa ovomerezeka pamwambapa, wogwiririra kwambiri "amaphatikizapo" zojambula zolemetsa zolemera. Mwachitsanzo, mnzanu angayambitse kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama zanu, kufuna kupereka ndalama zogwiritsidwa ntchito, kudzudzula zomwe mungasankhe zovala kapena zinthu, poganiza kuti mumakupatsani mwayi woyenera kulola (kuwerenga "osayeneranso izi"). Zisankho zotengedwa popanda chidziwitso ndi kuvomerezedwa kwake zidzagonjetsedwa, ndipo mudzakhala wolakwa. Chifukwa chake, muyenera kugwirizanitsa ndi mnzanu wotereulendo wopita ku sinema, mu cafe wokhala ndi atsikana, ngakhale sitolo. Aliyense wodziimira pawokha angawonedwe ngati kusamvera - ndipo adzakhala chifukwa chokulakwirani. Mwambiri, zolembedwa, masewera olimbitsa thupi ndikuyesera kukukakamizani kuti mumadziimba mlandu - zikwangwani zowala kwambiri zomwe zikuluzikulu ndizosavuta kudziwa. Chinthu chinanso chomwe chimachitika ndi chosalephera kapena kukayikira kupempha chikhululuko. Ayi. Palibe chilichonse Kupatula umodzi: Wogwiririrayo akamva kuti mumangokumbatirana.
Mwanjira ina, ndikufuna kutchula njira yachikale yomwe imagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi anthu oopsa, otchedwa kuwala. Mawuwo adafika pazambiri kuchokera ku sinema: mu kanema "kuunikira kwa mafilimu" a 1945, ndibwino kwambiri, monga mwamunayo, kumalumikira mkazi wake, kukakamiza mkazi wake kumva. Kwenikweni, izi zimakhala ndi mchere wamakhalidwe. Mnzanu wankhanza amakana zakukhosi kwanu komanso zokumana nazo, ndikundikakamiza kuti ndizikaikira zenizeni zake. "Zinkawoneka kwa inu", "nonse ndinu oyambitsa, kuti ichi sichinangophika, ndipo inu ..." Mukunama "," Ndiwe woganiza bwino " , "Mumakonda kukokomeza", "o Inde, palibe china chomwe chinachitikapo" - ngati mukumva mawu oterewa kuchokera kwa wokondedwa wanu, samalani, pali chifukwa chongoganizira kuti akukuchitirani. Kuwala kwa mabasi ndi njira imodzi yosaoneka bwino kwambiri, koma yowononga m'zida za Abduzer. Ngati mukukayika pokambirana za zochita zanu ndi mawu anu, mumaopa kupanga zisankho, fotokozerani zakukhosi, pemphani nthawi zonse kuti atikhululukire, mwachidziwikire, maluso amalemekezedwa.
Kuzindikira - Gawo Kumachiritsa
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Pali kutuluka
Kodi mungakhale bwanji ngati mutadzidziwira pakati pa maubale oopsa? Sizovuta kuthyola mgwirizano wakupha mlandu, chifukwa nsembeyo ndiyofunikira kwa wozunza. Palibe amene akukulolani kupita ndi dziko lapansi, ndipo kuchokera kuno pali njira ziwiri.
Ngati mukumvetsetsa kuti membala wa nkhanza kumayambiriro kwa komwe mudakumana nawo ndipo mukukhulupirira m'maganizo, mutha kuyesa kumaliza ubalewu. Konzekerani chasters, nsanje, maluso a nsanje, malonjezo achikondi kwa bokosi, kuyesa kusewera mu kudziimba mlandu komanso kuwamvera chisoni. Wogwiririra m'maganizo amamvetsetsa mtengo wa cholumikizira ndipo adzagwiritsa ntchito izi motsutsana nanu.
Ngati zingakhale mphamvu, palibe chikhumbo, palibe mpata woti amalize ndi abisano, mnzake yemwe ali ndi vuto la poizoni ndi kholo lanu kapena mwana, muyenera kupanga magawo angapo. Tengani lamulo kamodzi pa sabata kuti mudzichitire kena kake, osadziyika wosankhika komanso osayesa kulungamitsa lingaliro Lake. Osamapita ndi zokhumudwitsa, kumbukirani zofuna zanu ndi zofuna zanu. Dziwani kuti palibe amene adzavutika ndi zomwe mumalengeza za zikhumbo zanu ndi malire anu.
Mwa njira, za malire - kudzikumbutsa okha. Mvetsetsani kuti sizovomerezeka kwa inu kuti simupipiretu kuti muyenera kusiya pompano. Lumikizani izi kwa wozunza komanso chidziwitso pamavuto a malire anu ndi kuphwanya malamulo. Onetsetsani kuti mukukumbukira thandizo lomwe abwenzi lingakhale nalo, komanso magulu a thandizo la malingaliro. Ndikofunikira kuti mudziwe kuti mumakonda komanso mumakonda.
Osayesa kusintha wozunza wanu. Zomwe mungachite ndikuti musagonjetsedwe ndikumuwonetsa mtundu wina wa maubale. Koma kudyetsa chiyembekezo kuti machiritso a wozunza sikuyenera - uwu ndi moyo wake, ndipo simuli ndi mlandu.
Ndipo koposa zonse: Pa mizu pake, kumverera kwa wolakwayo. Palibe chifukwa chochitira ziwawa zomwe mukuwongolera zingakhale zomveka. Omwe akuzunzidwa chifukwa amakhulupirira zomwe amayenera kukhala ndi nkhanza. Amene angakuuzeni, ndikofunikira kukumbukira kuti ndinu munthu wapadera yemwe moyo wake ndi wamtengo wapatali.
Ngati wozunza ndi inu ...
Kuzindikira - sitepe yoyatsira machiritso. Anthu amakonda zachiwawa zamaganizidwe sadziwa zimphona, osati zokumana nazo, komanso zovuta zamaganizidwe, ovutitsidwa, ankhanza komanso osakonda. Dzipangeni nokha ndi mawonekedwe anu, yesani kukumbukira kuti njira ya wochikirayo yayamba bwanji.
Ndikofunikira kwambiri kuyamba kusanthula zomwe mumachita, kuyesera kumvetsetsa zomwe zimayambitsa, ndiye kuti zimayambitsa zachiwawa. Dzifunseni mafunso: Kodi chidzachitike ndi chiyani ngati simufuula / kutukwana / inoize / kwezani mu phula lokhumudwitsa? Khalidwe lanzeru ndi njira yopambana.
Muyenera kumvera omwe mwakhudzidwa popanda "koma", kulungamitsidwa ndi kumveketsa kwa mgwirizano. Ntchito yanu ndikuyimirira m'malo mwa munthu yemwe akuvutika ndi nkhanza, ndikuyesera kumva komwe ili. Komanso: Onetsetsani kupepesa kwa omwe mudakhumudwitseni komanso inunso. Ndipo pepani!