Patchuthi, sindikufuna kuganizira mavuto, ndipo chifukwa chake ambiri a ife timapuma kwambiri. Nthawi zina kwambiri kuti amadabwa, chifukwa amaganiza za buku lokhala ndi ntchito yabwino kwambiri kapena munthu wopumulayo. Kuti buku losinthasintha likuti "limapereka" zotsatirapo zosasangalatsa, tidzanena, ndi malamulo ati omwe amangidwa ndi katswiri wapachulukidwe ka tchuthi.
Osawopa kuwonetsa zoyambitsa
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Khalani okonzeka kupanga nokha
M'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku, titha kudikira kosatha ndipo titha kuchedwetsa nthawi yomwe mawonekedwe a mwamunayo idzayambitsidwa. Patchuthi muli ochepa munthawi yake, ngati munthu, ngati phirili m'mawu otchuka, sapita kumisonkhano, tengani gawo loyambirira. Nyamula nthawi yoyenera mukakhala mnzanuyo adzakhala omasuka monga momwe tingathere, kenako bwerani mudzayambire kukambirana. Komabe, zindikirani kuti kumvera chisoni kumayenera kukhala vuto, apo ayi kuwononga nthawi.
Osawonetsa zofuna zapamwamba
Monga tanenera, muli ndi nthawi yochepa, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti kusaka amuna abwino kumafuna kuwonjezera. Simuyenera kudandaula kapena mtundu wake wachilengedwe, palibe malingaliro amtsogolo - mumakhala pano ndipo tsopano, pa malo odyera a m'mphepete mwa nyanjayi. Zachidziwikire, muyenera kusangalala kukhala wina ndi mnzake, koma osati "sitima" kapena inu nokha.
Chisoni chiyenera kukhala chosokoneza
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Kumbukirani chitetezo
Simungadziwe kuti mudzakumana ndi ndani kum'mwera. Mwamuna wokongola komanso wosangalatsa mu mphamvu zonse akhoza kukhala wankhanza kapena wochimwa wamba. Anthu otere amayesa kuphunzira za inu momwe mungathere, ngakhale pafupifupi palibe chilichonse chokhudza inu. Ngati mukukayikira za kudziwa zatsopano, musazengereze kunena zabwino - simunakumanepo kwina kulikonse.
Mudzisunge
M'moyo wamba, tiyenera kusewera maudindo ambiri: kuntchito, kunyumba, ndi abwenzi, ndiye "kusiya" ndekha ndi inu. Musaganize za zomwe anthu azilankhula mozungulira - amasangalalanso. Mukuwona munthu wosangalatsa? Yesani kugwira maso ake. Palibe kuyankha? Yang'anani winanso, phindu la amuna omasuka m'mphepete mwa ndalama zabwino. Kuphatikiza apo, palibe amene amaletsa kuti musangalale m'mawa ku bar, kuvina ndi choyambirira chobwera ndikusangalala ndi moyo.
Chisoni chiyenera kukhala chosokoneza
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Chitetezo ndi chisangalalo nthawi zonse zimayendera
Ngati titakambirana za chitetezo chakuthupi, sitingachokere ndikunyalanyaza chitetezo pakugonana, komwe mukafunafuna, ndikudziwana masana pa veranda ya malo odyera. Ngati mungapite kudera lakutali, mwachitsanzo, pachilumbachi, pomwe pali zovuta posankha ndalama zakulera zomwe zili zoyenera kwa inu, kusamalira nkhaniyi musananyamuke. Kumbukirani kuti chitetezo chanu chimangokhala pamapewa anu, simuyenera kudalira choyambirira chobwera, zilibe kanthu kuti walumbira bwanji? Samalani.